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ok so i am 15 and i have this friend and me and her are great friends but she considers me as a brother and not a boyfriend....i have told her s everal times that i feel like we can be more...and she doesnt want to ruin anything even though i know i would never let anything come between us EVER...she currently has a boyfriend of like 3 months but i kno he doesnt care for her because when ever she wants to see him he makes up an excuse not to and when i want to hang out with her she does the same thing to me...it just doesnt make sense and i dont know what to do...what should i do? i was considering sending her the link to the song For You I Will by Teddy Geiger..is that a good choice? (link)
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Very similiar situation as to one i use to have ok well maybe she is in kinda deep with this guy if she doesnt get the hint that he really doesnt like her and thats probably why shes ignoring you and if you ask me i think that you 2 being so close would be a kinda bad idea i'm sure now that if you were to go out with her things would be ok but remember YOU KNOW HER very well and things would probably feel weird if you guys broke up because whoever dumps who it will be weird think about it
Good luck
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hi im 13 and my boyfriend is 16 yes i know thats an age gap. well i understand that he likes drinkin and ya i do to sadly. but i dont really do it as much anymore. and he told me staright up he was gonna stop. then he went out and did it again and i asked him why he said that when he didnt mean to and he said because he just wanted to. well sometimes i feel like he would rather be drinking and other stuff then rather being with me like beer is more important. how can i stop myself from feeling this way.
p.s he ditches me to go do that stuff (link)
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If he was serious about being with you he would stop and there would be NO DRINKING and no slip ups and accidental drinks if you dont like him drinking and you told him and he does it anyway hes really not taking you seriously. you should let him know that if drinking is more important than you guys together than maybe you should take a risk and maybe end it and if he really likes you he'll stop and come back. Drinking is very serious and it hurts people. I'm sure things will be fine
Good luck
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me and this guy were good friends in 7th grade then in 8th grade we went out then broke up and stopped talkin and now we r in 8th grade and we r talkin again cuz but we really dont know wut to talk about when we talk. can sumone give me sum ideas to talk about?? (link)
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ok well sports art music tv books anything talents colors or you could play truth or dare on the phone anything you guys are friends you can make it work.. .Good luck
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i have my own xanga and that already i just want ppl to have the opertunity to donate money to me. if i dont use my paypal account at all will it still charge me or should i close my account? (link)
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i will tell you that you should probly close the account and open up a new one and then talk to me ok? good luck
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i was wondering how i use paypal. i want to use it on my xanga so ppl can send me donations but i was wondering if it cost me anything just to have the account and if i can do it with the basic personal one that i have. please give me any other info that you have on it too to help me. the web site just confused me. (link)
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Hey ok well paypal does cost money and they will nail you for it trust me i have my own but a normal xanga doesnt cost anything and you can cgange the colors if you'd like go to LooK&FeeL dont worry good luck!
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13/f Ive played basketball for 5 yaers but this is diffrent i realy wanna make the JV squad and lets just say since last season ended in March ive done alot if couch sitting and junk food eating...what can i do to get back in to shape...tryouts are November 4th (link)
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work out, jog around do a sport or something athletic or something that can get your muscles pumped before the season starts! dont worry you can do it if you put your heart to it good luck!
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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH (link)
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I bet hes sweet and stuff and you love him but it does get nervous to tell guys how we feel i usally talk to mine and we get soo in our lovey dovey stage i start to whimper and i let it out just do it he'll take it good he loves you 2 so its no sweat...
Good luck
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I am a dancer and when im home alone... i dance lol.. what are some good fast pace songs that are good to dance to? (link)
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you should consiter
Stand up
Ciara 1 2 step
others jus go to Mtv or Bet kiss one 0 7
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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe (link)
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Ok well theres nothing wrong with it but it also depends on your age if you should wear one or not. I'm 13 and i wear one but guys might be a little eyein you because they love thongs i cant explain it but good luck with that remember I'm always here
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i need some suggestions on how to earn some extra money. I don't really like to babysit but i do anyway and thats not really cuttin' it. I really want to buy a few new things, but i don't know how i can pay for it all! any suggestions? (link)
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ok well this is not a problem u can also do some extra things for people if they would allow u to like washing dishes or cutting lawns or deliverin papers going to get groceries dont worry every one needs help and I bet they'll pay no worries good luck!
if all else fails get a job
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in livejournal..how can i post a picture..like im in an icon community and i really want to post some icons but i don't know how. (link)
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ok i'm gonna keep this short and sweet to the point this is an advice column not the geek bargade so please dont contact us if you dont have a real problem! thanks
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ok, i'm gonna keep this short and simple. i'm addicted to this game called Crystal Quest. anybody know where i can download it for FREE (on my stupid 5-year-old computer, by the way.)?????
thanxz,
MaRi (link)
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ok well umm go to www.downloadinggames.com and that will help i guess no worries(it might not work)if not go to google google has everything
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im the one who asked about what songs to play..well im getting a good list..am i being too demanding if i have a big list ? i just dont want crappy songs being played at my party..i want the dj to know what i want. honestly am i being too picky or will the dj be cool with me having a big list of songs to play? (link)
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he's getting paid isnt he? if he is it shouldnt matter and no your not being picky dont think that ! if hes not do a medium sized list good luck
i'm always here
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i recently i needed help with my g/f and i wasnt sure if i should break up with her or not.....well anyways, i broke up with her and now her family is mad at me and she told me that she was crying and everything like taht and now i feel really bad but i want to be friends still but she told me she still like sme......im So lost =(
IM GOING INSAINE! (link)
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ok well if you just want to be friends shes like really trying to push you but do what you feel is right she cant decide for you plus I bet you had your reaseons why you dumped her no worries things will go fine good luck
(i'm always here)
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Does anyone know (please) some quick solutions to a zit...I'm not talking a pimple but one of the bigger zits that form under the skin and hurt=( i just want it to decrease in size without it becoming a scab. Please help! (link)
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its called stridex lol but ok well it could be something else an asist it is filled with puss and you need surgery to get it off or some kind of medication to get it off no worries stay kool good luck (i'm alwways here)
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On the last day of school, I was particularly mad at my friend for ditching me at the mall to hang out with some other people, so I was telling my friends how mean and stupid she was when I realized my crush was behind me and he accidentally heard me ragging on my friend. He said, "I didn't hear what you said," and walked out after I gave him a look of complete shame because I was upset he heard me at a bad time. Since it was the last day of school, I have no time to make it better.
I live near him though- should I go talk to him to make him remember me on a good note? (link)
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Ok "bad note" this is whats up you sjould deffinetlery go tlk to him to get him on a good note with you because you wouldnt want things to end the year with a few things out of place so go for it no worries good luck (im always here)
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my problem is slightly strange.iam 17 yr old female and i have been working at my current part time job since last july and fancied a colleague called joe. but recently i have found myself attracted to my GAY boss as we have lots of fun together and sometimes flirt in my opinion. i think he does this because he knows i fancy him and i don't know what to do as iam still attracted to joe as well. please help me! (link)
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yuor boss is a guy and hes gay you cant change that but maybe youhould go for JoE maybe hes better for you if you both get along and stuff no worries!good luck
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I'm actually underweight for my age and height. I need to gain weight, and i want to gain HEALTHY and SAFE weight. any suggestions?
thanks! -i rate- (link)
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i dont know what exactly to suggest but eat more exercise less(if u do) and visist ur doctor if thats not doing good but its proley your size my friend is a dam small chick but shes grown over two years dont worry everythnig will be fine!good luck
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im 14 almost 15 and im a girl alrite well im going out with this guy and i've never really kissed anyone well little pecks with an ex bf and those weren't great but when he went to kiss me he had his mouth wide open and just went for it not a french kiss but ya know wut i mean..anyways i didnt kiss him back cuz i have no idea how to kiss..i need major help cuz i really like this guy and im embaressed to tell him why i didnt kiss him back and i really dont wanna lose him but i do need to know how to kiss..so in that situation how am i suppose to kiss (link)
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Ok "kiss" no need to be embarrassed i didnt know how to kiss till last summer but ok kissing is like whats that game oo yeah wrestiling all you do is when he leans to kiss you if you feel comfrotable open your mouth and he'll get the point and then stick your tongue in his mouth and dont be all weirded out but he'll then put his in your mouth then you just wrestle back and fourth dont think i'm weird i just know LoL only do it if your comfrotable dont do anything you dont want to !good luck
(i'm always here)
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Ok, this is kind of embarrassing, but I'm 13 and I'm going to be in the 9th grade in August. I weigh about 160 pounds and I'm about 5'1". Is that obese? I'm very troubled by my weight and try to do my best getting it off but I don't know what to do. As I said, I'm only 13 and don't really have as many resources as, for instance, a 30 year-old that wants to lose weight does. For example, they can wake up and go straight to the gym, come home have a nutritious lunch, go out and do something active, and come home and have a nutritous me. Me-Wake up, (can't legally drive so I can't go anywhere) ask my mom to take me to the gym. Her response-"Maybe later." and I never end up going. And well I see I'm blabbing on and on here...so here's my question- am I at a healthy or obese weight and what can I do to try to be thinner and lighter? Thanks bunches!! (link)
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your not obsese not at all your thirteen i have a friend in the 8th that is 13 and hes 175 and hes 5'2 your not obese and going to the gym if you dont like yourself then do easy things at home like stomach crunches or sit up push ups anything that will make yourself like you better but ive seen so many go starve themselves never resort to that thats the last thing you should do my advice is basically do whatever it is to make you like the way you look good luck (i'm always here)
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