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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH
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So long as you do get it to him some way don't stress about it! A lot of people have the same problem...myself included. Just keep sending him those emails. Bye the way, they are extra special because he can keep them to look at again another time! :)
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Oh my goodness i am liek your twin. I am so the boy in teh relationship when it comes to being sensitive. My boyfriend will say things to me that other girls would find sweet but i find compltely cheesy and find myself holding back laughter. There is really nothing you can do other than to try to say something verbally to him every once in a while. I'm not saying it has to be "i love you" or "i can't live without you"... nothing to dramatic or anything. A simple "you are awesome" or "i like spending time with you" will do. Remember... he is a boy. Just casue he is good at experessing his feelings doesn't mean he needs the same feeligns in return. He'd probably feel on top of the world if you just gave him a compliment. Good luck. Leave some in my inbox if you want more help...
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You could call him on the phone or text him on his phone. Hope it works out!
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Listen there's no reason why you can't express your feelings to him over letters there really is no reason why not your cool to do that that's normal for a woman to do that but if it really came down to something like getting married put everything in front of you behind and don't be afraid if you two love each other the way you say you do then he'll be happy off of every word that you said trust me i'm rated 5 but that don't mean nothin still rate me no matter what.
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i cant get it out either, sometimes its hard to express your love and compassion for someone in words. my boyfriend of a year and a half just had this conversation last night. i just tell him how much i care about him, and tell him that there is so much more that i want to say, but that i dont know how, all that i know how to say is that i love you. and thats sweet. you know? also, say how you care about him and stiff like that. :)
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As Nike says, just do it.
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You could always practice in front of the mirror I suppose. If you're looking for a creative way to tell him then write him a song, a poem, make a painting, one day if he comes over for pizza arrange the pepperonis in the shape of a heart, if you're really into drama, try writing a monologue and then just recite it to him and it'll seem natural. I wouldn't worry much about not being able to come up with the words, that just makes it all the more fun! Think of things that you could play off of to make it easier. Improv. such as...
If he remarks something like "follow your heart!" say, "I don't know, what does my heart say?" then... "I don't know!" and you'll respond with "You should know, you're most of it."
Good luck, if you have anymore questions I'll try to help.
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just when you are on the phone with him or something and you are about to hang up just say i love you, then bye.
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That's normal. Ive seen in shows things like this and all that. Either your too shy or nervous about it. Or maybe you dont really love him. Maybe your scared? Who knows. But im thinkin you just need to give it time. If you really love him, eventually you should be able to tell him so. But let him know you do care about him. And SHOW that you love him. That's the most important thing.
♥ nicole
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If you really do like him .. let him know.. in person .. give him a kiss and tell him how you feel. He can do it.. so you should be able too. You dont have to come out and tell him that you really love him and stuff.Just tell him hopw special he is to you. How happy you are with him , how he makes you laugh ... and then when you're ready.. you can tell him that you love him .. as for me .. i havent been in love.. LUV yes ...but LOVE noway..
hope i helped
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You know, I am the same way... only with emotions of depression, anger, or saddness. For some people it's just hard to express emotions verbally... we feel safer when we write it and they read it elsewhere. Let it start getting to the point that you write you love him, and have him read it in front of you. Once you get used to that, then perhaps trying to say I love you over the phone. And once you're used to that(knowing you wont get hurt by verbally expressing it to him while not in person), then give it a try in person. But don't just jump in head first... you'll feel like your choking. Always wade into the water slowly when you're nervous.
<3 Nyx
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I bet hes sweet and stuff and you love him but it does get nervous to tell guys how we feel i usally talk to mine and we get soo in our lovey dovey stage i start to whimper and i let it out just do it he'll take it good he loves you 2 so its no sweat...
Good luck
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