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Hey whats good?? my name is Kerry .. im 15 years young .. and i go to Blackstone Valley Tech.. well.. what ever u wanna no .. jus ask .. i am good at giving advice..i guess its cuz ive been through a lot.. well .. u no what to do

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I know this one girl, lets call her Natasha. Natasha goes to this high school that's pretty close to my high school so i see her pretty often. I really like her alot, but it seems like she never notices me. we met once but i don't think she remembers. She's always hanging around these other people i know who are also my friends. How am i gonna get her to notice me?

..When you see her.. just walk up and start talking to her.. ask her she is doing and if she remembers you. I think if you do things in person it makes it a little more sweet. If everything goes great. ask her if she has a screen name.. start talking to her online.. and then on the phone.. and then ask her if she would like to go out with u .. fist as friends.. and if the relationship goes good.. ask her out.. Well i really hope i helped some

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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?

Well she could be a little nervous about moving ahaead in the relationship. Just because some girls say it doesnt mean that they will. You might wanna give her time, she might be a little scared that once you guys move on, and you get what you want that you will leave her. Alot of girls feel like that, but what you might be able to do is talk to her, and tell her how much you like her, and that you would never hurt her. which i hope you wont. Remember start off slow, and if things are getting pretty hott.. then move on, and dont stop at kissing.

well hope i helped ♥ Kerry

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hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss!

Wow. you must really love him. What you could do to show him how much youlove him is kind of plan something romantic, Maybe dinner, or movies at your house, and every once in a while.. whisper in his ear how much u care for him... and when hes around his friends .. just randomly hold his hand.. Remember guys have a EGO .. and its kinda like Male PMS haha. Explain to him how much you really love him, and let him know if you didnt really love him .. then why did you come back to him. Maybe try something new, something to get him a lil excited, and to know that you are always thinking about him .. Well i hope i helped.. and if there is anything else i can do for you.. Just ask

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ok i got a boyfriend that i love with all my heart. we talk on the phone everynight.. we talk from 10:30 until 1 sometimes 3 in the mornin and when we talk we basically talk about nothin but i love doing it except my mom doesnt like. last night she took the phone away from me and wouldnt even let me say bye. and i need to figure out how i can still talk to him at that time of night without gettin in trouble?? it isnt because i dont i call waiting on my phone and i dont know why she complains.. it shouldnt bother her she is usually sleepin during that time.. and plus it is summer and i dont have school the next day.. i would like to know some way so that i can get the phone and talk to my boyfriend without gettin in trouble?? thanks.

Well there is always the computer.. that always works for me, Your mom prolly thinks that there are better things you can do at night than talk to your boyfriend. What you could do to get the phone back is tell you mom that you will only talk to him on the phone for an hour everynight.. at around 9: 00 maybe 9 : 30 ,.. it might work

hope i helped

___x0o Kerry

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i am a 14/f and i am the oldest from my sisters. well my parents are Over protective like the other day i went outside to take a walk with my sister and my mom made my dad come after uis. but anyways i have a boyfriend (Which i am not supposed to have) he is 15 and i like him a lot. but i need to get a way so that i can get out of the house and spend sometime with him with my parents bein able to trust me.. they always think i am up to something bad and they think my boyfriend is only a friend of mine. he lives about a 15 minute drive away from me and i want meet up with him how can? and if i get my friend to go to the mall i dont want her to be left behind because he will be with me and if he brings a friend my friend wont like him because she only likes italians... so yea i really some help. please.

Hey .. yeah my parents were the same way. Im sure it's not you they dont trust, it's everyone that us around you. I have heard that from ym parents before, what i did was when i wanted a boyfriend, i didnt sneak around, and make my parents wonder. What i did was talk to my mom about it. We were in the car, and i was coming home from cheer practice and i told my mom about this guy that i really liked, she was so happy that i talked to her about it, and she told me hey.. have a life, soo i thats when my parents started to let me date, Let your parents know that you are growing up and they cant treat you as if you were 4 years old. Tell them to trust you more, and make your own errors in life. Just talk to them, im sure they would understand, and if that doesnt work .. Gasoline and a match will do the trick♥♥♥♥
Hopei helped out

x0o_______x0o Kerry

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i was just wondering wot do guyz chat about? do they chat bout gurlz? plz can sumone even if they aint a guy tell me plz i rate high

Well i guess so, some guys do. But every guy is different so they talk about different things. Sometimes its sports, school, friends, clothes.. Really there jus like girls in a way.. but . they jus dont talk AS much as most girls haha
♥ Kerry

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ok i got a this background but look at this it only shows at the top

http://www.myspace.com/xxarianalynnxx

any advice on how to fix that?

i'll rate high

What you can do is use Toms myspace web pimper, it always works, it also depends on where you are placing ur backgrond and the url.. but your best bet is to use Toms web pimper.

Hope i helped sum

x0oxKerry

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me and my b/f have been going out for a month and i never see him...he is always working. he said he will make time for me but he never does....i really like him and dont want to dump him but idont see how we can go on like this!!!

You have to remember that he is working, and think of how hard it is for him.. i mean i bet he feels the same way.. but you guys should really set a day date to fgo out. What i mean is plan ahead and pick a day that both of you guys are free.

♥ Kerry

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my friend is giving me a really hard time, because i didn't go somewhere with her, she makes fun of me and my myspace http://www.myspace.com/x333333

and she makes fun of me because she really doesn't know me... like she makes fun of that i don't have a bf at the moment, she acts like my time keeper, she schedules things for me, she hurts me, and she gets me in trouble, ALOT.. so how can i make her calm down and stay the way we were or not? help mee!!

o and yeah, she really REALLY needs some help, i didnt go somewhere with her and she is like "you know what? im never talking to you, dont call me, dont im me anymore, and dont even think about me, or visit my myspace, or even look at my things, i sware to god, if you do, you won't be alive by the next day" so she really needs help, badlyy, MENTLE PROBLEMS? maybey?

x0o PLEASE HELP MEEE PLEASE!!!


form - - being bullied

Someone who flips out like that isnt a friend and they dont deserve the privilege of being called one. Hey i think ur myspace is fine. As long as your happy then what does it matter to anyone else, and as for the "friend" you need to dump her ass. Tell her how it's goin to be, and just because there is shit mest up in her life doesnt mean that she can bring you down too. Well hope I helped sum

♥ Kerry

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well here's how it goes I what to get this guy a gift , I was thinking a cd but don't know what rap singer thats in style.need help guys please speak up

a good way to find out who is at the top of the charts right now is go to www.yahoo.com and then go to music.. there you will find top R&B and hip hop songs and artist

x0oxoKerry

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Is it possible to finish a whole grade during the summer? If so, where would you go?, what would be the requirements? etc..

I no school isnt the best.. but i mean come on .. whaen you get older.. you going to wish that you didnt do an online school.. and ur really not getting everything that you need in an education .. plus alot of colleges dont except on line school.. I guess its because its kind of new ..

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School is coming up quickly and i need help with some clothes to wear and makeup. i need to get some hot clothes but not to exspensive. Also, what about make-up. i need something that will bounce make people look at me u know. Also for hair my hair what do u suggest. pleassse repile.
Thanz

Tamia

Hey .. this is a question that i have been waiting for... im going to school for this type of thing
( i hope) well anyway when it comes to the make up .. it all depends on what you look like. .. if you're pail skined then you dont want to wear dark colors...
first make up - for pail skin Use bright eye shadow like a sky blue .. and light pink eye liner.. i no what your thinking ..what?? but believe me it will look good.. or.. you could use dark brown eyeliner on ur eyelids.. covered by light brown shadow..and NYC Lipgloss.. as for clothes with pale skin.. wear light colors like yellow .. light blue.. pink .. .. but not to bright you look like a macy day float..

if you are white to tan- then black eyeliner and shimmer purple eye shadow is a good way to go .. also NYC lipgloss with a light brown lip liner.. that what i always use .. as for clothes..
if you wear bright pink.. then it will make your skin look darker.. jeans that fit nicely make you look slimmer.. dont buy anything to tight .. or to loose.. .. you want people to be able to see your curves

If you're dark skin then a great eyeliner is white for the tops of your eyes lids.. i also use that .. it lookes nice and makes your eyes brighter .. believe me people will notice also NYC lipgloss with lip liner.. lol as for clothes.. nice fit flare jeans.. light shorts.. brand tees.

a new hair style wont hurt.

xo0xoKerry

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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH

If you really do like him .. let him know.. in person .. give him a kiss and tell him how you feel. He can do it.. so you should be able too. You dont have to come out and tell him that you really love him and stuff.Just tell him hopw special he is to you. How happy you are with him , how he makes you laugh ... and then when you're ready.. you can tell him that you love him .. as for me .. i havent been in love.. LUV yes ...but LOVE noway..

hope i helped

X0oX0oKerry

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ok, my mom said no i couldnt go to the movies but i really really need to go. I mean, i haven't seen my boyfriend since the 22 of June. I really need to go to the movies to do SOMETHING with him. But my mom wont drive me, so i want somehow to get to the movies and back and then i want to get money to pay. I only need like 5.50. But i need to go at 7:20 (Eastern Time) Tonight! Please help!!!

Explain to your mom how important it is to see him. and that its not fair to you. or you can have him come over to your house and watch movies there. A great way to convince your mom is to remind her what it was like to be your age . and all the things that she wanted to do but she couldnt.. well it always works on my mom .. that and please!!!

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My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.

I'm scared for her.

Any Advice??...

- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.


Thank you

Well i can tell you that it wont be easy. What your friend should do is tell her mother.. really sit down and talk to her about it.. her mother is her mother.. there is no way out of it. If shes does end up gettign kicked out of the house there is many places that she can go to .. there are hospitals where they would take her. Any hospital. and as for the baby. Just tell her that abortion isnt the only option, there is also addoption. Everybody desirves a chance to live. Anyway the best thing that i can say and think of is to have her REALLy talk to her mom about it.. her mother knows what it is like to have a child.. plus she is 21. hope i helped
x0ox0oxKerry

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i was talking to my gf on the phone when one of her friends started telling stuff that i dont know about her like she thinks this guys is hot and bunch of other stuff...so....i asked her to tell me everything cause a bunch ppl told me the same thing....and now she told me and i feel bad cause some of them are because of me......and i love her but i dont know how to tell im really sry. i have gone to her friends for help....none of them know what to do.....so please help me...?

Well .. just remember .. just because she's on a diet doesnt mean she cant check out the menu .. what im saying is just because she has a boyfriend doesnt mean she cant check out other guys.. i no you must feel a little pissed off about it.. but its true .. what you really need to do is not ask her friends.. ask her whats going on in your relationship... ..you have to remind her that its you and her .. not you her and everyone else.. thats how break ups happen .. but anyways you really need to talk to her... alone.. and ask her how she feels about the relationship.. and if there is ne thing that needs to be changed..

well i hope i helped

xo0oxKerry

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Ok i want my lip peirced reallll bad on either the right or the left . I dont know bout the middle... its possible. But any way... i want to know if its safe or if any thing could happen. Like ive herd it can damage nerves or sumthin like that or cause a gum disease, I Dont Know I just want to know for sure. Or if theres any thing i can do to keep it from doing any thing wrong. Please help THANKS (rates high)

Hahaha i no how you feel.. ok the best way to handdle this is make sure when you fo to get it done you go somewhere where they explain every little thig about it. Ask as many questions as you can think of.. if they can answer it.. and its in paragraph form .. then you're good to go .. but .. if there like well.. we arnt quite sure.. its different on everyone.. then no dont get it done.. it doesnt hurt.. the only way it can hurt is if you think it will .. haha.. and when you get it done.. ask them what the ring is made of.. make sure its a high quality medal .. that was shipped right from the factory to the place ur getting it done at.. and make sure u clean it twice a day.. going in a ppol is fine.. but dont go into a hot tub for atleast 10 days.. ora lake.. due to the bacteria that lives on top.. the ocean is also a good place to go .. the salt water really helps clean out ne germs.. well i hope my advice helps


x0ox0xKerry

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well theirs this REALLY hot guy who me and him both wanna make*out, im scared im not good enough for him =/ i need some tips on making out and exactly what to do to make my kiss MEMORABLE =) i rate really high!! ((top ratings for everyone))

Well.. let me just start off by saying if he really likes you.. he really wont care.. but i guess i know what you are saying .. i used to feel the same way around guys.. what i can tell you is hey make out with him and see what happens.. you should really talk to him about how you feel, because you never know.. he might think the same thing about him self..

x0oKerry

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I want to really straighten my hair, I have a vidal Sassoon, and a black revlon straightener. I also have the Got2Be straightenin serum but I still cant get it all that straight.
Can some one please give me some step-by-step instructions on how to really straighten my hair?
I'll Rate BunChezZ!

A good way to Straighten your hair is take a shower.. wash your hair... then blow dry it right after. Then when its all dry..you divide it into layers.. and straighten it like that . That way all if it is done evenly and i can promise you... it will look good.. This is what i do Because i bought a straightener that wasnt to good.. but.. ne ways. . ,dont do it to many times.. or you might kill your hair.. i die mine all the times.. and straighened it like crazy.. and i noticed it started to die.. soo if you do get crazy with the straightener.. then buy pantene prov damage control.. it will help your hair out alot...and look healthy and feel thincker

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