Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?
EternalFolly answered Saturday July 23 2005, 11:01 pm: She may think she's ready but if there is any doubt in your mind about either of you being ready then you should wait. I was pressured into sex by my ex-girlfriend after one WEEK and I still feel bad about it. Waiting is not a bad thing. [ EternalFolly's advice column | Ask EternalFolly A Question ]
PrettyLady16 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 10:51 pm: just sit her down and really discuss if she is ready to do what you are so ready to do... dont try to force her into it though or she will most likely back away. So just REALLY talk to her and if she claims she is ready then go for it. if the time doesnt feel right for her then you can wait IF you are willing to* [ PrettyLady16's advice column | Ask PrettyLady16 A Question ]
KerryBoo answered Thursday July 21 2005, 6:35 pm: Well she could be a little nervous about moving ahaead in the relationship. Just because some girls say it doesnt mean that they will. You might wanna give her time, she might be a little scared that once you guys move on, and you get what you want that you will leave her. Alot of girls feel like that, but what you might be able to do is talk to her, and tell her how much you like her, and that you would never hurt her. which i hope you wont. Remember start off slow, and if things are getting pretty hott.. then move on, and dont stop at kissing.
Teza answered Thursday July 21 2005, 6:28 pm: If she said she wanted to then she does. If a girl doesnt want to do anything like that then we will simply just tell you how we feel about it. You can ask her if she is for sure she wants to and for her to tell you the truth. ♥// [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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