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When I was little I was abused by both my sister and my dad. As I got older it stopped and the yelling died down a little but its still there. Lately my dad and my sister have been yelling more and tonight I was sitting in my room and heard things being thrown and everything. Im not sure what was going on but I new my dad and sister were fighting and probly hurting eachother and I was scared out of my mind. I wanted to jump out of my window and run I was so scared. Im sitting here shaking afraid to leave my room and I don`t know what to do. Please help meh!
14/f
Love maddie

wow i know what your sayin ther was a lot of yelling going on when i was little sometimes it still goes on now when i was like 10 or 11 there use to be god fights and i would run to the bathroom because i was to scared to stop it or if mii cousin and her mom would fight i would hide or go tell all i can say is .....go im a quite place and write poems that always cheered me up like go in ur closet or bathroom just far away from ur dad and sister

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ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
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you know how you said you guys talk like 6 times a year well like begin to takl and then while you are talkin begin to talk about the things you like to do and maybe he likes them to and you guys can begin to hang out more and move on slowly

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This is my second time posting here on Advicenators. Well, I could really use some good advice here. I am 14 years old, never been kissed, hugged, dated..etc. I like older boys better because I know they tend to make the first moves and spoil you more, but I never thought I would end up like my best friends older brother. He's just two years older, not even. He's cute and he's funny, but he's really shallow. He's making me want to just die with the harsh things he says. He's always telling my friend Marissa* you should hang out with hot friends because all your friends are ugly. Right when I am sitting there. Now I can't stop hating myself.

Girl! you need to speak up tell that bitch that u aint ugly and he needs to get a fuckin life dont be so negative to yourself its what matters inside not out

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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?

all you really can do is talk to her be a man!
♥tabz

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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

hmm lets see this is a complicated question!! you have to step up you are lettin ppl walk on you ppl use to do that to me till i stepped up and said something someone shouldnt have to soend there whole like that tell them if they dont quit tabatha gonna come down there and do some serious ass wopin!!
♥tabz

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i like this boy but i dont think he likes me? what should i do

well all u can do really is face the truth take a deep breath and go 4 all he can say is yes or no and if he says no hes a real fuckin jerk
♥ tabz

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