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HOW CAN I? ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
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get his # and call him alot. dont be nervous about talking to him.ask him if he wants to hang out with you and sum friends sumtime.that way you can spend sum more time with him but it doesnt have to be 1 on 1 cuz tht would prolly make u relly nervous.
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well you guys can keep in contact by compupet if he has one. go to the movies, call each other on the phone. hang out whenever you get the chance. ]
I would just try to talk to him more && just tell him that you would like to become friends with him. Thats usually the best way to go about it. I'm sure after a while you guys will talk a lot more && then he'll be able to trust you && you'll be able to trust him. Sometimes guys are just shy && don't know what else to say in the conversation, so just try to be talkative! Good luck with everything && I hope I helped! If you need anything else - dont hesitate to leave it in my inbox!
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just start out by sayin hi n everything to him when you see him in the hall... and you can ask for his screenname and then talk to him online or if u get enough confidence ask for his number. ]
you know how you said you guys talk like 6 times a year well like begin to takl and then while you are talkin begin to talk about the things you like to do and maybe he likes them to and you guys can begin to hang out more and move on slowly ]
If you know any of his interests, talk about those with him more. If he likes a band that you haven't heard of, download some of their songs and talk about them with him the next day. Loan him a book or something. Ask for help with his favorite subject. Talk about movies. Just make it so you will have something to talk to him about.
Don't be afraid of putting yourself out there a bit more. He will never believe that you like him if you guys only talk 6 times a year. ]
ok its really not hard especially seeing as you already kno him well enough to talk to him. just keep that up. O and especially try and talk to him on instant messenger people seem to open up more when they cant see the other person ]
Just be outgoing aroundhim and don't feel nervous...guys liek it when you approach them and act all happy and vibrant...jst go up to him and be like heyyy wuts up...did you do mr. so nd so's hw...nd that'll get a convo started...you could then be liek hey me nd my friends r goin to a movie tonight do you wanna cum nd bring sum of your friends...guys don't usually pass it up when a girl asks them to come somewhere with them....but don't think its a date ya'll are juss hangin out at the movies!...hope i helped x0x ♥ ]
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