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I, Tony, am a worthless piece of shit, I abused my girlfriend and I'm pathetic! I got kicked out of the Army cause I wanted to kill myself and I have no job nor do I care!
E-mail: Eternal_Folly@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Florida
Occupation: Currently Unemployed
Age: 21
AIM: Reconciled Hate
Member Since: January 22, 2004
Answers: 75
Last Update: August 21, 2005
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Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?

tell me ur honest opinions please (link)
While I don't see anything morally wrong with it (Almost every girl I have dated has been between 2-8 years younger than me) you do have to be careful of the legality of the matter. In some states and type of remotely sexual contact between minors usually ends up beng illegal for the older person. For example in Florida a 16 year old can have sex with a 23 year old and it's legal. But that same 16 year old with a 15 year old is actually a crime! Check up on your local laws before getting to far and don't get caught if you do!


After about 10 minutes into a shower i'll start to get dizzy, my head will hurt, my vision fades, and i seriously feel like im gonna be sick. this has happened to me a few times in the past off and on but now its becoming ritual (and its only when i shower). its so bad that i'm not even able to finish showering. does anyone know what's going on and does this happen to anyone else? i've tryed opening windows and changing my products but nothing helps. i'm at the point where i'm seriously afraid to shower lol... i'll take any advice i can get, thanks

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Since it wasn't happeneing every time I don't think the water temperature has much to do with it. Does anyone else use that shower? I had a similar problem yet I always take cold showers. I discovered it wasn't any of MY products but my ex-girlfriends mothers shampoo that was affecting me if i showered after she did. If that is not the case I would consult your doctor. It could be a side effect from any medication you may be taking (prescription or otherwise) or something entirely unrelated, such as mold or mildew in the walls. Good luck in all your future showering!


I have a few major rules for myself that I stick by. One of them is to never do anything that might hurt a loved one, and another is to obey your respected leaders.
Recently obeying a leader nearly led to hurting a loved one, and afterwards I was horrified that I let this happen...because I would rather disobey than hurt someone I care about. This has led to all kinds of questions involving my moral standing and what is really important to me and such.
In the meanwhile the guilt is eating me, and though I've completely talked it out with everyone involved in the incident, my instinct to run and hide remains. How am I supposed to get over this? (link)
You are a strong level headed person and you should be proud of that fact. I would say to continue to face this head on until you feel satisfied that it is resolved. Only then will you be able to move along.


I'm seventeen and I'd like to get a job, but I am clueless on some places to apply. My previous job was VERY stressful, so I want a job where I'm not under a lot of pressure. I don't want your typical teen job (food places/restaurants, grocery stores, or movies.) Clothing stores, little shops, and tanning salons are more of the kind of job I want. Office jobs wouldn't be too bad either. Any ideas on where else I should look into? (link)
A mall would be an excellent place to try. Hot Topic, Hollister, and American Eagle are very good companies to work for and between the 3 you have almost every clothing style you could want.


I'm 14 and a girl. Last year i started thinking i was bi. Recently i've changed though because i believed it was wrong. School is starting soon and i'm afraid i'll end up looking at girls again and thinking the same stuff. I WANT to be straight but sometimes it gets soo hard!!!! And i haven't exactly had a good relationship with a guy for a while so that makes it even harder. Any tips on staying straight???
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Maybe you could try asking another girl out? You may feel it's wrong now but if it turns out to be who you are then you're not going to be happy unless you allow yourself the chance to explore all the possibilities.


is it bad to masterbate? (link)
Clinically speaking, no. But depending on your morals and religious beliefs it could be considered wrong. Some religions frown upon it completely while others say it's ok. Some even say it's ok so long as you're not thinking of someone else while doing it, as it would be a sin of lust. How you could rub one off without thinking dirty is beyond me but I guess they have a way. Good luck with all your twerkin' and jerkin'.


when i woke up i couldnt remember my dream at all but i just knew that someone had died in it, i dont know how i knew but i did or i felt it.
then that afternoon my mum told me it was the aniversery of my grandads death. do you think it was him telling me something or watching over me or just a coincidence? (link)
I would say it's entirely possible. My grandfather was in the hospital after just suffering a heart attack ad he saw his daughter who lived in Ohio at the foot of his bed. He called us and told us he saw her and 15 minutes later we recieved a phone call that she had been murdered by one of her long time friends. So maybe he just wanted you to know that he was ready and not to be too sad.


what are some good websites you can go on if you're REALLLLLY bored? thanks (link)
Here's some fun ones.

http://www.Ebaumsworld.com
http://www.JoeCartoon.com
http://www.AlbinoBlackSheep.com


hi im 17/f--i liked this boy that i work wit, but i didnt wannna make da first move. s0o he made the first move, we started ho0kin up, then wen then that got borin we did otha things nd now we have sex... but idk if he likes me or juss wants to b fuck buddies, wut should i do?? (link)
Stop having sex for a while and see if his attitude towards you changes. If he's only there for the sex you'll know it soon enough, and if he IS then you don't need him anyways.


ok today i was supposed to go to the mall with a clsoe friend of mine except the person that was goin to take me is in LA right now and CANT take me today.. except me and my guy friend have been watin forever for this day and really want to go btu there is no way i need to tell him i cant go the easiest and nicest way possible.. how can i do this ?? thanks (link)
Just be honest. Tell him you're sorry but you can't go today since your ride went to LA instead. Then suggest you go another time. I'm sure he'll understand that these things happen.


Why do guys get morning wood (link)
Just a simple matter of sexual arrousal caused by either dreams or friction from the bed sheets. Nothing to worry about.


hey how do you put a jpg or jpeg picture up on myspace in order to load i tried the html but it didnt work im not sure why is it because i am running on a maciintosh
is that right and if it is what do they mean url to pic cause i just dragged my pic over to the section where it says "URL to picture" and loaded it but it didnt work. please help me ill rate 5s (link)
You have to have the image hosted somewhere else, such as photobucket.com then put the address to the picture in the image url area. If you need anything else let me know.


hey everyone. im sorry if this will be long, im not sure what all to say yet. anyway, first of all i am a 14 female. there is this girl, yes a girl, and she is 17 female. she is gay. i have liked her ever since LAST august (2004). then, over christmas break i found out she was gay. hang on, let me go back. at the beginning of july(2004) is when i first met her. we started becoming friends around the end of august. so i would say i started liking her at the beginning of august. i play softball from july-the end of september with her. that is the only time i talk to her.. once softball was over last year, we werent friends anymore. well, we were but we never talked and i think she forgot about me. well, ever since softball has been over since last year, she is all i have thought about, including EVERY day this summer. i dont think this is a crush either. i would do anything for this girl. i mean i would even take a bullet for her. but, now since softball has started, its gonna take a while for us to be friends again. meaning, she hasnt talked to me since softball has started this year. and i no once games start we will become friends. and, she is the only girl i feel like this for, i have never felt this way about any boy either. but, she also has other friends on our softball team that im sure she hooks up with. i mean when i see her, i dont no its just shes soo pretty and i cant help but stare. so, my question is, do you think this a crush, love, or obsession? one more question, does this mean i am straight, bisexual, or lesbian? (link)
Well it would seem to me this is more of a crush than anything, but if you tell her how you feel you could very well end up with something more. Personally I would just go for it. Now, as far as you being gay or straight or whatever, I believe that 80% or more of the Earth population is Bi-Sexual. They just don't know it yet.


i need like A LOT of good movies. it doesn't matter what they are, just as long as there is a chance that i might have seen them lol. old or new..doesn't matter!! (link)
Some personal favorites of mine:

The Princess Bride
The Crow
Robin Hood
Robin Hood: Men in Tights
History of the World: Part 2
Training Day
William Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet (1990's remake with Clair Daines and Leonardo DiCaprio)
Face/Off
Stephen King's IT
Event Horizon
Starship Troopers


That should cover a bit of everything. Action, Comedy, Drama, Sci Fi, Horror, whatever floats your boat.


alight, i need some songs to download. any type of music is ok with me! thanks a bunches! (link)
Here's a few of my favorites.

Green Day - Holiday
System of a Down - B.Y.O.B. and Violent Pornography
Everlast - What it's like
Papa Roach - Between Angels and Insects
Mindless Self Indulgence - Faggot and Bitches
Metallica - No Leaf Clover, Motorbreath, Battery, For Whom The Bell Tolls, and King Nothing


Wow. Hi, my name is Tony and I am a Rock-A-Holic.


about what age do boys and girls start french kissing? (link)
Whenever they feel they are ready. I didn't until I was about 17. I couldn't find anyone I cared for enough to do it with. Some people don't like it at all and won't ever do it.


my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me (link)
Most cheaters will cheat again. It's more stress than you need, unless you truly believe he won't do it again. If you're going to be worried about it then leave him for good.


I've been going out with this boy for about 1 1/2 months (not long, i know) but i dont know if its working out. We talk a lot and hes nice and eevrything but theres just something about him i dont know. I thought when we first started going out it'd be the right time after a breakup with someone who i really loved but now i think that its not the right time to be with someone because i still have a lot of feelings for my ex. I'm not sure if i should break up with my bf or just stay. I know that if i stay with him i may start gettin miserable. I dont want to hurt him because he really likes me and cares for me. What should i do?? ill rate 5's if you at least help me and try to! thanks! (link)
Well first don't rate me a 5 because I tried. only give me a 5 if I deserve it. Now, if you don't like this guy you should break it off now. If you wait it will only hurt him more because he will grow even more attatched to you. If you have feelings for your ex still, and you both want to date again then by all means. If you'd rather be single for a while then do what ever you feel will be best for you.


Im looking for a new screen name. Something orginal and cute. Any ideas? It'd be greatly appreciated and I will rate high. Thanks! (link)
That's rather hard without knowing anything about you. Here's a few random ones.

My cat eats people

Jeff, the god of biscuits

D is for Lysdexia

Frank the Duck

I'm not Invisible


If you leave some detals in my Inbox I can do much better for you.


has any one got any tips on how to seduce my mate? (im female hes male) i want him so much but i have no idea where to start. i see him where he works most of the time so i need some pointers on how to get him on his own and that kind of stuff. thanx (link)
Well start by asking him to go out with you on a Saturday and spend the day together. Come night time invite him back to your place. That's usually all it takes. Don't be afraid to be a little aggressive.




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