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I'm 14 and a girl. Last year i started thinking i was bi. Recently i've changed though because i believed it was wrong. School is starting soon and i'm afraid i'll end up looking at girls again and thinking the same stuff. I WANT to be straight but sometimes it gets soo hard!!!! And i haven't exactly had a good relationship with a guy for a while so that makes it even harder. Any tips on staying straight???
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You probably aren't bi. You're probably just scared. I felt the same way at your age. I was scared that I'd turn bi just because I looked at girls. But everyone looks at girls really and theres nothing wrong with it. Just because you havent had a good relationship with a guy doesn't mean you are bi. Try to keep your mind off of it and let it pass. It was just a phase for me!
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you can't change what you are. you are trying to avoid it but its you. but just try not to look at girls, if you do then walk to the other way or start talking to a guy. try to get sexually active with guys so you will be attracted to them and not other girls. good luck!
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Maybe you could try asking another girl out? You may feel it's wrong now but if it turns out to be who you are then you're not going to be happy unless you allow yourself the chance to explore all the possibilities.
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ok well since im not bi or lez (no offense to all that is) its kinda hard to say that, try asking a guy out though, maybe things will change since you'll be addicted to him, some girls do look at others, for maybe fashion tips or what the other girls have that they dont i mean its not right but some people do it, anyway just float your own boat and do what you want to do.
hope it helps
♥ tay
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