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feeling horrible, please help me!!
i am MADLY in love with my best guy friend. we're like brother and sister and i LOVE him. i dream about him, think about him.. i can't help myself, i've never had a guy be so nice to me. but there's nothing i can do about it because he's madly in love with my best friend and i've decided not to do anything about it. how do i get out of this hole i fell in? i LOVE him. i don't know what to do.. please someone tell me if this is ever going to go away :(
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well hunnie im sorrie but love is forever and once you fall in love you someone you are stuck lovin them forever and later on if you realize that you dont seem to "love" them any more that means that you never really loved him at all my dear some things are juss weird like that in life im guessinf you are going crazy over him and every second of the day he is on your mind huh? well i think you should tell him though you kno there could be a reason to why he is also oh so nice to you... well i wish you the best of luck
*ariana*
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Guy friends ALWAYS understand if you have feelings for them. They don't pull away... even if they don't like you, like you. They always understand your feelings for them. I think you should invite him over for like... a snack or a movie or something... invite him to your house or somewhere quiet where you can talk.
Tell him how nice he is and how wonderful you think he is... and tell him that you have been thinking and... you kinda... like him... more than a friend. Say it like you mean it and DON'T be shy. If you get shy, just fight through it. Tell yourself that this is your BEST GUY FRIEND and he is SO nice and he is WONDERFUL about this kind of thing and he shouldn't do anything. As a matter of fact, he'll MOST LIKELY like you back. Best guy friends can become the BEST boyfriends!
It'll be O.K.
The trick is... CONFIDENCE. If you believe you can express yourself to him, you can do it. You can do this if you put your heart in it.
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Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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Yes, it's going to go away. But there's a catch. You gotta stop thinking about him. Move on to another guy that doesn't like n e body else that you think is cute.
Talk to him
&& Think about him and you'll forget about this other guy.
BlessEsz
*Soraa.
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i think you should like get over him for a while i mean if you think about it right now you cant do anything about it if he likes your friend.. but if you want to get over him just think like this, you think of him as you brother would you ever go out with you brother? i hope not! but if i were i would get over him because he does care a lot about and if he does think of you as a sister and he does go out wit your friend then it is ok because someone who you think of as a family memeber is more important to you then a girlfriend/boyfriend.. so dont worry about it.. go to the mall or some place and meet new guys i am sure you will find someone else that you will start to to like. hope this helps you out. and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*
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awww i kno exactly how you feel except the guy i used to like is going out with some other chick not my best friend. it sucks . it rlly does. you wish its you and its not and you contimplate y ? y ? y? but all i had to do was sit myself down and think .. hmmm everything happens for a reason. if he's going out with her and hes happy then so be it. i had to come to the conclusion that i had to get over him. im still not over him but im pretty damn close. just got to be ok with it. and maybe some miracle will happen and hell end up with you. but dont waste your time on liking a lost cause .. ok... cuz i did and it wasted a year ..
hope this helped :)
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You infatutation is different than love. You dont love him. You'll get over him.
But first you need to realise, you dont have a chance with him. He likes someone else, that person is not you. Know this, and you can start to get out of your "hole."
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