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hey everyone. im sorry if this will be long, im not sure what all to say yet. anyway, first of all i am a 14 female. there is this girl, yes a girl, and she is 17 female. she is gay. i have liked her ever since LAST august (2004). then, over christmas break i found out she was gay. hang on, let me go back. at the beginning of july(2004) is when i first met her. we started becoming friends around the end of august. so i would say i started liking her at the beginning of august. i play softball from july-the end of september with her. that is the only time i talk to her.. once softball was over last year, we werent friends anymore. well, we were but we never talked and i think she forgot about me. well, ever since softball has been over since last year, she is all i have thought about, including EVERY day this summer. i dont think this is a crush either. i would do anything for this girl. i mean i would even take a bullet for her. but, now since softball has started, its gonna take a while for us to be friends again. meaning, she hasnt talked to me since softball has started this year. and i no once games start we will become friends. and, she is the only girl i feel like this for, i have never felt this way about any boy either. but, she also has other friends on our softball team that im sure she hooks up with. i mean when i see her, i dont no its just shes soo pretty and i cant help but stare. so, my question is, do you think this a crush, love, or obsession? one more question, does this mean i am straight, bisexual, or lesbian?
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here is a thought...if you liked people with weiners like a normal person you wouldnt have this problem
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It's natural to be curious about your sexuality at your age. Straight means you only like guys. Bisexual means you like both girls and guys. Lesbian means you like only girls. I think right now you're bi-curious, meaning you're curious about it but haven't tried yet.
Since your relationship is only a friendship right now I think you're just crushing hard. I would suggest talking to her before the end of the softball season and letting her know that you would like to continue being friends after the season is over.
I wouldn't go overboard on the friendship and be too clingy, etc because it may drive her away. Just be patient and see where things go.
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Well it would seem to me this is more of a crush than anything, but if you tell her how you feel you could very well end up with something more. Personally I would just go for it. Now, as far as you being gay or straight or whatever, I believe that 80% or more of the Earth population is Bi-Sexual. They just don't know it yet.
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