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i dont know what to do : (
I've been going out with this boy for about 1 1/2 months (not long, i know) but i dont know if its working out. We talk a lot and hes nice and eevrything but theres just something about him i dont know. I thought when we first started going out it'd be the right time after a breakup with someone who i really loved but now i think that its not the right time to be with someone because i still have a lot of feelings for my ex. I'm not sure if i should break up with my bf or just stay. I know that if i stay with him i may start gettin miserable. I dont want to hurt him because he really likes me and cares for me. What should i do?? ill rate 5's if you at least help me and try to! thanks!
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If you're having doubts, chances are you are with the WRONG person. If you're uncomfortable with y'alls relationship it will never turn out as you want it too. Specially when you aren't over your ex!!! You can't concentrate on your relationship if you still like your ex. Maybe consider getting back together with your ex? Relationships aren't worth it if you're just plain miserable!!!
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Hey, well I would break up with him because if your not happy then its not really worth it...I guess you could try to stay with him for a little bit longer but the longer you wait the harder it is!! I know he cares which means you just have to break it to him easy!
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in my own world, i don't like dating guys when i know that i still have feelings for someone else or an ex. it's really hard, but if i were you i'd break up with him and tell him that it's because you still have unresolved issues and feelings about your ex, not because you and him (your new boy) aren't great together or anything. let him down easy and tell him that you still like him but it's not really fair to him and you don't want to make him a rebound guy when he deserves alot better. tell him it's up to him whether or not he wants to wait things out and ask you out again when you are over your ex. re-assure him that you'll understand if he moves on. it really sucks but it gets easier after a while.
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I would tell him that you want to end the relationship. Tell him it's nothing that he's done. You just aren't completely over your last relationship and that he deserves someone who can give him what he needs.
Good luck.
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ok well i give this advice a lot!! I ALWAYS say to go with what makes you happy because if you try to please everyone your making no time for yourself and then you*ll be miserable. I say if you don*t have feelings for this guy take a break b/c it*s better to break it off now then to lead him on and do it when it*s been longer! All i can say is go with what your HEART is telling you! good luck, if you have any more questions drop one in my inbox!! xoxo,chelsea!
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Being with somebody is supposed to make you happy, and if you're not happy with this guy, than you shouldn't stay with him. I'm sure he'll find someone else, just let him down easy lol. It's normal to still have feelings for your ex, but what you need to find out is if he still has feelings for you. i've still got feelings for my ex..but he's totally wrapped up in some other girl lol. but anyways, i hope i helped!!
<3 melanie
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Ive been in a very similar situation. Im not going to tell you what to do but i will tell you what i did. I did get VERY miserable (partly b/c he was just a jackass)and missing my ex only made things way worse. I broke up w/ who is now my ex. Told the ex i still had feelings for that i did in fact have feelings for him. It says that your b/f is not a jackass like mine was.If you are going to break up w/ him let him know you do really care about him your just not ready for a realtionship at the time. If you are willing to try it later let him know that also. What i will tell you to do is if you ex doesn't know you still have feelings for him TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!!!
HOPE I COULD HELP
-twiSted
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hun you really should think about this one more time its not fair to him if you really dont like him in a way that he likes you
if you really think that this relationship isnt going anywhere and it would be better if the two of you moved on then you really should break up with him
why stay in a relationship where one person is not happy and the other person thinks they are?
hope that helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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Well first don't rate me a 5 because I tried. only give me a 5 if I deserve it. Now, if you don't like this guy you should break it off now. If you wait it will only hurt him more because he will grow even more attatched to you. If you have feelings for your ex still, and you both want to date again then by all means. If you'd rather be single for a while then do what ever you feel will be best for you.
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