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Q: I've been going out with this boy for about 1 1/2 months (not long, i know) but i dont know if its working out. We talk a lot and hes nice and eevrything but theres just something about him i dont know. I thought when we first started going out it'd be the right time after a breakup with someone who i really loved but now i think that its not the right time to be with someone because i still have a lot of feelings for my ex. I'm not sure if i should break up with my bf or just stay. I know that if i stay with him i may start gettin miserable. I dont want to hurt him because he really likes me and cares for me. What should i do?? ill rate 5's if you at least help me and try to! thanks!
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Ive been in a very similar situation. Im not going to tell you what to do but i will tell you what i did. I did get VERY miserable (partly b/c he was just a jackass)and missing my ex only made things way worse. I broke up w/ who is now my ex. Told the ex i still had feelings for that i did in fact have feelings for him. It says that your b/f is not a jackass like mine was.If you are going to break up w/ him let him know you do really care about him your just not ready for a realtionship at the time. If you are willing to try it later let him know that also. What i will tell you to do is if you ex doesn't know you still have feelings for him TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT!!!
HOPE I COULD HELP
-twiSted
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Q: ok i like this guy and i want to tell him but i would get nevous and red in the face if i told him. so i want to do in a way that i dont have to tell him.plz help.
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Get his number if you don't already have it so he can't see you get red. But if you are still too nerves to do it over the phone write him a letter or have a mutual friend bring up the possibilty of yall getting together.
HOPE I HELPED!!!
-twiSted
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Q: ok, i relly like this guy and i'v liked him for a bout a year. we are really good friends adn i have told him i liked him a few times in the past, but he never really liked me (exept he did otehr times, but i didn't really like him) So in other words our relationshipp never really panned out. But recentally we have become really good friends and i get the feeling he kind of likes me.
but there is a really hot guy who wants to get into my pants. He is acctually really sweat and irrisitable. And i really want a first kiss soon and i knid of want to make the guy i have liked for a long time jelouse. plus he is against this guy who wants to ge in my pants.
Should i try to make my crush jelous? and make out w/ another guy?
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Don't kiss the other guy! Trust me you will never get the guy like that. If you do that then he will probably think you don't like him and he will try to get over you. Also im sure the hot guy is real nice and all but he could be just using you and will hurt you. As bad as that sounds you need to hear the possibility.what you need to do is to talk to your friend and let him know how you feel again. Im sure he wont use you if he likes you like you think.
hope i could help
-twiSted
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Q: wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?
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to have oral sex w/ her
hope i helped
-twiSted
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Q: There's this one guy & him & I are pretty good friends. I like him as more than a friend & he feels the same way about me... i think. He told me he was considering asking me out. It didn't sound like a for-sure thing though. Basically, he didn't jus come out & admit his feelings, he said he doesn't know. I want him to ask me out but I'm not sure what to do. Also, he doesn't know I like him. Should I just come straight out and admit it?
Thanx,
Nathalie
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you should admit it asap. you don't want him to think you don't like him.
sorry if i didn't help
-twiSted
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Q: To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?
I'm 17 he's 18.
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the only thing i can think of is, talk to your boyfriend explain to him how sorry you really are and make sure he truly understands. Also tell him you noticed the difference and talk to him about that too.
sorry if i didn't help
-twiSted
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Q: ok so my guy friend lives around the block. directly behind me. so i just hop the wall and go through his back yard and im at his house lol..well ive had feelings for him FOREVER. and last time we hung out...he later told me he thought about kissing me...when he said that i didnt want him to know i liked him cause i had a bf at the time so i was like um ew kyle..thats gross. but now we havent really hung out for a while..and i hope he still likes me. hes always busy hanging out with his friend..who happens to be a girl.he NEVER IMs me anymore, i always IM him now. whenever i ask him to hangout..he says umm...maybe. i might hangout with my friend..but ill let u know after i call her. he used to always ask me to hangout..ive already asked him if hes mad at me..hes like no not at all..so i donno whats going on..advice?
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What probably went through his mind when you said " ew kyle..thats gross." Was that you didn't like him. Guys are weird if they think you don't like them then they will avoid you until they get over you. So if you and your boyfriend broke up then i think you should talk to him and ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel!
hope i helped
-twiSted
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Q: Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ?
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talk to him about how much you care and let him know you'll help him. Also let him know that your not pressuring him to quit all of a sudden but to cut down little by little.
sorry if i couldn't help
-twiSted
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Q: ok tonight i had like 4 or 5 beers..for me it was enough to definately get me tipsy..i feel sober now but can i still get a hangover in the morning? any thing i can do or take tonight to prevent a hangover?
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you shouldn't get a hang over but just in case, get alot of rest and drink alot of water. If you still for some reason have a hang over tomorrow then take asprin and drink alot of water.
hope i helped
-twiSted
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Q: okay if someone has a std could you get it by just making out?? or what if they have one on there mouth can you that way? or what if they just have one below can you still?? ill rate fives with acuarte answers...thanks!
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You can get whats commonly known as a cold sore on your mouth by making out or even just sharing the same cup. What a cold sore actually is, is herpies, if you didn't know already. If they have std's "below" and yall are just kissing then no you can't.
hope i helped
-twiSted
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Q: Ok, me and what is now my ex both wanted out the relationship cause he liked someone else and I didn't really like him as more than a friend. But I still wants to be friends and he like won't even talk to me. He has another girlfriend now and he's like trying to make me jelous when I'm around (even though I'm not). At this festival thing he was walking past and sorta like pussed her into me? What can I do to like try to become friends again!! I rate!
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it sounds to me like he still likes you and he is taking the brake up kinda hard. Maybe you should give him some time to him self, then try talking to him.
hope i helped
-twiSted
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Q: Ok I have to go out to my camp tomorrow. I do like going there, but I also want to go out with my friends because I don't want my friend to hook up with this guy who I like. My other friend offered me to stay over her house tomorrow, should I? Or should I sleep out my camp?
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you should tell your friend how you feel about that guy. If she was a good friend she would understand and not try anything w/ him while your gone. hope i helped.
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Q: okay i met this boy sunday-26, at UNO at the RELAY MEET OF CHAMPS..at UNO and like i am starting to like him....we are both 13 and we both swim but for different clubs...he swims for green acres and i swim for sunrise!!...and we go to different schools ...so we have none of the same friends...and like i just want to become his friend it is sorta hard to tlak to him....i really dont kno what to talk about... i have talkaed to him a couple of times after sunday about swimming but i cant tlak about that every time i IM him...and i barley see him....if you could give me some topics for some subjects we could possible tlak about!?!?
thanks...
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ask him about other sports he's into other than swimming.
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Q: how do you do those hearts in myspacE??? its like &heart;?
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Q: alright, my friend and my bf have had a relationship before and we all r always on aim. but the thing is that when we r she is always like...o jacob i love you and stuff. and i hate it. i DONT want to ammitt to my friend that im jelous but...i dont want to have to put up with her anymore. how do i get her to stop?
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You don't have to admit your jealous, but you should be able to just tell her that you are not comftorable w/ her telling your boyfriend that she loves him. If your friend is a real good friend then she would understand and stop.
Hope i helped!
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Q: alright..well i like this kid jimmy
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Talk to him, ask him how he feels about you, and tell him how you feel. It might be scary but you don't want to go on regreting you hadn't got the courage up to just ask. Hope i could help!
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Q: Ok.. so last year at school... i was.. one of the big girls in the class i have one month or more to get in shape. Where can i get good excersise ideas? I want to lose 34 pounds.. HELP!
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Well for exercise you could just walk (or run if you perfer) a mile or 2 EVERYDAY!
Exercising IS NOT the key though, you also need to watch when and how much you eat. Try not to eat untill you get all the way full. Only eat the 3 main courses, and if you are going to grab a snack make sure it will just hold you over for the next meal. what i think is the most important thing...drink ALOT OF WATER.
i can't tell you this is goin to work for certain but it worked for me.
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: June 30, 2005 Answers: 17 Last Update: July 26, 2005 Visitors: 1126
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