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Friends > Love?


Question Posted Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:25 pm

There's this one guy & him & I are pretty good friends. I like him as more than a friend & he feels the same way about me... i think. He told me he was considering asking me out. It didn't sound like a for-sure thing though. Basically, he didn't jus come out & admit his feelings, he said he doesn't know. I want him to ask me out but I'm not sure what to do. Also, he doesn't know I like him. Should I just come straight out and admit it?

Thanx,
Nathalie


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karenR answered Friday July 8 2005, 2:07 am:
I think it would be okay if you did. He said he isn't sure so it could go either way. If he goes out once maybe he would be better able to make up his mind. :)

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Xxprettyeyes187xX answered Thursday July 7 2005, 10:59 pm:
tell him how you feel...just get it off your chest..because what if you lose your chance? your always oing to regret not telling him

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broKenANDtwiSted answered Thursday July 7 2005, 10:53 pm:
you should admit it asap. you don't want him to think you don't like him.

sorry if i didn't help
-twiSted

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KaYyLaA546 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:15 pm:
yes

kayla

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mileschild answered Thursday July 7 2005, 3:17 pm:
well if you your pretty sure that he likes you like you say he does, then i think you should think about whether or not going out will ruin or strengthen your relationaship, and whatever you decide, like if you decide it will ruin your relationaship with him then tell him how you feel and then tell him you like him but you dont want to ruin what you have, but if you decide it wil strengthen your relationship then you should also tell him how you feel and let him know that you feel very strong about your decision and ind out wat he knows and thinks, and then wait for him, dont just expect him to say ok lets go out, he might, but probably not so ive him some space and time to think about. i hope this helps come back and email me with your results. GOOD LUCK

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VanityScore answered Thursday July 7 2005, 1:36 pm:
If he's considering asking you out, then yes, I believe this would be a good time to tell him how you feel. Not knowing could be the reason he's not asking you out.

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X_Amanda_X answered Thursday July 7 2005, 9:12 am:
If he does like you, just give him time to build up the confidence to ask you out.

X_Amanda_X

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cujobird answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 7:06 pm:
YES! Go for it girl! Have Fun!!!

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NessaBear answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 6:24 pm:
i think the best thing to do is play hard to get and let him no your intrested but not to much this will get him pumped

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NicolesxOxAdvice answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:52 pm:
Yes ...just come out straight and tell him that you like him and tell him how you fell about him ..hmm well it seemd to work for me and my X i liked him and he liked me but we didnt tell eachother until one day i just told him to sit down and i told him everything then he realzed he felt the same and then we wne tout for a while but then i ended up breaking up with him for no reason ..i guess i just wanted to be single again ..

well tell me how everything goes ..
good luck ..and remember tell him everything that you want him to kno ..dont be shy to tell him how you feel ..=)

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RBfootballTD answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:46 pm:
if you have never told him that you like him then yes, you should come out and say. the only reason it wasnt a for sure thing is because guys dont want to be rejected...take it from me

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taylorbug234 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:31 pm:
girl ive had the SAME problem. talk to him tell him you like him and he'll come out and tell you how he feels too. just say something flirty like if he says something funny or sarcastic go "thats why i love/like you" or tell him you like him straight up..i promise, no matter what the answer you'll feel GREAT about urself =)

-TaYlOr*BeAr-
sn: taylorbug234 <--if you EVER need more advice im always here!! and anyone who reads this as well =)

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rockstarxlove answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:28 pm:
yes, just go straight out & admit it & chances are he'll ask you out or something.. or you can. sooo do it.

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icey0990 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:28 pm:
yes because if hes planning on askking you out it will make it a lot easier on him knowing you like him..its rejection we fear..so if you let him know how you feel...(or tell one of his close friends how you feel and have them tell him or something) it will make things easier..

dont be afraid to make the first move..like when your alone ask him how he feels and tell him you like him more than just friends

**no regrets! tell him how you feel or he might be so0o shy that nothing happens!

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