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-- this might be long so sorry im goin to try to put in all details.. wel my bf's birthday is 6 days away and it will also be our 17 months together.. for birthdays and stuff like this he always goes all out for me and i want to do the same for him.. its not easy planning stuff for a guy bc they rnt into the whole cutesy lovey dovey stuff like all the girls are.. well i know i already hve him cologne and i am PLANNING on gettin him a north carolina championship basketball also.. [bc he loves NC] well idk what to DO.. i mean ive thought of a few things but i dont want it to be too lovey dovey u know? well i think im goin to make a collage card with pix of us in it and right a note on the inside.. but i need ideas on things to DO.. like where to take him what to do and all that.. nothing sexual.. he is turning 15 and now im 14.. not tryin to be bragging but i hve money to spend on him.. i just want to make him feel special and hve a great birthday.. so if someone could PLEASE give me some good answers i would GREATLY appreciate it! if you need anymore info just ask

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Well maybe you should ask Him what he wants to do you know??? or maybe do something that he really likes. or take him to a place that he likes or something like that.
hope I helped

NessaBear


I wanna dye my hair pink, but not permanent maybe like a week, or sumthing, but not more than 2 weeks. How can I do it? I mean like where can i find the dye? or can i do in naturally? with like with stuff i hav from my house? i heard coolaide (sp) works or sumthin! I hav dark brown hair, please help?1 thnx (link)
try some hair brodects that are from brooks or CVS. dont try koolaid it takes forever to take out of your hair. try a shampoo that washes out in a few washes.


im 14 years old. My mom isnt working right now so we dont have alot of money. The clothes i wear are american eagle, aeropostale, hollister, and abercrombie mostly. Well for school my mom said i cant get alot of clothes unless i buy them with my own money. i was wondering if anyone knew a way i could make money for some clothes. The place that i live at there arent that many kids, so i cant baby sit around here. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
you could maybe moe lawns or get a job anywhere in your town thats hiring.


Does anybody know the lyrics to right here waiting by stained? Or like a link to where i can find it-thanks (link)
www.azlyrics.com


Well my boyfriend that I am in very much love with has left for a year and half. Though he's coming home I've been really sad and crying ever nite and not getting alot of sleep, because I miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice on how to pass the time or ease the pain of him not being here right now? I rate good! (link)
Try to focus on something else. Like hang out with friends. Or go shopping always a favorite.

Please rate

NESSABEAR


I want to get this girls attention, but i dont want it to seem like i am really trying to flirt, whats the best way for her to notice me and see me for a good thing, i really like this girl and i want to know how i should get her attention. So how do i get her attention in a good way?
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You should get to know her. Flirting with her might actually help you because when guys flirt with girls it really turns them onl. But hey its up to you. Good luck.


theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused! (link)
I think you should wait to go out with the first girl and get to know her more since you like her. Don't just go out with the girl who asked you out if you really don't like her. Its not fair to her.


There's this one guy & him & I are pretty good friends. I like him as more than a friend & he feels the same way about me... i think. He told me he was considering asking me out. It didn't sound like a for-sure thing though. Basically, he didn't jus come out & admit his feelings, he said he doesn't know. I want him to ask me out but I'm not sure what to do. Also, he doesn't know I like him. Should I just come straight out and admit it?

Thanx,
Nathalie (link)
i think the best thing to do is play hard to get and let him no your intrested but not to much this will get him pumped


I got my period and the first time it lasted a week. Then, I had it about a month later and it lasted about 3 days. Now it stopped. I am wearing pantiliners and a lot of this yellow stuff is coming? is this normal..please help!! thankss (link)
yeah its perfectly normal everyone gets it. i always get it before or after my period. i think its gross. lol.


I really want to lose 3-4 pounds fast. Are there any good plans you could tell me?? ... thanks (link)
i think the best way to lose 3-4 pounds is to run everymoring. that should keep some pounds off.


Alright, I've been bulimic for like 8 months...throwin up about 3 times a week...how long do i have to not throw up to not be considered bulimic?
I RATE!!! (link)
I really do not think you can stop throwing up just like that. I think it might take some help since you've been bulimic for 8 months. If you continue to throw up then you really need help because thats not heathy to be doing. You could die. I mean the more you throw up your foods one day you could throw up blood which would deffiantely not be good. I think you might need to go see someone about this problem? Do your parents no? If not then you should tell them and get help from a doctor and then will help you. If your to scared to tell them and think they might be mad you just need to tell them because they might be mad but its better if your alive and healthy. They will get over it sooner or later. If i helped please let me no

NESSABEAR


a little long and im sorry...5's for everyone unless your horrible or rude

ok so the other night my guy friend kissed me and it was really great..we made out and it was just great..for thr 4th of july we hung out next to a campfire and we made out..beautiful kisses by the way..and i gave him a handjob and he seemed to really like it..we we played fun teasing games with each other and it was so fun..

the problem? well...he doesnt want a relationship andd im getting real feelings..he doesnt have real feelings..its just fun for him.. thing is i dont like the idea of kissing him one night and having him go have sex with another girl the next night ( i have no idea what he will be up to)

it kinda makes me feel used ...i wish i could just hhave the same mindset as him and not like hi and just be able to hookup with no emotions attached..

so what should i do? my one friend suggsted to just kiss him and become dominant and kind of try to not get lovey dovey and to just have fun..

what do you think?

if you were in my posistion would you continue to hook up or would you not hook up anymore? (link)
wow thats seriously just wrong. this guy friend of yours is only hooking up for the pleasure of girls to do stuff to him. he is a real jack ass. if he doesn't have feelings for you that you have for him then you should deffiantely stop kissing him and no more handjobs for him. he is using you and thats not right. he only wants the pleasure of sex and if thats the case then you shouldn't have sex just for fun. hope i helped

NESSABEAR


okay theres this boy and his name is chuckie he is so mean to me when my mom isn't around then when I trie to tell my mom what he did she never beleives me or takes up for him like yesturday his older brother was just playing the computer and chuckie came up and slapped him across the back I told my mom and she let him go with it I am sick of this and I need some help on how I can get this kid to stop lieing to my mom and getting my mom to beleive him oh and yesturday he hit my sister really hard for no reason and always buds in on my sisters phone calls and messes with are stuff if we tell him to stop he will get mad and some times hit us or grab us around the neck and I cant set rules because he is older then me so please help I will rate high for good answers / or serious please answer and answer quickly (link)
Ok. what i really think you should do is sit down with your mom and bring your brother and sister along with you so that she makes sure that its not only you who ''could be making something like this up'' if your mom still doesn't believe you ask a trusted adult and tell them your story and then ask them if they could tell your mother what is going on


Here’s the thing I am 15/f and I’ve never had a boyfriend. Now there is a guy who is 2 years older than me and I see him every summer and I’ve liked him for the last 5 years and I was really crazy about him last year. The thing is we’ve never talked and we live on the same street during the summer. Now, last summer I took a picture of him from his cousin (my best friend who is 15/f too) and I drew a portrait of him (I am very good at art). He wouldn’t think I am a stalker because their whole family knows I am good at art and I come up with some crazy projects every now and then. The thing is he is really shy around people he doesn’t know well and he will be really embarrassed when I show him the picture and then I will be embarrassed because I am really shy around guys and especially around guys I like. I’ve also asked his cousin to help me but she wants to stay out of it and doesn’t want to get involved in any way even thought I’ve begged her to help me, because she doesn’t like the whole matchmaking thing, but she does give me information about him when I ask. I can’t pick up a conversation with him because he never hangs out with us and the only way I can talk to him is if I run up to him when I see him on the street which is out of the question because it will be too weird plus you can’t really start a casual conversation this way. The other thing is that I am pretty (at least that’s what many guys have said about me) but the guy I like is very attractive and he has had girls chasing him since 3rd grade so he is used to that, but he is not a player and as I said he is shy (I know all these things from my friend). So I don’t know how to get his attention, we don’t talk, we both act really cold when we are around people we don’t know. What should I do to make him notice me and pick up a conversation without letting him know I like him or at least without letting him know I’m crazy about him. (link)
Maybe you could hang out with him and you can have you cousin ask if you guys want to catch a movie together or some place were you can talk. Maybe the thing to do right now is to just be friends until you can actually tell him you like him... i wouldn't show him the portrait you drew of him because that might scare him away and think your madly obsessed with him. So just try and see if you can hang out with him and go from there




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