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Well my boyfriend that I am in very much love with has left for a year and half. Though he's coming home I've been really sad and crying ever nite and not getting alot of sleep, because I miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice on how to pass the time or ease the pain of him not being here right now? I rate good!
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Aww...Call him every night and chat with him on AOL. Send him flowers and cards, but don't seem too obbsessed!
I hope u see him soon!
KenniSki10<3
PS--DO NOT GET INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP
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ask for pictures and write and talk on the phone honey itll be ok its believe me the next year and a half time will fly
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Well i certainly hope that you are staying in contact with him. Thinking about him all the time wont help. Just go out with friends...go shopping...go skating..just something...be sure to have fun!! >Elizabeth
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Keep busy. Go out with your girlfriends or family. Write to him, email him. Keep a journal of what is going on with people you know to give him when he returns. Just keep busy! :)
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you can surround yourself with close friends,go to the movies,go shopping!!(it makes me feel better),go to the beach!!!,you and your girls should have a girl's nite out!! hope i helped you!! :D -bratzgyrl
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Well, maybe you should go out and do things by your self or maybe with neighbors or friends! Don't think about him think about other things that you like
hope i helped
<3
Amber Nicole
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Try to focus on something else. Like hang out with friends. Or go shopping always a favorite.
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Get a hobby. Seriously. There's a lot more to life than a single focus on someone else, despite what some people may think and say. Find something you love doing; something constructive is best. By doing something, I do not mean going somewhere. I mean do something; build things, make things, write, read, learn - those things that engage your creativity will bring you the most happiness.
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Aww, sweetheart...
I know how you feel (sorta). My guy went to Vegas for two months last summer. Not the same time issue, but the same idea.
Don't stay home crying over how much you miss him. It's totally normal and fine to miss him, but don't waste all your time just 'cause you can't see him.
Go out with your friends. Hang out, go shopping, go to movies. Do whatever it takes and let your friends take your mind off your guy.
That's what I did. Also, it gets easier the longer he's away. As long as you can hear his voice and write him you'll be okay. I know it sucks like none other, but he'll be back before you know it. Think about how much he misses you, call him whenever you feel like it (don't worry about bothering him. Chances are he'll be happy to hear your voice).
I just hope you have better timing han I do/did. I kept calling him when he was about to get into the shower, or getting dressed, or something. Lol.
Anyway...There isn't much you can do to ease the pain without passing the time.
I reccomend keeping yourself busy with friends/school/work as much as you can. It doesn't give you much time to think about how much you miss him. If your parents would let you, and you happen to feel craft-y, I reccomend sending him something that reminds him of how much you love him, like a little pillow with your name in it, or a picture of the two of you in a frame with handwritten "I love you" on it. Just something that'll make sure he's thinking of you and that he misses you as much as you miss him. (I did that to my guy and he came home a week early 'cause he missed me too much. Lol)
If you need someone to talk to, vent to, whatever, you can always IM me (SirenCytherea).
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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WELL ik you love ur man but dont be afraid to flirt..maybe go to a camp or something, i <3 church camps and prep camps((cheerleading, so on)) haha..since im a prep and all! haha..hang w/ your friends just be crazy and wild and when he gets back..whoah you'll be so glad to have him..its happened to me =) -->my sn is taylorbug234<--need more advice JUST IM ME!! ((or ne1 else))
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Well..I have the same problem...what i would do if i where you ((or what im soing)) is just hang out with your friends and just have funn and when he comes home you'll be happy but you wont have worried yourself so much that it makes you look bad...I really hope this helps you!
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ok if he is very far away send him as many letters as you can to show him that you love him, call him all of the time and email or IM him if he can, he will be back one day and although a year and a half seems like a lifetime it will be over a lot sooner if you have some fun, stop stressing over him not being here and have some fun! Hang out with friends, go to the movies he'll be back and the more you try to stay in touch the more closer he will seem
Hope I helped!
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