theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused!
orphans answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 8:15 pm: i am a girl so i would say that you should wait on the girl you liked first cuz if you dont then she will think you are a player and will get mad at you 4 a long time. anyway if you really like this girl than you already know the answer. think about it! if you go out with the other girl then the first girl will think you just wanted fool around but you wasnt serious and now that she doesnt wanna go as fast as you than you are ready to move on.thats what she will think. sorry its long. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
NessaBear answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 6:27 pm: I think you should wait to go out with the first girl and get to know her more since you like her. Don't just go out with the girl who asked you out if you really don't like her. Its not fair to her. [ NessaBear's advice column | Ask NessaBear A Question ]
blue_eyed_beuty answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 6:21 pm: aAaW! :oP hehe. sorry ok back to the point. you like the first girl RiIiTe? rite. ok so wait! duh go w/who u like not who comes along. it wont b fair to the other girl who asked you out cause you still like the first girl! say no to the 2nd one! the only thing i, dont WAIT for the 1st girl! let time go bye nd just like talk to her. you dont want to seem desperit! thats NOT kewl.
twistedsister17 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:36 pm: First of all, calm down. This is not a life threatening situation. My advice is to get to know the girl you really like. (the 1st one) If you like her that much, you will respect her wishes. So ask that girl just to hang out after school. You don't necessarily have to ask her to be your girlfriend. [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:25 pm: ok this girl who wants to get to know you better..is she real special to you? like do you feel like you would like to wait on her and get to knoow her better? if not then go out with the other girl
think about this..lets say you wait on the girl but she ends up not going out with you and the other girl gets a bf..then your left with nobody
unless this girl is special and you really want to be with her..dont wait if you like the other girl too
OR
you could kind of put them on hold..and just be "friends" with this new girl who asked you out..just tell her you dont want a relationship right now..its a pretty famous line that works [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
jeni_xoxo answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:25 pm: Well it depends on who you like me. By my observations it seems that you obviouly like the girl you asked out or you wouldn't have asked her out. If she's the kind of girl that wants to wait and get to know you first then that means that she'll probably be an honest and true girlfriend. Just because if she wasn't then she wouldn't care if she knew you or not. I would wait on that girl because they do say that you have to wait for the best things in life. Your shouldn't just go out with some other girl just because the other girl doesn't want to be with you at the moment. Give it time and it will work out. Keep me in touch and PM if you want to talk about it more.
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