hey all my friends have made out and i am just really shy around my boyfriend (when i have one) everytime he gets close i kinda just abck off because i am scared i have never made out andi dont kno how all my friend ever say is it just comes natural ! i am complety feeling left out ! some off my guy friend would be like hey if you wanna make out just tell me and like there for real they will be all who cares and stuff and one of my guy friend has done every thing but sex and i kinda like him and he said if you can make out wiff me just to say you have and my mom loves him and she thinks he is the sweetes biy ever but she doesnt kno anything he has done! and she would totally not aprove if she heard !
question A: give me tips on making out! thx!
B:should i go out wiff him or is he using me !
C:should i make out wiff him just to say i have!
B: If you really like him, i think you should go for it. If he only says he wants to go out to make out - I would take making out - out of the relationship and see if he still wants to go out.
C: NO NO NO NO NO!!! Huge mistake! Don't try to keep up with your friends. Just because they are ready doesn't mean you are. Listen to your heart baby and follow it. If you are backing off - it says pretty loud and clear you are not ready. Later on - guys will really like the fact that you didn't make out a lot or any of that. Only do it if it feels right - not to impress or keep up with anyone. [ Rebecca's advice column | Ask Rebecca A Question ]
taylorbug234 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:35 pm: A:when you make out its definatly natural..open ur mouth slip some tounge((not too much)) close ((but take it out, haha)) it just kinda rolls w/ the flow, you'll be amazed at how good you'll be ;-)
B:i dont really think you should go out w/ this "guy" if you havent made out yet and you finally do what else will he want you to do ? u never know my friend got fingered the other day cus this dude..wow long story!
C:look im a BIG prep..im so popular and i was one of the first to make out but few havent and we dont judge them...do it when it feels right and uk that your ok w/ it...if you EVER need more advice please IM me on my SN (taylorbug234) im always here ;-)
icey0990 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:34 pm: dont even worry that your the only one who hasnt made out yet..everyones first kiss happens at diffferent age
tips:
have good breath
be confident
move in slow
kiss him slowly and softly
then when your comfortable let it get more intense and use your tongue
honestly..a lot of it is natural
ok should you go with him? ask yourself how you want your first kiss to be..do you really want it to be with this guy and have it just as a little make out session and thats all?
or do you want your first kiss to be with a bf ?
this is something you should decide for yourself..dont do it just to say you did it...do it because you want to...if you dont want to ..dont do it..noting wrong with that [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
jeni_xoxo answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:32 pm: Don't worry about what all your friends do. You be you. And don't be nervous around guys when it comes to making out. Your friends are right it really does come natural and there's really not a wrong way to do it.
A: You just start kissing and you use your tounge and move it around. Also suck on his tounge and his neck and ears.
B: I don't think that he's 'using you', but I wouldn't look for a relationship with him. He's probably just wanting to have fun and wants you to have fun with him. And if your looking for a non-serious, fun-good time relationship, then I would go for it. Because your younge and you have nothing to lose.
C: If you really want to make out with him then do it. I wouldn't go around saying that you have though. But just follow your inner desires. If you feel like making out with him then just do it and don't think twice about it.
**Good luck and PM and we can talk about it more
SweetiiPiie09 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 5:29 pm: Don't worry about being the only one of your friends that hasn't made out yet. Last year that was me. But I found that right guy(or who I thought was the right guy), when me and him made out it kind of just came naturally. I was soo scared that I didn't know how to, but I ended up being a really good kisser! =)lol. So when the time is right you WILL know what to do. [ SweetiiPiie09's advice column | Ask SweetiiPiie09 A Question ]
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