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My name is Amber, but most of my friends call me Abby. I have dark hair with orangeish highlights, and a big blonde one in the front. I have brown eyes...I love to shop and just hang out.
E-mail: br0k3npr0mis3s05@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
Age: 14
AIM: br0k3npr0mis3s05
Yahoo: amamaro91
Member Since: July 5, 2005
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My guy friend & I like eachother as more than friends. I'm a bit worried because it'll be my first relationship & I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone fill me in? Thank you!

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It's hard to tell you what to expect, every reletionship is different. It all basically depends on the way you and and the guy are. Things will be kinda akward, but the way to get over that is just to be normal. Talk to him, just like you would if you two were just friends. Don't act like a stiff board. That is super important! And don't be afriad to talk to him about stuff, and don't be scared to make the first move either.

Hope everything works out!


i really like him and i cant stop thinkin about him. i dream about him everynight and sometimes i call him under private number just so i can hear his voice. his best friend and me went out for 2 months, and i thought i loved him but then he cheated on me. josh wouldnt tell me that he cheated, but his best friend (anton) told me. and to tell me a secret that his best friend told him NOT to tell me, but to tell me anyways, i thought that was sweet. i dont know what to do. i dont even know if he likes me or not. if you dont think i should go out wtih him, how do i get over him? and if i might should take a chance, what should i do to get him? (link)
My opion is that you don't go out with him, even though that he says that he is ready for a serious reletionship, that is a bunch of bull! The way that I see it, once a player always a player! But if you really want to get him, totally play hard to get.....if you guys hang out totally hang all over some other guy. Like every always wants what they can't have!


sorry this is so long but i am really confused and i would love for any advise from anyone!

ok here is goes. me adn my ex boyfriend (josh) we out all last summer and he cheated on me so we broke up and havent talked since. well the other day i was on the phone with his best friend (anton) and josh was over there so me adn josh talked and we are cool now. well i like anton but anton is a huge player. he has cheated on almost every girl he has went out with. he is also not a virgin .. me i havent even tounge kissed a guy before. well anton told me that he is actually ready to get into a serious relationship with a girl. i really wanna be that girl, but im so scared for anyone to know that i likw him. im scared he is gonna cheat on me or hurt me just like josh. me adn anton dont talk alot adn we dont know each other really good. i really like him and i dont know what to do. i even dream about him at night. can anyone please give me some advise on what to do?? thanks if you do!! (link)
If you two don't talk or know each other that well, that is the first thing that you need to get over. Talk and get to know him, but DON'T OBBSESS!!!! But if he is a MAJOR player, duh! then forget him and move on!


hey all my friends have made out and i am just really shy around my boyfriend (when i have one) everytime he gets close i kinda just abck off because i am scared i have never made out andi dont kno how all my friend ever say is it just comes natural ! i am complety feeling left out ! some off my guy friend would be like hey if you wanna make out just tell me and like there for real they will be all who cares and stuff and one of my guy friend has done every thing but sex and i kinda like him and he said if you can make out wiff me just to say you have and my mom loves him and she thinks he is the sweetes biy ever but she doesnt kno anything he has done! and she would totally not aprove if she heard !

question A: give me tips on making out! thx!
B:should i go out wiff him or is he using me !
C:should i make out wiff him just to say i have! (link)
Don't worry about being the only one of your friends that hasn't made out yet. Last year that was me. But I found that right guy(or who I thought was the right guy), when me and him made out it kind of just came naturally. I was soo scared that I didn't know how to, but I ended up being a really good kisser! =)lol. So when the time is right you WILL know what to do.


I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers. (link)
What I think that you should do is, go with Elijah...if you like him and he really likes you, I can't help but say Duh! Go with him! And if Zach decides that he wants to be with you, then you can always brake it up with Elijah...and if he says that he will wait for you for as long as it takes then he will understand your choice.
Best of luck!


I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first? (link)
Yes, of course things are going to be akward between you and your friend, if you two start dating. I mean this is gonna boyfriend duh! You should talk to him like you would normally, act like nothing is different, do what you would normally do with him. This is super important!! Don't act stiff with either, that is a compelte turn off for any guy! I hope everything works out with you too!


I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks (link)
First, if you are 13 and "2" is 18, sorry hunny but he is way to old for you, and that's like illegal. And the other well, if he doesn't like you more than a friend then, move on with your life because you will end up finding that special someone, that will like you more than a friend.


hay, me n my boyfriend get along GREAT, and we both love eachother ALOT, and he always asks me to go places with him, and i always think of an excuse not to go anywhere with him because i dont feel comftorable(sp?) around him, i dont know if its because hes older then me, or like what, and im not shy around boys, we've been going out for 2 months and i havent even hugged him, the one and only time i did was at our school fair and we werent even going out then!, please help, i dont know what to do (link)
Okay, well first, if you two are going out then you are you shy around him!? I mean this is your boyfriend you should be able to feel comfortable around him....talk to him about anything....and the age should really matter, and if you love each other.If you two have been dating for 2 months, and you haven't even hugged once, well, then is that a confedence(sp?) issue. The way that you get over this is by feeling good about yourself. If you don't love yourself then you can't love someone else. And are you sure that you love him, I mean, the word love is a very storng(sp?) word.




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