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Love Troubles
I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks
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well first of all 18 is to old. why dont you tell # 1 u like him see what happens and if not just move on and i will take him for you cause i looooooove blonde hair
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mm hey i am 13 too and i can totally relate to this question. if i were you;; i would go for the 13 year old, and i would only ask him out if you think you have a chance UNLESS you don`t mind if he says no. you probly have a better chance with the boy your age because most likely the older boy has his mind set on older girlsz and they don`t tend to go for younger girls. good luck!
hope ii helped! <3 ...Am
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Honestly, 2 is too old for you. He is "of age" now and in alot of places somebody of age or that old dating some one your age is illeagal. So id say go for #1 . He might now thikn of you only as a friend. but maybe in time youll grow on him and he might like you like you like him.
Hope Ive helped!!! Good luck!!
bekkii
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Ok well I think that you should like "1" because everyone is right 2 is wayyy to old for you and older guys tend to take advantage of girls as young as you are 1 is definately the way to go because he already likes u as a friend right and you said that he flirts with you. He might kind of like you so you should just keep flirting with him and wait and see! Hope i helped!
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ok, forget about the whole 18 year old guy bc i think(dont take this the wrong way) he will fall for a 13 year old. go for the 13 year old. i know you said he doesnt like you like that but just try it. flirt with him alot more than usual and talk to him more. well, i hope i helped and feel free to drop something in my inbox if you need anymore help.
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i say you go with 1, hey a guy with a 6 pack is hott.. lol, juss playin.. well, i mean, a- he`s your age b- even though he may just like you as a friend, you never know what could happen eventually? c- if it seems like he`s flirting with you sometimes.. hey.. again, you neevr really know!? 2.. yeahh he seems a little older than you, maybe you like him but in a sort of "older brother" sorta way you know? I say go with #1.. and if things don`t work out, you have a back-up, #2.. and i`ll have #1! =P lol!
hope i helped!
xo0x- Kata
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2 is too old for you, methinks. I don't say so because of the legal implications (they onoly apply if you get sexually physical, I think), but because there is a definite life experience difference between a 13yo and an 18yo. And he doesn't fancy you, so don't worry about it.
The one that's your age may be hot, but if he only likes you as a friend, be a friend to him. If something more is going to happen, it will happen because of you two's relationship, not because you pushed and prodded for more - that would only lower your chances.
Besides, the fact that you spent most of your time describing how they look tells me you aren't ready for a committed relationship anyway.
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Well the looks dont matter so theres no need to put that. And i think you should talk to both of the boys about your feelings for them. You'll never no what they feel unless if you talk to them. After you talk to both then choice. The best one will stand out and your heart will no which ones your match. And if none of them are that just means theres someone even better out there for you soul mate. Good Luck!! And never give up on any love before you give it a chance. That'll help you out. Let me no how things go.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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First, if you are 13 and "2" is 18, sorry hunny but he is way to old for you, and that's like illegal. And the other well, if he doesn't like you more than a friend then, move on with your life because you will end up finding that special someone, that will like you more than a friend.
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Well i dont want to sound like Dad But i think 18 is someone way to old for someone at your age. i think you should consider the 13 year old a little more and maybe just spend more time with him, and soon enough there may be a spark between the 2 of you. I think if you wait and give it some time, Then number 1 will come around and maybe you'll even date!
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omg hey loz!! <33 its jaimee. I would think u have a better chance w/ #1, b/c even tho i dont think #2 is too old, he might think that you are too young. but thats okay. i would go for number 2. lyiabffw!!!
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I would stick to "Lad 1", Hun. And if you'Re unshoRe as to whetheR he likes you oR not.. ASK HIM. Just be bold, and go foR the gold. Don't beat aRound the bush, just tell him flat out how you feel. PeRhaps once you've bRoken the ice, he will be moRe willing to expRess HIS feelings.. Best of luck to you!! :)
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Well let me tell you...im 13, and i was just dating a 17 year old, and he got sent to jail, the 18 yr old is way too old for you, unless you dont want him to be sent to jail then dont fancy him and fancy the other one...but if he doesnt like you maybe you need to find sumone else
hope i helped!!
<3 Amber Nicole
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