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i asked u about my ex boyfriends best friend ..
i really like him and i cant stop thinkin about him. i dream about him everynight and sometimes i call him under private number just so i can hear his voice. his best friend and me went out for 2 months, and i thought i loved him but then he cheated on me. josh wouldnt tell me that he cheated, but his best friend (anton) told me. and to tell me a secret that his best friend told him NOT to tell me, but to tell me anyways, i thought that was sweet. i dont know what to do. i dont even know if he likes me or not. if you dont think i should go out wtih him, how do i get over him? and if i might should take a chance, what should i do to get him?
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OK first thing first if you have feeling for a guy you got to get it out there one wat or another like tell his friend or even better you talk to him ! but no i dont think you should try to get over him till you find out if he like you or not and with trying to get over someone you need to go out wiff your gurl and have a good time! and meet new guyz and soon enough you will catch your eye and you will feel your self slowy gettin over him! and to try to get him flirt with him be open minded and laugh at his joke and complemnet him and show him in ur eyes you have feeling for him be silly and blonde and just me FLIRTY! and all else fails tell him you like him ! hope i could help and best of luck with him !
*Tacy*
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Well I think he likes you but thats just me. I think you should flirt alot and never play hard to get.
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My opion is that you don't go out with him, even though that he says that he is ready for a serious reletionship, that is a bunch of bull! The way that I see it, once a player always a player! But if you really want to get him, totally play hard to get.....if you guys hang out totally hang all over some other guy. Like every always wants what they can't have!
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You said you really hadn't talked to him much, so start there. I think you should take the chance to date him if you'd like to. Take the risk. If you talk to him you will be able to tell if he likes you or not.
Some things that might help you know...
Is he nice to you? Does he smile at you when you see him? Will he talk to you or brush you off?
You just need to think of a reason to call him. Maybe call and say I'd really like to see "name of movie", would you consider going with me? Ask him out!
Most of all just be yourself. Yes, if you go out with him you might get hurt. It can happen with anyone. But then again, he might be great! Go talk to him and make him notice you. Let me know how it goes. Good luck :)
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hello again! thats so cute..., you really like him. well, i do think you should go for it, but be catious like i said. dont expect him not to cheat on you. if he does cheat, end it. and get over him & move on to the next guy. what should you do to get him? try telling him you like him. (dont tell him you dream about him, might freak him out) and he seems like he might like you already. just be yourself, dont like flirt too much, but show that your into him. and if you do what to get over him, it does take time (dont expect it to happen over night). you kind of need to find a new guy to like (maybe someone who doesn't cheat, and you can trust). or for me, it even helps to obsess over a famous guy. it just replaces him with a celebrity && instead of thinking of the guy u like right now, think of the hot celeb. lol, seriously it works. sounds pretty silly, im sure. so what else you can do is listen to music, stay distracted - keep busy, hang out with your girl-friends. eventually, you will hopefully move on. so there you go. hope i helped.
♥ nicole
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you could go out with him, if it somes up but i wouldn't it is really hard to just stop cheating. but you could but make sure you trust him and, you are not afriad to get your heart broken. sounds fun eh? i know it's not what you want to hear but sometimes truth hurts. but i would just stay friends, it's much easier.
hope it all works out!
roxy
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You could just go up to him and ask him if he wants to go to the mivies or something...and things might just settle along the way...or you could write a note and hace someone give the note to him and tell him to meet you somewhere and then just do what eva feels right from there. You could just not waste any time and jusy flat out ask him if he likes you or not...which eva you choose...it will turn out for the best...AsH!
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Well,
I personally think you should date outside that box because every single one of your boyfriends knows your exboyfriend and so on and you want to date someone that might make your ex jealous. To get over him, you should try doing something fun with another guy and one or two or three of your closest friends. Have a great time and you'll soon start to like this boy and guess what?... There ya go! LOL. I know it doesn't SEEM like it will work but trust me, it does. Go to like... Astroworld or Splashtown or Schlitterbahn or the movies or something else. Just forget about the other boy because he's probably going to do you wrong and you don't want to get hurt. If you want to talk about something totally off topic or need more advice, just ask. I'm always here for you. If you want, you can email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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Well I definitiely do agRee with you, it WAS polite of Anton to tell you that youR boyfRiend had been unfaithful. HoweveR, that DOES NOT automatically give Anton good chaRacteR. You said that Anton has ALWAYS been unfaithful... but he has feelings like any otheR human being.. and HE would huRt if someone cheated on him TOO.. THUS why he told you. HoweveR.. it's A HELL OUT A LOT easieR to coRRect and Ridule SOMEONE ELSE oveR youRself, you see what I'm saying?? Like.. don't cheat.. it's easieR said than done accoRding to HIM.. In my honest opinion.. I would not tRust him in the TINIEST SLIGHTEST EENSY-WEENSY BIT, but I definitely DO Realize that this is NOT *MY* decision to make.... and ultimately... it's NOT *MY* heaRt to bReak.....
I Realize that eveRybody is diffeRent, and no two people shaRe the same thoughts.. but the way *I* would view it... getting with Anton would be taking a step BACKWARDS, because I'm only setting myself up foR a tRagic ending. Basically, I just don't see how and why it seems like a wise move.
Finding out whetheR he likes you is the EASY paRt.. just ask him!! Plain and simple! Just set aside youR feaRs and neRvousness and give it all ya got! Just be bold and shoot high!! Don't beat aRound the bush, just say it flat out. And I'm willing to be that if YOU tell HIM what YOU'RE feeling fiRst.. you'Re a lot moRe likely to get an honest Response fRom HIM, because you've bRoken the ice, you see?? If you don't eveR ask him.. how do you expect youR Relationship to go ANYWHERE?? TRuth is.. you'll NEVER EVER know what he's feeling unless HE tells you diRectly! You can ASSUME his feelings all you want... but that doesn't make it so, and when it comes down to it.. that's ALLLLLLL it is -- an ASSUMPTION.
And the best way to get oveR someone is to find someone new, Hun. I was in a similaR postition not too long ago. This guy wasn't a cheateR, I just needed to get oveR him.. so I cut off ALLL contact ALLTOGETHER! And I know it seems extReme.. and it IS a bit extReme.. but it woRked. I admit.. I cRied like MAD the fiRst thRee days, and he was allllllllll I thought about foR the fiRst week... but I knew it was foR the best. I realize that's asking a lot, but is it possible foR you to do that?? And is theRe any otheR way you can meet some new guys? The mall, thRough a fRiend, the paRk.. anything? I highly suggest that!! It will take youR mind OFF of Anton, while blossoming a new Relationship [fRiendship oR otheRwise] with anotheR individual; and you can NEVER have too many fRiends!!!
Hopefully this gives you something to think on. Know that I am *always, *always, *always heRe if you eveR feel the need. :)
♥ Mackenzie!!!
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