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Hey my name is Taylor and my friends call me Tacy and i luv helping other and i am really friendly i have blode hair and blue eyes i luv to play soccer go shopping and geta nice hott sexy tan and most of all i luv guyz they are my reason for living!!! but my gurls come frist and i luv all yall! but if u need any help no need to ask just go for it im alwayz her for you thx yall luv yall lots

*Tacy*
E-mail: LILSHORT323@hotmail.com
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Location: Greenville
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Age: 14
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Ive had glasses since I was three and finally im getting contacts. Im going for an appointment to learn how to properly stick them in and stuff. I know they'll be able to really answer my questions but can anyone who has them tell me what it was like the first few days the had them? Some people told me it was painless, most others said they were in alot of pain & that it burned. I just wanna know so I can be prepared for whatever feeling I get. thanks, I'll rate.

Meg (link)
i have contacts 2 i got them right when i found out i needed glasses(it was this yrs) i had no time to feel like wut glasses felt like !! i am stuburn and lazy so its tooks me months to learn to get them in by my self but its will burn a lil at the begaining but when you fist get them you do not need to wear them all day wear them for a few hrs then take them out so your eyes can slowly adjust!!! and then put them again or a lil longer tomrrow !!! they will be ard to get in and out the first couple of time!! i hve small eye so its evern harder !!!! but they do not hurt they willjust burn a lil and after a month or 2 you might want to get contacts with hydro clear !!! you can wear them day and niht for 30 day i have them and thre great!!! hope i helped!! they doo not hurt after you get used to it !! just a lil burn at the begaining ! hoped i help if you need more drop one in my box! *Tacy*


13/m/sc ...It sort of starts out like this. I was going out with a girl that i sort of had feelings for. But i was distracted by another girl that i had more feelings for, and i felt it wasnt right to like another girl and still lie to the girl i was going out with. So i dumped her, whether this other girl would like me or not. And so now this "other girl" says to me that she doesnt like me, but that she doesnt want me to stop liking her because she thinks she will regret it soon when she starts to like me. So i sort of sit here now just friend with her, and im wondering whether i should move onto another girl or not... or whether i should just wait here forever if she even ever ends up liking me to begin with. Now i think you may know who this girl is, but besides the point, what do you think i should do? =P (link)
ok ! you can't wait on a girl forever ! you need to make a move or something to show her you want to be more than friends bkuz she prob thinks that you are just saying to to make her feel special ! and if she tells you to back off then except her answer and simple tell her you wish she would like you back but if not you'll just have to move on !!! though she will prob fall for you after she looses you .... but you need to let her fall and maybe if you have feelings for you again then try is out .... she prob was afraid or something but make a move gurls like that when a guy show charge that he is the man and you her gurl its a turn on n maybe next time she'll come for you !! hehe hope i helped! and best o luck! *Tacy*


tacy tacy tacy i need ur help. i am 14 and i weigh 350. i eat all day long. and i play with my fat and bounce it up and down. but i dont like it. how do i get a six pack. i really wnat a 8 pack but. 6 will do. please i need ur help. im so fat that i might just stop eating and die (link)
ok i dont think this is a real person because i have a feeling it is my freaking gay friend daniel but if it is hear you go:

ok! i am a person who works out alot though i am still young ! i can give you some pointer!! i work out alot because i play soccer! anywayz ...

*run!! ( go on a 3 and half mile jog/run twice a week.... running helps your abs!!) the more you can run the beter your butt and legs ad abs will get!!

**do sit ups and crunches they works both parts of the abs lowers and uper!!

*** when doin crunches put ur feet in the air and cross your legs !! and hands behind your head!! it makes it ever harder so you will have to push your self !!

**** do rows!!! sit in a sit up postion and dont let any part of your body touch except your butt have your legs in the air as if you were still goin sit ups and your under body and hands in the air and go forward and back but dont let your body touch the ground!!! it is hard when your first start!! it is like rowing a boat !! it is all one motion and can be tricky!!

*****do push up!!! very important!! challnge your self push your self till you think you cant do anymore than do about 50 more!!

******do this 3 time a day!!! when you get up after lunch and before you go to bed!!!


do 50 crunchs 50 sit - up and 25 rows and 50 push up! 3 times a day !!! it will be really hard at first then it will get easier and the easier it comes temore you need to do!! by then end of a month you should be able to do 150 crunches 150 sit up 150 push ups and about 75 to 100 rows !!!

With the dieting!! eat many fuirt and vegatable !!! drink only water and gatorade!!! salads are awesome !!! NO JUNK FOOD !! NO POP NO CANDY!!! stay away from all of that very bad!
eat lots of pasta!! very good stay away from meat only eat meat rarley!! and eat small portion of food!

ALSO!! SWIMMING IS GREAT!! do many laps and if possible join a swim team!! if you can to that do alot of butterfly , backstorke ,freestyle, and breast... do about 100 laps a week!!!!! and psuh your self while doin it to do it slow and easily!!! PUSH UR SELF!!




~HOPE I HELPED!!~
~if you need anything else feel free to ask away!!~

*Tacy*


P.S i kno this is the same as another person but i dont really think yo are forreal about it but if you are this will work


OMG!! TACY PLEASE HELP ok im 14/f and me and my boyfriend (16/m) have been going out 4 2 months w/o my mom knowing and now im pregnant!! and my mom is REALLLY STRICT! what should i do?

1. keep it n tell her and be dead
2.have an abortion and not tell her
3.put it in a home and either tell her or not
4. any thing else!!!!



HELPPP!!! (link)
Omg!! you didnt use protection... not a smooth move but ok nothing you can do now!! NEVER GET AN ABORTION that is taking away another person life !!! never and its totally just crude and evil!!! and do not put it in a home because that child could go its whole life with never knowing its mom !! i think you should tell your mom if she luv you ....(i hope see does) then she will be upset with ou but she will take it in with you and hel you rase t so you can go to skool ..... but she problly just strict cuz she love and cares about you ad doesnt want you to hurt my mom is the same way when i am around guy ... she doesnt like most of my boyfriends ethier ! but tell her she will find out on way or another and if you dont tell her and when she finds out she will be ever maddder!!! hope i help if ou need any thing else just drop one in my box! best luck and i hope you baby is heathly !!!

*Tacy*


i love work. work is very fun but i mne i get in trouble way to much. like oh my gosh i tlk just way way to much. its terbile how muich i do. i need ur help b/c i cant get in treoulbe at work. last week i took 4 hrs coffie break. like omgah.well please tacy help me i really need u.
oh by the way i am 35 and work at CVS and im a young man (link)
omg i totally talk 2 much 2! but wut i do is try to sit there or stand there and foucs really hard on something to get my mind set ..... then i can concentrate for a while.. though i dunno dont kno u but maybe you need meds ! but talking is not bad it means you have good poeples skills!!! dont stop talking but coffe break and lunch breaks should be limted !!! to stop talking turn ur cell phone off! and try to only talk to the custamores and not the employees !!! and talk bunches on your lunch break try to be more serious ! during work and at your lunch/coffe / or wutever break should only be 45 min !! to much and your boss could think your slacking off!!! also try to only have one break !! your lunch break! and the coffe isnt really needed if you must just have a cup of coffe on the way or if your boss lets you drink it while your working!!! hope i helped !! if you need more help just drop one in my box!! or im me at WantnSummaLuvin ........

*Tacy*


my moms friend had cancer and about 1 week ago the treatment finished and he is okay. well the hole company is having a party for him [john]. it is also his 61th birthday. Could i have some suggestions on sayings for him cake.
1) it needs to involve something w. gettin his cancer treated and bein well
2) he loves golf
3) it needs to include something for his b-day (link)
hey this may sound stupid but here i got!

Con-Grates! U SURVIED all 18 holes with many more holes o come!

i kno it stupid but wut i mean by it is he survied it all the way threw cancer!!! and to make it easier for him you put it in a golf way! have the cake have a person and a flag and the green with him geting it in! i dont kno ur liimit but thats alll i can think of! and for the b-day i did have a single clue


is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false? (link)
SUPER BAD FOR YOU !! takesthe calcium away from your bones hunny!! o not drink it!! not even diet!!! if your looking for some flavor try propel!! or flavored water !!! and if you like gatorade pur a half of gatorade in a glass and then fill the rest will water it waters it down and its less the suger i do that when i play soccer so that there not so much suger in the bottle !! not much you can do and also soda ruins your TEETH ewww no one wants gross teeth!! hope i helped !!!

*Tacy*


Umm, hey, I just got out of 9th grade, and I'm looking for a dependable inexpensive car. I prefer SUV's but a car would work. I really need one before school starts. Do you know any good places to get used cars? I'm in South Carolina. Upstate Area.

Thanks,
Ben (link)
hey i found a website with a used car that is nice ! for a highschooler and i hope you like it!
1998 JEEP G. CHEROKEE BLACK A/FCAS, AC, ANTI-L, AUTO, CD, CRUISE, DAIRBA, KEYS, LARE, P/SEAT, P/WIN, PMIRRO, R/DEFG, REMOTE 140,157 $5,995

also

2000 FORD EXPLORER XLS BLUE 4 X 4, A/FCAS, AC, ANTI, AUTO, CRUISE, DAIRBA, KEYS, P/LOCK, PMIRRO, R/DEFG, REMOTE, TILT 91,168 $9,995

also

2000 GMC JIMMY SLT BLUE A/FCD, AC, ANTI, ANTI-L, AUTO, CRUISE, DAIRBA, KEYS, LEATHE, P/WIN, PMIRRO, R/DEFG, REMOTE, TILT 116,820 $8,995

the website is ....
http://www.dbcarter.com/cgi-bin/inv.pl

sry i dont kno how to put it in hear as a link but those cars are on that page !!! and there are some like lil cars 2 if you dont want something with a bunch of miles on it!!! hope i help !! if you wan me 2 search more then just give me a shout !!!

*Tacy*


I'm 14/M & I'm about 5'2 (maby even 5'1) & I weaigh about 115

I was looking for a work out routie that I could get a 6 pack, arm mussels, & a muscular chest

I'd also need a diet that I wouldn't gain alot of weaight from

& could you also tell me about how long it would take to get a 6 pack from your routie?

since I'm 14 & I live in a small town in Texas, I can't get a gym member-ship or will my mom, dad, or step-dad do anything to help me with this (I don't mind going behind there backs & doing stuff, they don't need to know everything that I do), so I can't really buy a magazine or buy a video on this

I really appriciate your help, thank you (link)
ok! i am a person who works out alot though i am still young ! i can give you some pointer!! i work out alot because i play soccer! anywayz ...

*run!! ( go on a 3 and half mile jog/run twice a week.... running helps your abs!!) the more you can run the beter your butt and legs ad abs will get!!

**do sit ups and crunches they works both parts of the abs lowers and uper!!

*** when doin crunches put ur feet in the air and cross your legs !! and hands behind your head!! it makes it ever harder so you will have to push your self !!

**** do rows!!! sit in a sit up postion and dont let any part of your body touch except your butt have your legs in the air as if you were still goin sit ups and your under body and hands in the air and go forward and back but dont let your body touch the ground!!! it is hard when your first start!! it is like rowing a boat !! it is all one motion and can be tricky!!

*****do push up!!! very important!! challnge your self push your self till you think you cant do anymore than do about 50 more!!

******do this 3 time a day!!! when you get up after lunch and before you go to bed!!!


do 50 crunchs 50 sit - up and 25 rows and 50 push up! 3 times a day !!! it will be really hard at first then it will get easier and the easier it comes temore you need to do!! by then end of a month you should be able to do 150 crunches 150 sit up 150 push ups and about 75 to 100 rows !!!

With the dieting!! eat many fuirt and vegatable !!! drink only water and gatorade!!! salads are awesome !!! NO JUNK FOOD !! NO POP NO CANDY!!! stay away from all of that very bad!
eat lots of pasta!! very good stay away from meat only eat meat rarley!! and eat small portion of food!

ALSO!! SWIMMING IS GREAT!! do many laps and if possible join a swim team!! if you can to that do alot of butterfly , backstorke ,freestyle, and breast... do about 100 laps a week!!!!! and psuh your self while doin it to do it slow and easily!!! PUSH UR SELF!!




~HOPE I HELPED!!~
~if you need anything else feel free to ask away!!~

*Tacy*


I work my abs a lot, and I definitely have a 6 pack underneath my stubborn belly fat. Im a normal weight for my age and height, Im 14/f/5'5" and 129 lbs. I'm a little chubby in my lower stomach and I dont know how do get rid of it and let my abs show. I can feel the muscles underneath but i cant see them. I'll rate high (link)
ok! i am a person wh o works out alot though i am still young ! i can give you some pointer!!

*run!! ( go on a 3 and half mile jog/run twice a week.... running helps your abbs!!)

**do sit ups and crunches they works both parts of the abs lowers and uper!!

*** when doin crunches put ur feet in the air and cross your legs !! and hands behind your head!! it makes it ever harder so you will have to push your self !!

**** do rows!!! sit in a sit up postion and dont let any part of your body touch except your butt have your legs in the air as if you were still goin sit ups and your under body and hands in the air and go forward and back but dont let your body touch the ground!!! it is hard when your first start!! it is like rowing a boat !! it is all one motion and can be tricky!!

***** do this 3 time a day!!! when you get up after lunch and before you go to bed!!!


******do 50 crunchs 50 sit - up and 25 rows 3 times a day !!! it will be really hard at first then it will get easier and the easier it comes temore you need to do!! by then end of a month you should be able to do 150 crunches 150 sit up and about 75 to 100 rows !!!


~HOPE I HELPED!!~
~if you need anything else feel free to ask away!!~

*Tacy*


what is snogging? (link)
Kissing and cuddling


i really like him and i cant stop thinkin about him. i dream about him everynight and sometimes i call him under private number just so i can hear his voice. his best friend and me went out for 2 months, and i thought i loved him but then he cheated on me. josh wouldnt tell me that he cheated, but his best friend (anton) told me. and to tell me a secret that his best friend told him NOT to tell me, but to tell me anyways, i thought that was sweet. i dont know what to do. i dont even know if he likes me or not. if you dont think i should go out wtih him, how do i get over him? and if i might should take a chance, what should i do to get him? (link)
OK first thing first if you have feeling for a guy you got to get it out there one wat or another like tell his friend or even better you talk to him ! but no i dont think you should try to get over him till you find out if he like you or not and with trying to get over someone you need to go out wiff your gurl and have a good time! and meet new guyz and soon enough you will catch your eye and you will feel your self slowy gettin over him! and to try to get him flirt with him be open minded and laugh at his joke and complemnet him and show him in ur eyes you have feeling for him be silly and blonde and just me FLIRTY! and all else fails tell him you like him ! hope i could help and best of luck with him !

*Tacy*


hello...my g/f wants to have sex w/ me...i told her yes, now shes tellin me that she wants to fool around first just to see if its "right" idk wat the hell but...im 8.5 inches, idk if thats a good or bad thing, want to help!?!?!?!?!!?!!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?! oh yeah and by fool around she means suck my dick, me finger her feel on her eat dat "suga" haha...but just lemme know!! (link)
ok! first thing first if your gonna have sex have protection !! TROJAN MAN!! haha anywayz snice yall go out she must kno that you are shy! hope so! and if you dont want to!!! dont let her pressure you! and if you are not comfutable fingering her or her sucking ur penis then tell her so! and if you are just not ready tell her sit down with you and have a talk and make sure she is not just talkin shit!! and about the 8.5 thats is pretty damn good but it depends on your race if your white thats nice! but if ur black you have only got a normal package !! and if your asain your on steroids!!! haha but really your race matters the size!!! and i hope you and your gurl work out ! hope i helped

*Tacy*


My guy friend & I like eachother as more than friends. I'm a bit worried because it'll be my first relationship & I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone fill me in? Thank you!

xO* bReE (link)
OMG!! your first relationship aww so cute!! well dont be nerves !! just be your self because he likes you for who you are not for wut you might try to be! just be relaxed and exchange numbers if yall already havent!!! and talk on the phone til the sun comes up !! first loe is alway the best and when you look back on it u want t to be sweet and simple but when goin into your first realtionship dont expect yall to be kssing making out and other stuff go in it confident and ready to be there foreach other !! but let me tell you this if yall do break up ur friendship might change because boyz can be mean after you break up wiff them but if hes is your best friend then yall so be ok!! but i hope everything works out and remeber dont expect much and take thing S-L-O-W !!!!! because love take time !! BEST OF LUCK! IF YOU NEED ANYTHING MORE JUST ASK AWAY!!
*Tacy*


sorry this is so long but i am really confused and i would love for any advise from anyone!

ok here is goes. me adn my ex boyfriend (josh) we out all last summer and he cheated on me so we broke up and havent talked since. well the other day i was on the phone with his best friend (anton) and josh was over there so me adn josh talked and we are cool now. well i like anton but anton is a huge player. he has cheated on almost every girl he has went out with. he is also not a virgin .. me i havent even tounge kissed a guy before. well anton told me that he is actually ready to get into a serious relationship with a girl. i really wanna be that girl, but im so scared for anyone to know that i likw him. im scared he is gonna cheat on me or hurt me just like josh. me adn anton dont talk alot adn we dont know each other really good. i really like him and i dont know what to do. i even dream about him at night. can anyone please give me some advise on what to do?? thanks if you do!! (link)
well first you should get to kno him !!! try flirting with him and if he flirts bac dont get to happy because like you said he is a MAJOR PLAYA ! but when yall talk ask him if he is serious about having a serious relationship and tell him you are interested !
with the part about not telling anyone if they are your TRUE friends they wil underdstand and will suport you in most of your decisions ... the only thing is they most likely will be watching him because they dont want you to get hurt! the dreaming part is sort of normal it could just be a lil first time puppy love crush but it keep haoppending then you really need to get to kno him so that your heart and your brain can share the same feeling ! but get t kno him !! that is realy important when you want to or go in to a relationship you need to kno the guy before you get close and relize yall arnt meant for each other!!! hope i helped! and BEST OF LUCK!

*Tacy*


ok i have this boyfriend and we went out for 8 monthes and saw eachother like almost everyday! then we broke up for 5 monthes but now were going out again and we've been together for 4 monthes but we NEVER see eachother like we've only seen eacher twice! and we talk all the time on the phone but never get to be together cuz i ask him all the time and hes always buys or he just blows me off to hang out w/ his friends and i dont no what to do and he always tells me he loves me but i feel like he doesnt can someone please help me? and i dont think hes cheating on me or ne thing! please help thanks! (link)
well first thing first if you have a boyfriend you shold always come first to him and his guyz would come second! you should be his main foucus and you need to tell him if you want to hang around your guyz more than me than screw you and tell him if you cant make time for you then i guess your just not worth it ! he should be begging you to go with him every where ! and you shouldnt have to ask him if he watns to do something it should always be him calling you wanting to be there for you ! and tell him how you feel because maybe he just has gotten side tracked but if you think he is cheating then you need to sit down and have a talk and when he answer and if he says no watch his eye to see if he is telling you straight up because if he cant look you in the eye he is 99.9% lieing ! but first thing first TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!! hope i helped and i hope things work out!


Tacy!


there is this girl.. n everytime some1 likes a guy.. she somehow takes him from the girl.. n she is doing it to me this time.. and I don't wanna let that happen! cause I realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like him and I have for a while.. what can I do to stop her? (link)
be careful girl fights can be extreme dangourus but i would have to say take her aside and tell her wut she has been doin and that you do not like it ! tell her you would really like it if she would stay away and if that doesnt work tell her that my man you better back off BITCH! and you could tell the guy you like him and if he likes you bac he will not go for the other gurl! but if all else fails CAT FIGHT! but remeber try to work it out nicely and careful first and if that doesnt work try talking trash behide her bac and if all else fails bitch slap her! hope i could help in any possible way!


OK i like this guy, Jesse. And everyone who knows him keeps saying he likes you he likes you, but like i can see it i just like cant believe it you know? well anyways, Jesse is really nice, like we met abut a week & 1/2 ago and stuff but like we really hit it off and stuff. WEll it turns out he has a girlfriend, Bethaniee. and i know his girlfriend too. well his girl friend keeps being a little suspicious about me talking to him and hanging out with him cause the last time we hung out it was at my friend Faye's house and we were sitting in her hot tub half of the day talking about random stuff. and i dont know how Bethaniee found out we were in the hot tub but nothing happend so anywys like we were talking on aim and he imed me and we started talkin. then all out of the blue he asked for my cell number. i gave it to him and he called me 5 minutes later. we talked for like 2 hours. Then at like 1 last night he called me and we talked for an hour and stuff then my dad came in and said get off the phone so i hung up on him . then he texted me saying "are u ok?" and "im sorry i got you in trouble" i know i like him but i can't admit it to my friends cause there all like do you like him and i didnt at first but like know i really do.


so my 2 questions are:A.After readding all in info do you think he likes me
&
B.should i tell him i like him (link)
hey you cant keep your feeling inside you ! you need to tell him how you feel and open up and even if he doesnt feel the same way about you ... you know that you did the right thing and you didnt just worry about it and keep it inside you ! and if he does like you thats a plus but be careful make sure he is single before you 2 mingle .. dont push him ethier to become single it will take time and maybe he still has feeling for that other gurl ! let him decide and take it step by step but ethier way it turns out you kno that yall will be closer and have a better relationship ethier way ethier as friends or boyfriend and girlfriend! best luck and stay strong !!!


k.. i dated my ex-boyfriend for 11 months. he broke up with me about a week ago. my friend hooked me up with her boyfriend's friend and i really like him a lot. last night, i went to my ex's house and made out with him and stuff.. and he was all over me.. and today he's going on a date. i can't forget my ex. this isn't the first time we've broken up. i just can't seem to get over him. this other guy is so close to perfect. and i don't want to go out with him if i'm gonna still have feelings for my ex. what kind of things would help to get over my ex? someone please help. (link)
well first you cant go your life living a lie ... you cant go out with this other dude any longer he will be crushed if he finds out that you cheated on him you need to get your feeling straight before going on dating him before it gets to serious. if you break up with him tell him why and that if he really likes you he will understand and wait untill your feeiling are straight and you are complety over your X'bf and if you find out that you cant get over your X'bf then tell him and try to work things out just as friends as well as your X'bf tell him your feelings sit down with him and tell him you are crazy for him you cant stop thinking about him and that you wish you 2 could hook back up togather and not just be a make out parnter .. that you would want to be boyfriend and girlfriend not just another fling


Last year i went out with a girl that i loved so much and she broke up with me for another kid. Lately i find myself liking people but then not liking them when they like me back. i feel permanantly scarred from this girl who did this to me but i dont know how to get myself back on my feet. Any of you have some advice for me? (link)
hey ok its ok to be scared after a break up it can be hard to get over someone trust me it takes time but when u start to like someone new you need to open up your mind and forget the little things that remind you of her and try to get threw the begaining of your relationship because if u liked her before she liked you then you will begain to feel convident around her and your likingness will grow stronger and it might take a few relationship to get bac wut you had with that other gurl but love takes time and just remeber to keep looking forward and not get caught up in te game




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