Last year i went out with a girl that i loved so much and she broke up with me for another kid. Lately i find myself liking people but then not liking them when they like me back. i feel permanantly scarred from this girl who did this to me but i dont know how to get myself back on my feet. Any of you have some advice for me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? icexvii answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 9:37 am: It is hard when a girl breaks your heart, but you need to dive back in two footed and go for it with someone else. What you need is closure from your ex, and you will not get that sitting around thinking about her. If you find someone you like and they feel the same way, then go out with them. In time you will forget about your ex and discover a new relationship and a new girl that you love even more. It might seem unlikely right now, but trust me on this. It will get easier. [ icexvii's advice column | Ask icexvii A Question ]
TacyBabe answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:34 pm: hey ok its ok to be scared after a break up it can be hard to get over someone trust me it takes time but when u start to like someone new you need to open up your mind and forget the little things that remind you of her and try to get threw the begaining of your relationship because if u liked her before she liked you then you will begain to feel convident around her and your likingness will grow stronger and it might take a few relationship to get bac wut you had with that other gurl but love takes time and just remeber to keep looking forward and not get caught up in te game [ TacyBabe's advice column | Ask TacyBabe A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:18 pm: YOU HAVE TO GIVE THE OTHER GIRLS CHANCES! DUDE.. N0T EVERY GIRL WILL TREAT YOU THE SAME AS YOUR EX DID.. TRUST ME! YOU SEEM REALLY NICE AND CARING AND THAT GIRL IS INSANE F0R DUMPING YOU! YOU CANT JUST SIT THERE AND NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. I MEAN SERIOUSLY GIVE A GIRL A CHANCE. SHE WILL PROBABLLY CARE FOR YOU A LOT MORE THEN THE OTHER GIRL AND SHE WONT FAKE IT. YOUR HEART WILL GET BROKEN AT TIMES BUT THEN AGAIN YOU'LL BE FINE! YOU CANT JUST LET THAT GIRL RUIN EVERYTHING FOR YOU. THERE IS NICER GIRLS OUT THERE AND JUST TRY NOT TO BE SCARED. G00D LUCK!! [[ ♥ ]] [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
BurnieMac answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:15 pm: I seem to have that problem too. I mean it's like when I like a girl and I see that she's interested in me maybe, I seem to lose interest in her. It's weird. I really don't know what you can do to help this out; sorry I don't have an answer; I just wanted to let you know that I too have that same problem. Well, if you find out something, let me know.
juliaafriedman answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:11 pm: You have to let yourself let go a little bit. I know it's hard but you can do it. DO NOT let this impact your life for ever and ever. you'll meet other girls and they'll be just as worthy. Keep your eyes open though. This girl could be right under your nose. [ juliaafriedman's advice column | Ask juliaafriedman A Question ]
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