OK i like this guy, Jesse. And everyone who knows him keeps saying he likes you he likes you, but like i can see it i just like cant believe it you know? well anyways, Jesse is really nice, like we met abut a week & 1/2 ago and stuff but like we really hit it off and stuff. WEll it turns out he has a girlfriend, Bethaniee. and i know his girlfriend too. well his girl friend keeps being a little suspicious about me talking to him and hanging out with him cause the last time we hung out it was at my friend Faye's house and we were sitting in her hot tub half of the day talking about random stuff. and i dont know how Bethaniee found out we were in the hot tub but nothing happend so anywys like we were talking on aim and he imed me and we started talkin. then all out of the blue he asked for my cell number. i gave it to him and he called me 5 minutes later. we talked for like 2 hours. Then at like 1 last night he called me and we talked for an hour and stuff then my dad came in and said get off the phone so i hung up on him . then he texted me saying "are u ok?" and "im sorry i got you in trouble" i know i like him but i can't admit it to my friends cause there all like do you like him and i didnt at first but like know i really do.
so my 2 questions are:A.After readding all in info do you think he likes me
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B.should i tell him i like him
Additional info, added Thursday July 7 2005, 4:25 pm: Well its turns out after a long phone conversation late last night and many question later, Jesse does like me and now were just getting to know each other better, and from what i have heard he barley talks to his girlfriend but talks to me all the time so thats a really good thing for me......................... i think. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Ambix3 answered Friday July 8 2005, 1:34 pm: In my opinion, I think her really does like you. He calls you all the time, and wants to be with you. But the problem is, he has a girlfriend. Maybe he'll break up with her? But then there will be tension between you and Bethaniee. Is she one of your friends? I would talk to Jesse about it. Tell him how you feel about him, and try and get to know him better. Then maybe in the future, your guys relationship will go to the next level!! Good luck!!
PrincessAva answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:01 pm: Well congratulations he likes you!!!! imso happy for you its great that wall had that long phone conversation together jsut to get to know each other!!! And you never know, now the he knows you like him, maybe he will ask you out! who knows
GOOD LUCK
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SOAD98 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 1:19 pm: YES HE LIKES YOU!!! if he talks to you that long then he definately likes you...Don't ask him out though guys should ask girls out. Tell one of your friends that you like him and trust me they will run and tell him haha. Then if he likes you he will ask you out and there you go ;)
M_to_the_E_to_the_L answered Thursday July 7 2005, 11:17 am: A: He probably has some feelings for you but if he's with another girl the feelings can't be very strong. Any guy that is willing to cheat or go after another girl while still dating his girlfriend is selfish and only looking to fufill the needs they aren't getting from the current.
B: I don't knwo how much you really liek him. From the sounds of it, you liek the idea of him. You liek that your friends think he likes you so from tehre you gained some feeligns for him but they were only becasue you thought you'd have a chance. Yes feeligns liek that can make a loving relationship because its kind of what happened with my boyfriend and me, but make sure you know for sure. and to actually answer your question. I would say don't tell him. If you like him you shoudl care about his feeligns and wish him well in teh relationship he is in. Telling him mught make his life more stressful and put strain on the relationship that he seems to be happy in. [ M_to_the_E_to_the_L's advice column | Ask M_to_the_E_to_the_L A Question ]
NicolesxOxAdvice answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 8:49 pm: A.well i think he likes you as a freind for now because he has a girlfriend but maybe his feelings will change once hes done with her.. =)
and B.
Well i wouldnt tell him right away , after all he does have a girlfriend at the moment ..but maybe when hes done with her then deffinately tell him ..and if you have to wait to long for him ..go searching for something else .
hyperhottiegirl answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 4:42 pm: well just so you no i had the same problem. it sounds to me like he likes you a lot. the first thing you should do is call him and ask him if he likes you. if he says yes then tell him he already had a girlfriend and he would have to break up with her. hope i can help. for more info IM me at hyperhottiegirl and also see him a lot and talk to him on the phone a lot [ hyperhottiegirl's advice column | Ask hyperhottiegirl A Question ]
TacyBabe answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 1:38 pm: hey you cant keep your feeling inside you ! you need to tell him how you feel and open up and even if he doesnt feel the same way about you ... you know that you did the right thing and you didnt just worry about it and keep it inside you ! and if he does like you thats a plus but be careful make sure he is single before you 2 mingle .. dont push him ethier to become single it will take time and maybe he still has feeling for that other gurl ! let him decide and take it step by step but ethier way it turns out you kno that yall will be closer and have a better relationship ethier way ethier as friends or boyfriend and girlfriend! best luck and stay strong !!! [ TacyBabe's advice column | Ask TacyBabe A Question ]
jcsgrlthe1st answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 1:18 pm: well it seems he does by what poeple say, but maybe he just sees you as a really good friend? and sure! why not what have you got to lose? the worst that could happen is him say: im sorry i dont feel the same way and i have a girlfriend, but i think its always better to let someone know how you feel before its too late, even IF he has a girlfriend at least he knows how you feel.
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