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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
♥BLAiR

advice

heyy.
ok. here it goes.
theres this guy at work..angus..who i like and he apparently likes me. well he liked this girl at work Jose for ages and she had a boyfriend of 11 months. then he met me and he started liking me and jose dumped her boyfriend to go out with angus but angus was like 'I waited too long for you its too late i like ana now.'
and basically he just left her for me
and he did that to another girl before jose.
and now he likes me and hes full like Ana i love you blah blah and he hardly even talks to me.
and he wants to ask me out but all the girls at work are like Dont go out with him he is gonna screw you over and do what he did to jose he will just go off with another girl when he meets one and that he is a player etc etc and i told him about it and hes like Dont listen to them why would i do that to you etc etc
and the day before yesterday i went to visit him at work and he finished at 9 and so i went and came back at like 8:50 and then i asked the people where he was and the manager was like He left like half an hour ago and so i texted him and im like Yeah thanks .. full ditched mee. and so i told him to come yesterday at 3 before i start work and he was like okay and that morning i asked him if hes coming and he didnt reply so i just went at 3:40ish (i started at 4) and he was there with his mates. so i just went right past him.
then when i came out he was like Hey ana! and im like Hi thanks for telling me you were gonna come and hes like Im sorry ana please ana whats wrong .. ana i care about you. why are you angry at me..then hes like i promise i will come at 8 when you finish i promise blah blah. then he went away and then after i finished work i was waiting for my mum and he runs to me and goes to me ana im sorry for always dogging you ana please im sorry i really like you..you can think i dont like you but i really do. i love you ana i love you!
and then hes like i have to go somewhere with my mates
so basically i just saw him for like 2 seconds
how does he expect me to have a relationship with him when he NEVER has time for me? i basically only see him like 1 hour a week..
so i dont know what to do :(
xx

One thing I go by.

If he will do it WITH you to another girl, he will do it TO you with another girl.
but its your choice
♥BLaiR

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16/f
alright so, ive been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, and i dont love him is that normal? like.. if i dont love him by now should i brake up with him.. what would other people do? everyone around me is saying to brake up with him.. i do like him a lot i just dont love him..


thanks.

You might not ever love him. Love knows no time. It can happen soon or very distant future. If he is what makes you happy keep him until that isnt true for you anymore.
Good luck
♥BLAiR

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I started the pill for the first time on my last period.
I am now up to the placebo tablets (when I should get my period)
I have had 5 and I have 2 more to go and I still haven't gotten my period.
I'm not pregnant.
So what's going on?

That happens with me, I usually get my period on a friday when I started my placebo pills on a monday. I made a mistake and skipped four blue pills on accident and my period came early so its going to be super long. Avoid that =[. But yeah its going to be normal since you are just starting them. =]
♥BLAiR

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I found a website but it doesn't have everything I want so I wanted to know if anyone knows a website to get free ringtones
the one i found was tuneusin.com but is theres any other ones tell me please

thanks :]

www.funformobile.com
♥BLAiR

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I need to make a pinata like a dog.
It's a project for school. I can't buy one because after I finish making the pinata I have to cover it with a collage.

This is how I would like the dog to look like:
http://www.partystuffonline.co.uk/Description.asp?ProductID=7432

The thing is, I don't know how I'd possibly make the arms and legs. Please help me! I've looked all over the net and it only seems to tell me how to make the body. I need to know right away since this takes more than a day. PLEASEEEE!!!

A guy in my art class did a paper mache dog and it was in that exact position. He used rolled up news paper for the legs and taped them on and it turned out very good.
♥BLAiR

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okay this might sound weird or you might not understand. but i'm quite thin the problem is i'm wide not because of my body but i have 2 big humps on each side of my waist full of fat atleast i think so . i want to loose them but i can't stay on a diet and i don't want to take pills at young age what can i do?

Oh dear meet your enemy, Your love handles =] Majority of the people have them. Look for excercises that work your obliques, That is the name for them. =]
♥BLAiR

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I'm 15 and I usually don't wear any makeup but when I do I only wear some eyeliner and mascara. I wanna get more though. What kinds of stuff should I buy? i was in sephora yesterday and there's so much nice stuff but I don't know what to get. I would like it if I could get some advice from girls about my age b/c I want to wear what's in style and nothing too crazy. I have dark brown hair, blue eyes, and a light complexion. If you could just give me some tips and tell me what you do and what brands to get, that would be great! Pictures would be nice too.

I have blue eyes, brown hair and a light complexion. I use clinique foundation, with powder over it and a small amount of blush and or mac bronzer. Since i turn red really easily i use very little blush and sometimes none and its a darkish color. Then almay has eyeshadow and eye makeup for certain colored eyes, and when i wear that i always get compliments about my eyes and when i dont wear that i wear like a mauve color or just a really pretty brown with mascara and eyeliner along my top lashline. Ask if you have any questions =]
♥BLAiR

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My boyfriend and I have never had penetrative sex--or sex at all, honestly. We've only dry humped through four layers of clothing (his two, my two). Bodily fluids have never been exchanged.

I'm currently on my period.

Today I woke up with a throbbing headache; later on during the day, I experienced great fatigue and ran a fever of 100.4. I've been experiencing chills and hot flashes. My stomach feels odd, but not any different from other pains I've experienced while on my period.

Are these symptoms of pregnancy, or am I being far too paranoid?

Are you using tampons? TSS could be a factor. Check that out if that is indeed the case.
♥BLAiR

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I'm 18.. and a virgin..
I've been going out with a guy for a year now...we love eachother alot...
I want to have sex after marriage..
due to religious reasons and also because i think it will be of more value when you have sex for the first time on your first night...
But he wants to have sex before that....
the 1st time i explained my reasons to him he said he understood.. but now he seems to be changing..
a few days ago he bought that conversation up again
and when i explained it to him all over again he was pissed with me
"aren't you willing to have sex with me?" "dont you love me?" "why are you doing this to me?"

etc

why is he in such a hurry? doesnt he value me or respect me???

what can be wrong


I just dont know what to do now..
please help me:(

please dont tell me to dump him... I love him alot and i cant live without him...

is anything wrong with me??? if so please explain ...

Please help me...

"dont you love me?" Thats a deal breaker there, Doesnt he love you enough to respect you? Talk to him and tell him thats the way its going to be. Please dont give into temptation. I made that mistake and regret it.
♥BLAiR

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(Sorry, this is long) Well I'm going through a tough time right now. I feel like I've lost MANY friends that I've once loved. It seems like they've left me and they don't even care about me anymore. I only have like a lil true friends, and the one that was probably the truest has left me and I miss her. I dunno what happened, how, and why. It's too much to explain, but I can't help but to feel depressed a lot. So the main point is that I've lost like a lot of friends and even though I have some true friends, I can't stand them sometimes. My one friend that was like my bestest friend ever has moved on, and I just don't get why. Some of my friends I don't get to see that much anymore, and I don't hang out with people like I used to last year. Some of my friends have stopped calling or don't call as much as they used to. I know this is lame and overrated, and shouldn't matter, but I'm sure that last year, I would've been very high in some of my friends' top friends on Myspace. And they would've been high on mine too. Now, I'm like VERY low on there's. There are even people who are BARELY their friends that are higher than me! They barely even know eachother when I've known them longer and know a whole bunch about them. I've always been there for them. All my friends I have come to love are now the people I hate the most. And the people who have stolen my friends, I become jealous of them and hate them. One moment I can think they are kewl and nice, but the next, I just hate them. The first semester of my school has ended and I've been living my life as a lie for the whole semester. I hate being two-faced, but I think it's the only way I can survive. Everything has changed. I feel so unloved. This other person (I guess you can say she's kinda my friend), but our b-days were on the same day. She got like a ton of comments on Myspace (maybe even more and maybe including emails) with people saying Happy B-day and stuff. I didn't get much though. Not many people told me Happy B-day. :'[ Even the people who I expected to leave me comments didn't. Barely anyone noticed or cared. That's how it seems. Last Christmas (when I had awesome friends), I got Christmas + B-day presents. This year I didn't really get anything. Some people who I was growing more distant with got me presents last year. (I was surprised that one certain person got me a present(s). I just felt so awesome and loved when that happened, and when I got the presents I did.) Now they didn't and they changed even more. I really miss them. I miss the old friendships I had with everyone. All the friends I was friends first at the beginning of the year have pretty much changed and now I'm not really friends with them anymore. I feel very unloved. It feels like most of my friends don't even care about me anymore. I know what some of you might say. I can't get ove the past. I can't forget them. I also can't "dump" my backstabbing friends cause I still care about them and miss them. Even though I sorta hated them, I still was there for them when they were sad and stuff. I don't think I have the guts to confront them either. I feel like even if they did know that I felt like this, all they would do is say sorry and move on. I've been friends with these people FIRST and then they forget about me and love their "other" friends that they haven't known for a long time. I'm not sure if they even remember the good old days. They don't really talk to me anymore, when last year they talked to me A LOT. I feel like I have to impress them and stuff. My friends who have moved on have now changed, like I don't even recognize them anymore. They've changed who they are, to impress their friends. I hate seeing my friends hang out with these fake people. I have everything to offer, while others can only offer a lil. Please don't hate me for saying this, but my friend who was more interested in the girly/preppy-ish styles, was still friends with me, even though I was more interested in the punk/emo-ish styles. That was last year though. All her friends are more like girly girls and preps now. I'm not being stereotypical to all preps, but the ones who are friends with my "ex friend" are annoying. It's not fair. (yes, I know, not everything is fair.) I thought things were going great. Until after summer everyone seemed to change. These certain people that I was thinking about when I was typing this were like my BFFL EVER. Now we're just good aquaintances or something. Last year we talked about how we wanted to be in a lot of classes together and how excited we were to be in a lot of classes together. Now I'm in EVERY class with one of my friends, but she doesn't care. How could I be at the "top" but then be at the "bottom" so quickly? I'm so depressed. I feel so useless and I feel like I wanna die. I hope you guys understand what I'm talking about. I hope I'm not forgetting anything either, and that I said everything I wanted. Any advice? =\

I went through/am going through the same kinda thing right now. Im a senior in highschool and just this year my bestfriend since 6th grade,we dont talk anymore. due to a letter I wrote her about how I felt, but it easily could have been fixed. She said I have changed and whatnot. Its true people change and theres nothing you can do. I have done everything I can think of but theres nothing I CAN do. Im hoping she'll come around and hopefully before its too late. Im trying to be the good person by praying for her and stuff and supporting her still, but its hard everyday. I think about it and cry. I know exactly where you are coming from, there are days when I think why am I still here, Whats the purpose of me suffering everyday. But whatever doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger. I know next semester Im going to keep to myself and really focus on school work. How old are you? Get a job to take things off of your mind, and if you are lucky enough you can have one like I do wiht amazing people. Hope I helped in some sort of way =/
♥BLAiR

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so i have a NEW itunes gift card that i just scratched off the silver stuff to get to the id part. Everything went fine, i bought ONLY 3 songs, and i only have $4.58 exactaly left! The card was worth $15 dollars! what do i do? there is no number to call! i am so mad! HELP!!!

Were the 3 songs that you bought expensive? If so theres your answer =]
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Okay so i have been dating this one guy for over two years now, and I really love him and care about him. In the first year of our relationship I ended up cheating on him with this one guy who was a good friend of mine, we had ended up making out..well he then left for the millitary and recently i have thought about him and he came home for a christmas leave the other day we met up and ended up making out again. this guy says he really cares deeply for me and wants me to give it a shot with him..but the thing is i love my boyfriend i trully do, and i am not telling him this time around (last time i did and we worked through it) However, i feel like i do have some pretty strong feelings for this other guy and its like i have lost some for my boyfriend because he has been taking his anger and tired-ness out on me a lot and we get into these really bad arguments and sometimes i get scared deep down that he will hit me..but he never has...WHAT DO I DO?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLEASE HELP ME..do not bother if your going to insult me or call me a horrible person.

This is a tough one. Im not quite sure, all I can really say is go with your heart. I was in a similar position but I never took the action with my ex and I wish I would have broken up with my boyfriend at the time and went back out with my ex because my boyfriend then cheated on me. So I really dont know what to say, Go with what your heart is telling you. Mentally make a list of the pros and cons for each guy. Dont just settle for your boyfriend just because the guy you think you might have deep feelings is in the military, dont settle for second best is what I have to say. Hope I helped in some way. If you need anything else you know where my inbox is =]
♥BLAiR

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heyy does anyone know any songs about a girl being perfect while your not, for example, girl next door by saving jane?

thank you :)


Yeah, When it was me by Paula Deanda. They took the words from my mouth =]
♥BLAiR

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My back hurts not terriblly bad but still and i dont know how to make it stop. it only feels good when i crack it
i take pian releivers sometimes but not often cause i dont wanna become dependent on them
what should i do?
im 16 btw

Go see a doctor, you might have a slipped disk or something or a pinched nerve. Or go to the chiropractor and get adjusted. I have scolliosis so Im always in pain but the chiropractor makes it feel a lot better.=]
♥BLAiR

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Ok so im 14, 5'3" and i weigh about 115.
i am not fat just slightly overweight. I am hoping to workout all christmas break and when i come back to school i am skinnier to the point where people notice. i am aiming at about 110 to 105.
Does anyone know any workouts or diets that will make me lose weight within the christmas break period which is 2 weeks.

also.. this is off topic but i also have a SLIGHT acne problem.. what is acne solutions that work really well? or a really good cover up. i have already tried proactiv, it does not work on me.
PLEASE HELP ME=)

5'3" and 115lbs? Please dont tell me you are fat, im 5'4" and 120 lbs. and I know I'm not fat. A lot of girls have body problems where they arent comfortable with them or feel fat just because they arent super model magazine thin. Im not confident about my body, but I know im not fat. The more you work out the more tone you will get, hopefully not making you feel fat.

A woman weighing 150 pounds with 19% fat will look much smaller (and be much healthier) than a woman at 150 pounds with 35% fat. They weigh the same, yet the composition is different. Because muscle is more dense than fat the person with less fat and more muscle will look smaller.

So be more concerned with body composition. All I can say is do some cardio each day and eat healthy. =]
♥BLAiR

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What would you do if your boyfriend of a year and 2 months stole money from your house.. but denies it and you know they did it.?

do you break up with him?

or not?

Assuming you know FOR SURE, I would. Dont you need TRUST in a relationship? Lying is not acceptable. =[
♥BLAiR

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if you could say just one thing to that one guy you've though about for years, who meant alot but you meant nothing to what would it be.just one short sentence

Its always been you.
♥BLAiR

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my last day before christmas break is friday and i need to buy christmas presents for 4 friends (all girls) im on a tight budget and wan to get something REALLy nice(considering i only have 100$ and still havent bought presents for my mom dad and sister). please give me any and all ideas!! thanks

Well lets see: Friends: You could bake brownies and make bracelets and put those together, something small but meaningful. You could get pictures of yall developed and printed and put them in cute frames. You could bake cookies and get like $5 starbucks giftcards.
For mom and dad: mom you could get her like a little bath set (wal-mart), bubble bath ( my mom loves bubble bath), candles with a pretty holder. Hmm and Dad I'm not sure about. Does he like coffee? (starbucks gift cards). Does he like to read? (a book) I'll tell you what I'm getting my dad: Since I give him a lot of cards and he has many hes collected from everyone over the years, Im going to put them into a scrapbook kind of thing and he wants pictures for his office, so I got a really pretty frame that holds 2 pictures and im going to put my senior picture and dance pitcture.
Hope I was of some sort of help! =]
♥BLAiR

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13/female

i think that my science teacher likes me. like, he acts weird and creepy around me.

1. hes always calling on me in class
2. hes always looking at me
3. in the morning, when i walk around, he follows me and my friends.
4. hes always giving me bad grades, and he suggest that we go back there and talk to him when we get bad grades, and when i do, he always stares at my boobs.
5. he looks down my shirt.
6. when ever hes around me, or close to me, or where i can see him if i look at him, he does SOMETHING to show off. like, he has this yo-yo, and he always plays with it, and then looks at me.
7. today, when i was leaving the parking lot from my school, he was directing traffic( cause if their isnt a teacher or someone out their directing traffic, its a MADHOUSE!) and when ever my car passed him, he yelled (AT THE TOP OF HIS LUNGS)" BYE SHELBY!!!!!"

this may sound like a really stupid question, and you may say that im just immagining it, but im serioulsy creept out by him. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!

He sounds like a creep. Is there a trusted adult at school you can talk to? Preferably the principal or directior. You should do that and maybe they can keep an eye out and monitor.
♥BLAiR

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do you guys know any good hip hop songss i can dance to?


i wanna do cardio and lose weight hold on is dancing cardio?? thanks!

Pretty much any hiphop, or any that has a good beat. Yes Dancing is cardio if it gets your heart rate up.

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