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I really have no idea how to have the exact curl of marykate and ashley!!!
iz it juz using curling iron?? or something else?
will mah hair be like them if i wash mah hair and immediately put gel and mousse with out braiding them?? will that work????????

If you get a really big curling iron you can get the "summered sexy" look that mary kate and ashley always seem to have - get a pick and slightly brush them out then hair spray them so they stay the entire day
hope i helped

Jenn

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i have an iPod shuffle and an iRiver (n10-103). i have to let go of one...

the iRiver has 8 hours of music
the iPod shuffle fits 120 songs (assuming each songs was about four minutes, that's 8 hours of music)...but i heard that the 8 hours of music thing was a lie (?!!)

the iRiver is black
the iPod shuffle is white

the iRiver costs more

the iRiver has an LCD screen, radio, and supports voice recording

they're both flash mp3 players

which one should i keep?

*i'm kind of leaning towards the iRiver, but my brother has an iPod and keeps on singing its praises.
i also think (against my will) that i'm also being a bit swayed by iPod's marketing... the iPod has a reputation, and apple is famous...


also... i live in korea, where EVERYONE has the iriver n10...and it's fricking annoying. i'd like a more unique-looking mp3 player...but it's a pity that with the ipod shuffle you can't view songtitles.. :(

You are an asshole... why dont you take your two MP3 players and crawl in a whole and die ... Don't ask for advice if your going to take everything people say and twist it around. i saw how you treated every columnist that tried to answer you question. Your a big jerk. Go kill yourself

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I cut but i wanna stop cause its gotten so bad i cant even hold crap any more ... any advice on how

put rubber bands on ur wrists snap em when u wanna cut

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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!

Hello !!! thats RApe theres no other way to describe it . You need to talk to him or if youve tired that then threaten to leave him if he doesnt stop. If he says fine do what ever you want then he isnt worth it any way

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my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

Love is feeling like the other person fell out of heaven love is so amazing that you just cant describe it

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i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!

alwaiiz,
Ali

p.s. i rate

This exact thing happend to me. I know this is going to hurt but you have to try and make other friends becsuse other wise your going to be left alone and broken just like i was i understand you just want to be friends with "liz" but she may not want that and in order to have some form of a relationship with her its better off just to let this new friendship run its course she may come back to you sorry and she may not which is why you need to be prepared for rejection THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT so dont even start thinking it was somethin you did that made he ditch you . i hope i helped

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listen gurl this is the situation...i havnt cut myself for a while and it really wasnt over him its just been the way shit has been going and things in my life...thats another story...i dont know wut to do...this boy is the love of my life...sometimes i feel like i cant live without him...it just kills me to hear stories of my frends saying how they went out with him to...and then he called me and i told him that i loved him and no other gurl will eva love him like i do and he said..."every gurl says the same thing to me" and then he told me he knows i love him and i can give him everything he eva needed but right now he aint ready to commit and he told me to wait for him...see i dont know if i should becus...it hurts to watch him spit game and hear about otha chicks having sex with him or being with him or talking about him the sound of his name makes my heart drop...i have memroies of us together everywhere...he wont go away...wut shud i do?...

You really cant wait around for this boy forever. I know you love him but however much it hurts to leave him it will hurt twich as much if u wat for him and he cheats on you . do yourself a favor please. I m here for support.

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thanks for answerin my question i can relate to u more than most lol

lol people say i have problems so im good at solving other ppls !!

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hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?

Its not you . This girl cleary doesnt think u imporant enough to chiil wit so make other friends cause chances shes coming back arent very high


if u need a friend im here

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Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?

YOu r complety rite ppl coem here 4 help not rudeness i hope theres a way to report him/her

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Can having sex and being sexually active set your period back? This may be a stupid question but i've heard from people that it can..?

It can and It often does

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I'm 16 years old and recently my boyfriend and I have been giving each other oral sex. The other day he fingered me, and when he pulled his fingers out, there was a little bit of blood. Could my hymen be broken, and if it is, do I need 2 get an exam?

Its possible (it happend to someone I know) and an exam wouldnt hurt you never know

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Hey i was wondering (ne one can answer this) what are some good types of make up? like eye shadow? eyeliner? mascara? lipgloss? lipgloss that tastes good? and if you could put a price and where you got it.. i would highly appreciate it.. thank you!

honesty Ikno that ull hate me for this but at wal mart they sell mary kate and ashley makeup its good quality stuff cheap and they have every thing

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i dont know wut to do..i have this love for this boy that i have never felt befor i kno im only 15 but neone can fall in love no matter the age its ove thats wut happens well this boy i been wit for like a yr now on and off break ups but he always came back he always tells me he loves me and im difrent from his other girls but how do i believe him...he told me the other day that he wanted to be with me but he wanted to fuck other gurls...hes a player i knew that from the beginning but hes changing little by little... and i dont know if i should wait for him or move on... i dont think ill ever move on cause he is my first love and shit and i never felt this way bout anyone...its hard i almost killed myself over him...help me please... (i rate)

listen to me PLEASE no boy is worth dying ovver and love is posssible at 15 trust me id know but what you have isnt love its torture . This boy clearly doesnt feel the same way as you so do yourself a favor and try asnd work though him instead of calling him play cards or go outside you can get thru this i promise if ya ever need sum 1 u know where to find me

Jenna

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I am inbetween of thickness and thingess of my hair and does anyone know how to(w/o a perm) how to get it like those wavy things like marykate and ashley type things and how do i get my hair straight like a avrial lavigne type w/o having to use a straightner everyday?

*i rate * -HaIr

I have hair just like that
heres what to do

for waves: the nite b4 shower with an volumizing shampoo dont contition !! then brush your hair and get curling gell while its still wet braid your hair into a bunch of tiny braids (depending on hair length 4 or 5 on each side works for me but but i have hair the same length as mary kate nad ashley) and sleep with them in .

for straight : shower the nite b4 and blowdry your hair brushing it while you dry any spots still wierd run over with a straightner

good luckk!!

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so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want...

you should do what ever looks and FEELS right for YOU If you like the way you look now but dont want to flaunt it then tell your friends that. If they dont appricate it then there not really your friends anyway. Its OK to dress like a slut sometimes and the attention is nice but its also nice to just be yourself. remember that and youll be fine

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ok im like really addicted to smoking adn im only 13! and i need to quit cuz i play sports and i dont need to be all huffy puffy on the court please help me

If you can manage to get your hands on cigarettes then you can get the patch or gum too. You should deffinity quit. If you have the sense to realize that you have a problem and you have the dedication to play sports then you have what it takes to quit good luck to you

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my future has been scaring me.. Like to think in a couple years its going to be me.. on my own... I know where I want to be but I'm scared it wont work out and that my parents won't agree with what i want to be doing... Also, what if im not good enough to be what i want to be... Thats something that has always been a insecurity with me... Im scared i wont be good at something i love... i guess im scared that life wont be what i want it to be.... but in a way i think im prepared to do anything to reach my dreams but what am I supose to do... Take the safe route and forget about what i love or see where life will take me...

I was scared about this at first too. But the more I thought about it the more I realized what I was good at and it kind of eased off the scariest thing is worring about if you get into the college you want but if you work hard enough then you have almost nothing to worry about being away from home may seem scary but its actully fun and a new expierce good luck with your future!!

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hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?

i hate people who do this crap . What I'd do is sit them both down and tell them that you cant stand the crap there giving you. Tell them Just what you said here. I love you both but if your going to talk shit about eachother dont do it to me because it put me in a bad... (ect you get the point)
good luck!!!

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iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!?

This exact thing happend to me . My dumb college boyfriend in California ... (but yall dont want to hear bout than now do ya !!) If ya only do one thing 1 thing follow you heart . even if it means disobeying you mom. If you really feel you love him then sit down and talk to him about how you feel and how he feels I hope he tells you just what minesaid to me " i love you more then anything and i'm gunna fix this just you wait" soon after everyingt was better and were still awsome 2 yrs later !! good luck to ya and im me when you work it out aright? (xsaphireBabii516)

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