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group of 3
hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?
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WELL welcome to the world of "true friends" haha its realllllyyyy sad to say, but its going to be like this for most of your highschool years! Its really hard to trust anyone ya know! Its kinda of like if they talk bad to you about eachother,,,Why wouldnt alexa and erin talk about you behind your back! Girls are just shady...and its something you just gotta live and deal with or try and move on and find better friends! I know EXACTLY how you feel hunny....and im sorry maybe you should just confront them at different times andsay you dont appreciate alexa talking about erin, or erin talking about alexa, to you because you are best friends with them both! XOXO
*~MALLY~*
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when they tell u that they wish the other one was gone, u should try 2 convince them that the other isn't so bad... point out the posotives. hope it helps
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Hey! Next time they tell you this tell them that you think its unfair of them to talk rudely about eachother. Maybe, since they just cant stand eachother, hang out with them seperately. I'm sorry about all this :( i hope my advice was ok for you.
xoxo,
Lara
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Well, I'm not sure if you should sit them down together and talk to both of them about it, because then they might get mad at each other,o r even worse, at you, and that would complicate things more. I think you that when one girl starts saying bad things about the other, remind her that maybe she doesn't like the other girl as much as she likes you, but that *you* like them both equally and that it isn't fair for you and that you shouldn't be expected to take sides. Stop them from badmouthing each other and they'll see how much it really bothers you. If they favor you as much as they say they do, they should be willing to quit insulting each other.
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i hate people who do this crap . What I'd do is sit them both down and tell them that you cant stand the crap there giving you. Tell them Just what you said here. I love you both but if your going to talk shit about eachother dont do it to me because it put me in a bad... (ect you get the point)
good luck!!!
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Dear Confused friend...
I think that you should confront them the next time they do that and then resolve it with them...because if they cant get along with each other then they really art best friends...and if they put you through all of that then they arnt ure best friends either...if you need more help email me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or just add me on yahoo
p.s willing to help anytime...
Blake08$
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Tell them to can it oR they'll lose you too. TRy and set up some activities wheRe you all can be togetheR, and peRhaps they'll leaRn to appReciate each otheR moRe! Hope I've helped!
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Hi! I think you should try talking to them and just be like "I like you guys both equally and I wish you guys could just feel the same about each other, I mean we're the 3 muskateers practically! What do you guys have against each other, both of you are awesome, don't just like 1 person more than the other, it has to be equally and I think we need to work this out." And just be calm about it and be serious so they know to be calm and serious also. Hope this works out and good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Hi!I've been in this prob before too.I just tell them how i feel..i was in it w/ two girls. My friends were the same two...they'd talk crap about eachother. I just said "Oh well if thats how YOU feel than okay but I like her and you so I'm just not gonna say anything" and they took that and didn't really get mad or anything.They also didn't talk crap to me about one another anymore.I really hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!LET ME KNO HOW IT WORKS OUT IF YOU WANNA!{if u have any more ?'s just ask!}
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