ok so i really like this guy that has music with me.Throughout the course of the week my friend gave him clues totell him who liked him. Well he figured it out. But he said right now he isn't looking for a gf because he just got out of a really bad relationship. So what do i do now? Do i wait and see if he starts to like me or just forget about him?
okay, from what he said, he's not interested in dating someone right now. however, i don't know how things are between you. are you friends at all? do you talk to him? just because he doesn't want a girlfriend doesn't mean he'd mind hanging out with you. if the two of you don't really know each other, his answer might mean he'd rather not have any kind of a relationship at all. it's hard to say whether you should wait or forget, but i think that's something only you can answer, because it again depends on the relationship that you already have. if you aren't very close and won't be spending time together, my opinion would be that this isn't going to go anywhere, because you won't have the chance to find out whether he could BECOME interested in you. i don't think he'd give an answer like the one he gave, not spend time with you but then begin liking you out of the blue. but like i said before, if you already talk and have a bit of a friendship, you might want to see how things progress.
i hope this isn't too long and confusing, but this is one of those questions where i can only use instinct based on what you've told me and there's always the chance that something might happen that turns everything around. if 'wait' for you means obsess, i'd say red light. i know i have a hard time 'forgetting' people, so if something started to develop i'd probably still like him when it happened. you really just have to look at what you guys already have and the way he acts and try to figure out where things are going. i've had many a crush and i know how it is, so i'm wishing you the best of luck!
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ok so today i was talking to the kid i like and it was great! we really connected. but i dont think he likes me. how can i approach him and sound like im his friend but not sound like i like him?
Just be yourself and have a normal conversation. Try not to think about the fact that you like him and more about the fact that you just want to be there talking to him. Since today worked out, try to do it the same way next time. Don't drop hints or be too flirty if you don't want him to get the wrong idea.
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Okay, this might sound stupid but here it goes: My friend is obsessed with the fact that I have a lot in common with her boyfriend. Whenever she brings up the subject, she'll call him and ask both of us what things we like, and if we say the same thing she'll scream and say that we're going to fall "madly in love." I've told her hundreds of times that he's going out with HER, and he obviously LIKES her! I've spoken to her b/f once, and I don't like him that way, but she's obsessing that he's going to break up with her for me.. whom he's never even met. She's mad that she has NOTHING in common with this guy, and that I do, and I don't want to lose her as a friend.. and she won't listen to anything I say!
Sorry for the long post, but any ideas on what I should do?
Explain to her that first of all she's being silly because you've never met him and you have no intention of doing so unless she wants you to. Ponit out to her that you've never done anything that would lead to the two of you going out. You value her friendship a lot and you wouldn't do anything to jeopardize it, you're actually trying to save it right now. Though talking to her boyfriend again might not be the best idea, but if you do, you might want to suggest to him to bring up the matter with her. If she needs reassuring maybe it's better if she gets it from both sides.
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is it a good way to make money
Yes, it can be a very good way to make money, especially when the family(or families) gets to know and trust you and you become sort of a regular. The more clients you have, the more often you'll be asked to babysit and therefore make more money. It's usually around 5-7 dollars an hour, but it depends on the number of kids and the circumstances. Of course, you can't just do it because it's a good way to make money if you don't like kids! :P
Basically it isn't a very hard job, should pay well enough and you might find yourself getting attached to the kids!(hope that didn't sound too corny)
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My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me!
A lot of the time when parents smoke, they've been doing it for a long time and aren't partial to stopping. However, it's good that you're concerned about their health and definitely about yours. Secondhand smoke is very dangerous. I think you should tell them what you think. Make sure they know exactly what it's doing to them and what it could possibly do to you. You can back it up with info from the internet. If they see how concerned they are, they should think twice. Also, you could find some other things on the web about tips on quitting smoking and how to go about doing it. Again, if they see that you're really worrying and that you're even trying to help, it should have an impact on the way they think.
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this will most likely be my only guy question i ever ask...but here we go. No guy had ever liked me until 8th grade (Last school year..), and then for some reason, 2 guys did, at the same time. they both rode my bus and they were both awesome. I liked them both, but i think i liked one more than the other. I wound up going out with the one that i liked less, because he asked me, and i liked him, so i said yes...why wouldn't i? I know i really did like him, because that whole time we went out, i felt guilty, because i still liked that other guy, but i wasn't sure anymore if i liked my boyfriend. One day, i heard that he had kissed another girl, so i told the other guy that i liked, who is his friend, to ask him about it. that weekend, i got an e-mail from my boyfriend. he said it was just a friendly kiss, and if other people were going to consider that cheating, "maybe we shouldn't go out anymore." at that moment, i realized i did like him, and i cried. but in my reply to his letter, i told him i wasn't angry. 2 days later, he was going out with another girl.
(we went out from nov. till about the end of feb.)
i told you that, to tell you this.
even though i refuse to admit it, i think i still like him, because he's so funny and everything. i have dreams we're still together, and it just bugs me. and the thing is...i STILL like that guy i liked while i was going out with him. i'm really confused, and i don't know what to do.
if you can make any sense out of this, please tell me what i can do!
sorry so long!
This *is* complicated. It's upsetting that you still like your ex and that he seems to have moved on, yet i think this is proof that every cloud has a silver lining, because there's still the other goy you liked before. Maybe you should take some time to cool down and get used to the fact that you and the guy are no longer dating, and when you feel ready, you should see what's going on with Guy #2, since you still have a crush on him. I'm not the best at Love Life questions, but i think you just need some time alone, and then time with the other guy. I'm wishing you the best of luck!
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ok i didn't really know what category, but whenever something embarrasses me - even a little - i blush. i have relaly fair skin and I turn dark red. my friends always joke about it, and anyone who i've just met, catches on pretty quick too! how can i not blush as much??????
There isn't really any way not to blush as much, that's just the way you are. You shouldn't mind too much that your friends joke about it, as long as it doesn't get mean. People who get to know you will see that it happens even for the littlest things, so they won't think it's weird. And like someone else said, it can be cute! I wish I were like you because for some reason I never blush! Even when I get really embarrassed my face hardly gets pink and people think I'm oblivious to what's going on, hehe. So yeah, don't worry about it!
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I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?
Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:.
I think you should say yes, since you said you already knew a lot about him. If you're going out you'll keep on finding out more things about him anyway. If you really feel that you don't know enough about him, tell him that you just want to stay friends for awhile and explain why.
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ok well i like this person alot and the person likes me alot...and well today i was talking to my friend at a chat room and the person that i like alot and who likes me was there too...and i asked my friend to ask the person i like this, if she were to ask u out what would u say? and so my friend asked the person that and my friend told me that the person said that i would say yes...so im thinking should i ask the person out or should i not and wait for the person to ask me??????plz help fast!ill rate u for this!
Ask him out! You already know what his answer will be! Go for it!
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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help
I think that if you like everything about him and if the two of you really hit it off, you should just go for it and not really care what people think. Sometimes if you want to be happy, that's what you have to do. He sounds great and it's good that you aren't afraid to be yourself around him. I think that if I were you, I'd rather have a boyfriend who was shorter than me but a great guy than someone with a height that didn't bother me but who wasn't anything special. Also, I don't know how old the two of you are, but depending on your age he might just still have some growing left to do! Who knows, he could even end up beign taller than you in a matter of time. Basically I say you've got something good here so don't give it up!
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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?
It sounds like he was interested in you. If he was just trying to be nice he wouldn't have started on about his girlfriend. So yeah, looks like he liked you. The rest depends on you, like whether you want to see him again, since this was at a party. If you're interested then find out more about, but if you aren't and you don't want people getting the wrong impression then just let it go.
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hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?
Well, I'm not sure if you should sit them down together and talk to both of them about it, because then they might get mad at each other,o r even worse, at you, and that would complicate things more. I think you that when one girl starts saying bad things about the other, remind her that maybe she doesn't like the other girl as much as she likes you, but that *you* like them both equally and that it isn't fair for you and that you shouldn't be expected to take sides. Stop them from badmouthing each other and they'll see how much it really bothers you. If they favor you as much as they say they do, they should be willing to quit insulting each other.
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i have been babysitting scince i was 11 and now i am 14 and the kids start gettin out of control what should i do ???
sighned undicided
Keep track of the activities you know they like doing and don't involve too much rowdiness. You could bring a bag with little toys and games in it when you go, so when they start getting a little out of hand you take that out. Kids often like playing with things that don't belong to them, because new toys are always fun. When they get out of control though, remember you have to take charge. Be firm with them. If they see you mean business from the start they'll be more reluctant to mess with you.
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My parents are fighting. I mean it's really bad tonight. I'm afaid they are gonna get a divorce and I donno what I'll do if they do. My dad went to his maamws house where his brother stays and mom is at the house and i'm out my mamaws and it all messed up and scary and i'm afraid they will. i donno i just need some help on how to deal if they do. thanks.
Well, first of all, a lot of the time fighting can get scary, but it doesn't necessarily mean your parents will actually get a divorce. The fact that your dad went to stay somewhere may make it seem worse, but it might help make it better if they have a chance to cool down. If they do get a divorce, well, that's going to be tough for you. I feel bad for you that any of this is happening, because I remember how I use to worry that my parents would get a divorce because of their fighting. Unfortunately for me, they got separated about 2 years ago and it was no bed of roses. after awhile you get used to it. just remember that even though the relationship between your parents may not be the best, it's important that you maintain a good bond with both of them yourself. it'll be easier for you to deal if you do. make sure you talk to your friends about it because they should be a good form of support for you. Good luck and hang in there!
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