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I'm really confused about a lot of things. I think that I may be bisexual, but I'm not really sure how to tell. I wonder if telling myself I am is what's making me that way. I've never done anything with someone of the same sex, but I've talked to people about bisexuality and I think about it a lot. How do you know you're bisexual? I know it's probably different for different people, and please don't say "you just know". Thanks in advance, any serious answers will be helpful.
Look, I'm bi as well. I haven't done anything with anyone of the same sex either but, for a while, I was curious as to what it might be like. And then I started being really confused, because I knew that I wasn't a lesbian, I liked guys. Progressively, I accepted the fact that I might be attracted to girls too. Deep down, I think everyone has thought about bisexuality once in their lives. Everyone is attracted to both sexes, just on a different level. In the end, it's not about one gender or the other, it's who you like, and guy or girl is fine. Just think about how it might affect you in the long term and then you'll just figure it out.
Hope this helped a bit. It can get confusing.
Quick Question about the lesbian couple, Maureen and Joanna. In R E N T, was Maureen the more "masculine" one or Joanna?
Well, since I LOVE RENT and seen it a bunch of times, I'd say Johanne would be the more masculine one, since she is a lesbian while Maureen is bi and will flirt with anyone.... She being a lawyer and all also makes her seem like the more masculine one. But no matter, they both seem pretty feminine to me, and the point is not that there is a masculine and a feminine one at all.
Love RENT, everyone should see it!!
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oh my god okay like i just had the WORST valentine`s day ever! like first of all i wanted a hug from this totally hot dude but you know what he said NO!! and then this freako dude was asking me questions and i was like fuck off you know? and then whoa like this guy sitting next to me was like stalking me and then my friend couldn`t find the principal and like he needs to write a thing...oh my god like what the flip am i gonna do???????
I thought you were against Valentine's day! Obviously, the totally hot dude is a moron and you are a fool for not realizing it. And freako dude is just permanently high....and I have no idea what the flip you are going to do but I know what the flop you can do... GET A LIFE!
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my best friend's name is Helok Ittie and i told her i would never give out her secrets but the other day i told my other friend one of them and now i feel so bad! i mean i was like 'truly yours' and everything but she wouldn't listen! what do i doooo?????
Well, maybe Hellok Ittie has a point if you're gonna go around giving out her secrets like some community raffle. Words like truly yours might help when you're writing to your grandma's bingo partner but otherwise, you should refrain from using them... How to get back your friend's trust? Well, how about telling her a secret of your own? If she tells anyone then that's your problem. By the way, I'm not supposed to tell you this but....and this either you shouldn't know but...
here's my problem: i'm really stressed out about school! i mean like majorly stressed! i've been getting super grades but i keep bugging my friends about it even though they got pretty bad marks compared to me...i dunno what to do...do you think maybe they ate something past its expiry date? that could be why they're so pissy. also i have a friend who can't seem to catch on to this card game i taught her when we were 12...what's wrong with her? plz plz answer!!
Well, your problem is simple and it sums up to one word: TACT. Being tactful is being able to say certain things in certain situations keeping in mind the other person's point of view or feelings in order not to upset her. Clearly, you lack this quality. I know you do not have to use tact much in daily situations like at work or with people that are really dumb and mean but you like anyways, but sometimes, people get hurt when you keep bragging about how perfect you are at school. And about your friend who sucks at cards, maybe if you stopped calling her stupid and yelling at her in front of everyone, she would be less pissed. So next time you are about to whine, no dont start yelling at me now, because you're the one who asked me for advice and I'm giving it to you!So next time you are about to whine about something, think of that new word you just learned:tact,and howit can apply in this situation. It'll take a few tries, but eventually you'll get it.
my leg hurts. it hurts when i stand up and when i sit down. it hurts when i sneeze. it hurts when i eat spaghetti. but most of all, it hurts when i think about my ex. how do i get a new boyfriend to make my leg stop hurting?
Chop it off.
sometimes when i go to fancy dinners they have like 5 forks and i don't know how to know lik which order to eat with them in with, you know? sometimes i just take two and eat with both at the same time just incase but i really dunno wat to do...and omg the other day i blowed dried my hair and it was lyk really dry but i put specal stuff in it b4 i dried it you know? but its still dry? my bf said it was ok but lyk no more fancy dinners.
Well, I suggest you stick both forks up your nose and see if they reach your brain. Maybe in time your brain will adjust itself and you will stop asking me stupid questions. About the hair... a fork is NOT a brush and that is why your hair is all f*cked up.
ayb that is also why Andrew has so many hair in his pogoes.
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PS: I have a question for you.. one of my best friends is retarded and I'm wondering if I should put her in a mental ward. Any advice?
ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!!
If you broke up with David before in the first place something was just not quite right in your relashionship. So I think the best thing would be for youto wait for John. If it doesn't turn out great with John and you see that you still care about David, then go for it. Even if things don't work out, it's better to be happy than make a mess out of things, no? Hope I helped you! ;)
Does anyone know any really good books about like teenage situations but is like a fictional story. (like the Gossip Girl series). I love that series and would love to read other books just like that! I'll rate. Thanks for your help.
You should definitely read "Sloppy firsts" and "Second Helpings", by Megan McCafferty. "Boy meets boy" by David Levithan is really good too. Some other great teen books are "The year of secret assignments" and "Gingerbread" but I'm not sure who the authors are. There is also the "Princess diaries" series by Meg Cabot. The movie Princess Diaries was taken from the books and they are really not like the movies. They are a lot better. Have fun reading!