what if i love him...but yet i care about another...
Question Posted Wednesday November 10 2004, 10:22 am
ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!!
berryhairycanari answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 5:28 pm: If you broke up with David before in the first place something was just not quite right in your relashionship. So I think the best thing would be for youto wait for John. If it doesn't turn out great with John and you see that you still care about David, then go for it. Even if things don't work out, it's better to be happy than make a mess out of things, no? Hope I helped you! ;) [ berryhairycanari's advice column | Ask berryhairycanari A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 3:41 pm: wait 4 john if thats who u like the most. if u like david more which it seems like thats a no, u should go out with him. give urself a bit of time to think it over. hope i helped ~stef~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
dinoold answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 3:22 pm: you and David are close like friends...but how does he feel?
Is it fair to him to give only part of you? I do not know...i think I would be straight wiht David..tell him how you feel...and give him the choice..who knows..something really special could grow out of this.
As for John...only timw will tell..why are you still in love??why did you break up..those would be questions I would ask myself before moving onto a new love. [ dinoold's advice column | Ask dinoold A Question ]
frenchy answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 2:49 pm: hey! dont let others tell you who you should date. listen to your own heart. if you really dont know, then see if you have a chance with john, if you dont then go with david. vice versa if you like david more. but you probably like one guy more than the other, so choose that one! if you're not sure, just wait and see how things go with both of them and who you get closer to (bf/gf wise). hope i helped, peace and love! [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
xoxobabygirl answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 10:58 am: well i would says just follow your heart and just be single and whoever comes first to u then da one u should be with i would says wait 4 john.. and forget about david..bc u said u love him and that u guys r soo alike thats what i think well i hoped love,shorty!! <---
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