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Me and this guy have been dating for a while and we had sex a couple of times. then today i found out that we are second cousins! he didnt know either. i really love him. do we have to break up? (link)
You need to break it off. Hes your second cousin. Its sick. Atleats hes JUST your second cousin. You should be happy about that. I think you should break it off it wont move anywere. but the deicison is yours. GOOD LUCK =)


ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks (link)
its calcium build ups and u need more of the calcium!


My cousin, lets call her B, is the same age as me. Over the summer, I had a party and I invited her, friends of mine and even my ex, we'll call him D. They hit it off right away. About a week later, we all went bowling and my other cousin came up to me and asked if there was anything going on between B and D. I said no. So over the course of the night I saw them flirting, got upset and did not have a good night that night. That night D called me and asked me if anything was wrong and I told him everything about that night. Then the next day B called me and asked me if I would get upset if the two of them would hang out. I said yes at first, and then B said that D said "he would never date her cuz she wasnt his type" After that I said I dont mind at all- my mind was at ease. A couple days went by and B had a party at her house with only close friends of ours. I didn't spend the night cuz I had to work the next day. I found out D was spending the night at her house along with one other guy. I was upset about that.

My friends are upset at me for thinking anything was happening between B and D, but I think something was going on between them. They are both the very flirtatious type and she puts out more than me.

Was it wrong of me to get upset about my cousin hanging out with my ex? I mean, over the summer we were going to get back together but never did. I know how D acts when he likes a girl and he acted that way with B. So I asked my friend and he got upset at me.

Now I don't talk to any of them, my ex, cousin or the friend.

But anyways, should I have been upset about them hanging out?


im really sorry this is long... (link)
hell no u shdoultn b upset u have feelins and r entitled 2 express them i think u shodul tell ur cuz n ex exactly how u feel! it mite change things w. ur ex and mayb u guys will hook up u neva kno!


Ok I want to get a cellphone and I can get one for 20 dollers ( a flip phone ) but thats not the problem the service is. Like its expensive and crap. And we have to pay rent and bills so I dont know how we're or I am gunna be pay for the bill. Do you guys have any suggestions or any servies like cingular or something that has cheap plans. Thanks. (link)
GeT a JoB! simple as that!


hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
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he 2 timed u n ignores u in the hallway yea he lieks u alright! sum advice GET OVER HIM!


ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.

I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx (link)
that is unhealthy ur toooo skinny u need 2 talk 2 a doctor n parent n get help!


ok..well on e of my best friends is in 7th grade and the guy I like is in 7th grade and I am in 8th grade I told my best friend [lets say...Rache] that I really liked the guy and she was like awww all that shit and she was going out with someone at the time and then the night I told her that I liked him..she dumped her current boyfriend and asked out the guy I liked..and today I was ganna think hard about when I was ganna ask him out and then all of a sudden her name popped up when me and the guy I like were talking about something and he is like ya me and Rachel are going out and I am like aww kool..like kinda in a obvious way [and he doesnt know that I like him] and ya..and I'm about to cry what do I do and what do I say to the guy/ and or Rachel!! PLEASE HELP!!! i am ganna go under depression.....seriously...
~*Lost N Lost*~ ...again (link)
wut a bycth ur friend is! tahst y u should never tell ur firends who u like TRUST ME! yea btu neways yell teh shyt @ her b liek wtf u new i liekd him n then u went n dumped ur bf 2 go out w. the kid i liekd wut kind if friend r u i cant belive u did taht n all taht crap n then talk 2 the boi tell him taht u liek n that u were goin 2 aask him out 2day but ru sluty/hoey friend did instead and taht u realli liek him u neva kno maybb he'll dump her n go out .w u!


ok my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks now and it seem like we arnt going anywhere. i mean we have gone to the movies 2 times and out to eat twice and then ice skating and we held hands during both movies but he wont kiss me or anything. is he afraid? what can i do to get him to kiss me? his friends and my friends have told him too but he wont. what can i do to get our relationship going. or is he showing me signs that he has no feelings for me? please help me. thanks. (link)
MAKE TEH 1ST MOVE THEN! NOT 2 HARD JUSS GO 2 TEH MOVIES AND MAKE THE 1ST MOVE N START MAKIN OUT W. HIM OR ATLEAST GIVE HIM A PECK KISS GOODNITE!


I have a friend and she dosent tell anybody but i found out..i think she was raped or abused or sumthin she is 13 and her boyfriend is 15 and i is always making her wear hoe stuff like if she wears long pants i rolld thumb up for her to be like short shorts then feels on her and (grabs her front) and back....and the other day she must have left my camra on at her house and when i got it it showed him strapping her to the bed and like you no and she liked it....yuk but im really worried about her..she is 13 he is 15 or 16 and this is like everyday...and she cant be with no one.....and like everyday she dresses bad and we were best friends in elementry and i no (link)
wut exactly od u need advice on im a lil confused but i think u should tell ru friend how u feel n if u kno she shoudlnt b doin all this tell ehr praents i kno it seems bad 2 tell them but woudlnt u rather have them help her b4 she gets pregnent or sum STD's! hope i helped!


Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!) (link)
ask him 2 the movies so atleast u wont b 2 nervous if all ur doin is watchin the movie (b good lil 1 haha j/p) n let him make allll the moves! especially since its ur 1st date w. him i can c if ti was ur 3rd or 4th u makin teh moves btu let ihm do it all! dont stress ur self out if hes ur friend then hell understand!


Darrel, this guy I like, likes me back. Except...he's black, and I'm white. And my mom has already told me that she wouldn't support me if I were to date a black guy. Not because she's racist, but because of the "problems" it causes, and everyone will look at you differently. But she isn't going to forbid me from doing it, because she knows that I have to do what's right for me, not for her. And anyway, I think that the things that go along with dating a black person kind of are problems - other black guys will look at you and think, oh, she's into black guys, and other white people will look at you differently, and if they don't know Darrel they won't know what a sweet, funny, smart guy he is, and how he wouldn't ever get mixed up in the wrong crowd. But I think I might really like him. And it's wrong not to date someone just because they're black - that's racism! I guess what I'm trying to say is, I need some comfort and someone telling me what the right thing to do is, lol! Sorry about the long story, but I rate! (Oh, and I'm 14/f, by the way.) (link)
i kno exactly how u feel i dated a black guy juss last yr and ppl would bug me n bb liek y r u goin out w. him n woudlnt support me or enthn but i didnt care cus i realli like dhim all that matters is taht u liek him dont let things bother u im still kewl w. all my friends black and white so dont worry bout it!


I am looking in to losing about 50 pounds. I'm not one of those people who we wants to lose it all in a week or a month or anything, but i need some tips. I know i need to eat healthy and in moderation and excersize regularly but is there anything else i can do????
Please help me, i have tried atkins, weightwatchers, and southbeach and none have worked!!!

anything anyone could give would help!!!!
I rate if you want!!! (link)
well pick a sport like run everyday 4 like 20 min and ull losse wait in liek a month and drink lots of water n cut bac on soda n all the junk fodo try n eat less n more slowly so u can get filled up faster! well i hope i helped it worked 4 me i lost alot fo weight!


So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong? (link)
THE NO CARB DIET IS DANGEROUS!U CAN GET VERY SICK FROM NOT HAVIN CARBS THAST PROB Y YOU SHOULD GO TALK 2 UR DOCTOR N TELL THEM WUT IS GOIN ON W. U!


hey, my name is zach, 15 yrs and i'm a swimmer in southern california. THIS IS ONLY FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW STUFF ABOUT COMPETITIVE SWIMMING. does anyone have any suggestions to gain some speed and drop some seconds off of my backstroke??? i can to 100meters in 1:23. tell me how to get faster.

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well wear a swim cap even though ur a guy it will make u go faster also shave ur legs n arm hair n also practice practice practice i practice 5 days a week for 2 hrs a day and i juss recently dropped 3 sec. on my 100 free and 100 fly. also list weights so u'll get stronger it works! hope i helped and good luck in ur next meet!



i am having a big b'day party this year. this one gurl on my bus, i invited her. i just told her about it b/c the other gurls were talking bout it. and my mom hates her. i dont know how to tell her she can't come? can yall help me?
i will rate you. (link)
tahts SOOO mean u invited teh grl n now ur un inviting her tell ur mom u alreadi invited her i think she woudl undertsand how woudl u fell if u were invited n then uninvited 2 sumthin pretty crushed! so do the rigth thign n juss let her go if alot of plp r there u shdoultn evebn worry bout her tell ur mom 2 get over it cus if she realli makes u tell ur frined shes nto invited show hwo ppl can just b so flippin rude and inconsiderate!and if ur mom is liek that wow id haet 2 ever b ur friend!


does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!! (link)
yea i go 2 it all the time but 4 spanish go 2 www.freetranslation.com


ok so im a female 14years old im in eight grade and i guees alot of guys find me really attractive well etleast thats what they all say and so i go out with guys alot liek last time i went out with anyone was like 4 days a go and now i want to go out again with different guy but the problem is that there is 6 guys who like me and i flirt with all of them and stuff and like i flirt with like alot of guys but i mean every girl does at some point but i dont think guys like that much so sometimes i lose them bacause of that but like i think i was born to flirt with guys so am i really that bad or am not the only one who does it and is there anything i should change? (link)
do u ahve alot of friends cus it doesnt seem liek u woudl cus u seem like a slut! not 2 b mean but come on read wut u put 1st thing that pops up in my mind is slut but neways try 2 b less flrity w. every guy that breathes n walks maybg u shoudl try juss pickin 1 GUY! it'll help well hoep i wanst 2 harsh im not in the ebst of mood so im so sry heh


sorry! ook..here it is.. i sweat alot under the arms.. ( im a girl . 13 years.) if i try to wear a color shirt besides black or white..you always see sweat spots around the arm pits..even when its winter.. what should i do so i can wear any color shirts? .. (by the way. i wear non-presperant deodorent) (link)
u prob have a sweatin problem juss talk 2 ur doctor my friend has it! nuttin u can realli do if its isnt


Hi, there is this guy i like and i think he mite like me cuz we danced a lot, about a month ago, and he sorta follows me around school and one time he and his friends were sorta all lookin at me and pushin him towards me almost. anyway, i wanna go and try and talk to him but im really shy and he is too. Is there a way i can start up a good convo wit him and keep it goin, cuz heh doesn't talk much..tnx (link)
well do u ahve a class with him? or mayb do u have a class with ne of his friends if u do juss go up and ask a stupid ? about the class like idk sumthn about hw juss make sumthin up and then juss casually start a convo with them hope i helped n if u ahve ne more ?'s juss ask me


hey evry1
well i have A big spanish test coming up and i have to study over 200 words
any study tips??
please help!
i rate high (link)
use flash cards it alwyas helps me!




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