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serious help needed
hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
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this is the same thing that happened to me, if he doesnt have a girlfriend then tell him how you feel, but if he does then you will hav to wait like me ~*L*~
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Hi Sweetie,
First off, it really doesn't matter what he feels for you. I don't mean to be harsh but I doubt he likes you. If he does, like I said, it doesn't matter. Evewn if he were in love with you... HE'S AN ASSHOLE! You can do better. ...Or can't you? I mean, you DO think he likes you and you like him. People who can do better tend to have other options. Not becasue the are sluts ut because... THEY CAN DO BETTER. If my answer is harsh THEN DEAL WITH IT. You know you can't do any better than some asshole who doesn't even like you as a friend. ...If you can then prove it to yourself. Prove to yoursef that you're strong enough to learn how to fall, and smart enough to learn how to stand up again. Other than that I was right...
p.s. HAPPY PUPIL FREE DAY! My best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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let him go. i dont think that you should have to deal with some1 who lied to you on more than 1 account. if he ignores you when he told you he wanted to be really good friends with you then he odviously isn't for. and since he lied to you about being your boyfriend then he just isn't for you.
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he 2 timed u n ignores u in the hallway yea he lieks u alright! sum advice GET OVER HIM!
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maybe ppl will think u two are going out again and theyll think diff. maybe he thinks diff that he asked. u need to grab his hand and walk him somewhere and talk to him about this and tell him how u feel. like how u feel ignored
sorry if i dont help
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ok..i am sorry..but i believe in NOT 2 timing in any realtionship..call me old fashioned..but why be a b/f or g/f is you want to date others?
If he still liked you..he would ask you out...
To me it sounds like he gets all of it..gets to date whomever he wants..and your worship which he REALLY wants.
Dump him totally..move on..find a REAL guy who will worship you and date ONLY you...there are lots of them out there.
This guy is only going to give you more pain...FACT
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forget about him!! TRUST is what u need in a relationship n he didnt show that very well.. go find sum1 else who wont two time u and who will b a loyal and caring bc he isnt any of those at ALL
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aww well the best thing to do is just tell him u still have feleings for him and if he has any for you...and if he is really serious about not 2 timing you then he probably is telling the truth! good luck hun! <3
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He's a player. Period, end of story. You want to know why, right? Here's the scoop from my experience. You found out he was 2 timing, he denied it even after he broke up: This means, he wants a back up and thinks you're too into him to have a brain. He feels sure about you, that you'll jump at the chance to be with him again if he screws up with his current game. He thinks if he talks friendship even though he gives you the cold shoulder that you'll drool after him and he can pick you up anytime he likes. This is just so his other girl or girls don't see him pay attention to you. So far it looks like he's right. Don't let him play you like this. You seem like a sweet girl who can do so much better. Get yourself together and move on. This is not the kind of guy you even need to try to stay friends with, they'll only abuse the honor.
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you should have someone ask him if he still likes you, maybe if he does, u can go out again!! if he doesnt then at least you know so u can try to get over this guy. hope i helped ~stef~
p.s. haha my name is stef and i had this same problem a little while ago, all my friends probably think ur q. was asked by me. haha
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Aww that's horrible!! :( Honestly... that jerk doesnt deserve you. You need to find someone better than that.. someone who will care about you and treat you better. And he shouldn't have 2-timed you. I know how ya feel.. it does hurt. But don't even bother recognizing this fool. Act like you don't even care for him anymore. Fine some awesome guy that makes you happy :)
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tht is the same with my ex he ignores me and the only time he pays attention to me is when someone hurts nme or makes up rumors. i am not sure if he likes u or not guys r weired like tht u never know what they r up to.
just tlk to him out when it is the right time when no body is around and just go with your instinks.
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