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Okay.. I'm in love with my best friend whom i've known since kindergarten..but my best friend is also in love with him and she doesnt know i love him too. and he's been giving me these signals..but i have no idea wut to do..i dont wanna tell my friend b/c she'll get all mad at me and stuff..but i dont wanna ruin my relationshop w/ the guy..wut should i do?
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Hey hunny,
We have all been there before. Don't stress yourself over it. I think you hould wait until your friend is over your best guy friend and wait until some "new guy" comes along for her. Then you can tell her that you have feelings for your best guy friend. Then take what you want to do with your guy friend. You could flirt more and act more than a friend to him. And if he asks you whats up, tell him. And if you guys do go out make sure you guys promise each other that you won't do anything to hurt your friendship with him :)
Hope I helped!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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go with the guy first! friends come and go, but a good guy is sooo hard to find! so if this guy is really good, then keep him and hold on to him!! lol but if youre the kind who wants friends to stay, not guys, then just tell her how you feel and ask her if itd be ok! and if she gets mad, and SHE hasnt asked him out, then shes probably jealous that what if he says yes to you? hope i helped!! please rate!
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If she has not gone out with him..then you should do what you think is best. But you may lose here. Is this guy so awesome he is worth losing your friend??
Sounds to me like you have been in love with him a long time...
A real friend would get over the fact that youa re dating him..but she may not.
This is tough...you have to decide which one is more important...to you....true love ..or a best friend...wow..
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ok wot u need 2 do is find out if your best mate likes you and then you tell your other mate everything and say if your my friend would you stick by me if I went out with this lad and tell her who it is and explain that you won't do just go out with him if she doesn't want you to but would you still be happy if you did
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Well, usually I'd say that your friend needs to come before the guy...but since BOTH are your friends, it puts an interesting twist on the situation. Still, what I would do is talk to your friend (the one who you aren't interested in dating, lol)first. Chances are, your friendship with her is stronger than your friendship with the guy (I say that only because if you DO date this guy and you break up, the friendship MAY deteriorate). If she's your true friend, then she'll stick with you. Don't be surprised if she's unhappy with the situation, however. THis may be one of those situations where you just have to decide which relationship is more important to you. Good luck!
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ay ay ay that's a tough one...i dunno what to tell you...but you can try off by tellin your best friend how you feel about the situation and everything...if she understands and everything go for it with no problem...if she doesnt and you relly love him hmmm well if you go for him i'm more then sure that you'll lose your friend...but may b wit time she'll understand the way you felt and everything...but she might not...i dunno just do what you feel inside xoxox effy good luck
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hmm ive been in the same situation....but if i was RELE good friends with the person i would just back off...but thats just how i am...maybe u and your friends should all talk about it maybe just decide to STAY friends! good luck hun!
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well tlk to your friend about it.
i mean if u bring it up to face with her thn u 2 should stop likeing the same guy and go for different guys and if your friend dates him then tht gives u a chance to go and find sumone better or if u go out with him then your friend will have to go for sumone else i mean sure she'll be mad at u for it but its happened to me before and now we r like peanut butter and jelly because come to find out the guy tht we fought over was no one special at all.
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