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Hi, im from albania and live in michigan.
someone showed me your space and i was some of your pictures. i really like ur eye contacts . would u be able to tell me what colour they are.
IF you can?
thx -right back (link)
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Blue :)
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Hey eftiola my name is elsa,from Florida, i've talked to you online and once i went to your space thing and i really liked those contacts that you were wearing. Whould it be possible if you could tell me what brand are those and what color?
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hmm they are blue...not light blue dark blue...n hmmm they are from FreshLook
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hiiii my name is valdet I'm from prishtina kosovo and I saw you in myspace before n I think that u are very beautiful so I wanna ask you haw to get in touch wit you cus I wanna to get to know you better, I like you =))
peace Valdet..... byeeeeeeeee=)) (link)
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lol i'm sorry...no can do..but thanks for the compliments though
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if like you've used a tampon when you were real young and you get older and get a husband, would he like know if your cherry is popped? like do you have to bleed. and oh yeah, when you lose your virginity i understand that it'll hurt, but will it still be "enjoyable"? (link)
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hi, well just b/c you dont bleed doesnt mean your not a vergin! there's diff. types of vaginas. and diff types of girls!and also you may pop your cherry over 2 much exercise or using tampons or fingering sometimes...hmm the second question you asked i dont kno...i'vent experienced that yet! but from what some of my friends have told me...they say the first time it hurts..and you wont enjoy it...but as you keep doing it you enjoy it more n more...but there are some girls who say IT DOESNT HURT AT ALL! so i guess it depends on the type of body you have and the type of vagina...:-D
hope i helped
xoxo
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I like this guy and he used to always look at me when i wasn't looking. When I turned we gazed into each other's eyes for a milisec. But now he doesn't really do that anymore. He knows that I like him because his sister told him. My friend likes him too, but he doesn't like her (thank god) lol. She doesn't really like him anymore, but whatever. I just want to get to know him and stuff like that, but I get a vibe thats like weird. I can talk to him, but I'm afraid of his reaction. He is also "talking" to another girl (I overheard him talking on the bus) Should I even bother liking him, but i still want to get to know him. I don't know what to do? Please help, I rate high.
~Linda (link)
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ok forget him...he's talking to another girl then forget him...thats the reason propably why he doesnt do that to you anymore. hmm if you want to get to kno him just cuz...even though i wouldnt recomand b/c if he's talking to another girl and you get to know him you might start liking him even more, and then you might even get hurt..but if you insist then just smile at him or on the bus sit with him one day and just start a canvo. of anykind! and thats how u start a new friendship...xoxo effy
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O.K. Last year, my dad bought me cable T.V in my room. I had like... five porn channels. One night, a movie was on and it was rated, "ADULT" and I didn't bother changing it. I went over to my best friend's house and we played around in bed a little, we called it practice for the real thing. We just touched each other. (we are both girls) but we called it "Practice" when in front of her parents. We said stuff like, "let's go practice." and then, she'd wink at me. The thing is, we're not lesbians. We just practice before we get to guys. I'm not a lesbian... or am I? I'm not bi because that was last year and I don't do it anymore. What's wrong with me???
Signed,
Me (link)
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ok #1 if u think bout guys and you play wit girls you are bisecual...meaning you like both. you can deal with both... #2 if you do stuff with girls and guys dont turn you on then you're lesbo...its not normal for a streight girl to do things with another woman because i'm streight and a girl with another girl i think its nasty...its a turn off...so you propably are bisecual or something..oh btw that dont mean something is wrong wit you...xoxo effy
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I was with my girlfriend for 2 years when she got pregnant. It wasn't a planned pregnancy but we decided that we would deal with it. The first week that she brought that baby home things were good. We got a little apartment and I was working full time during the day and she would work a couple hours at night just until I could support us with only my job. Well one day I got home from work and she was gone. She left a note saying that she wasn't ready for a child and that she's leaving our daughter with me. It's been a week since then. I've been doing the best I can but I don't know the first thing about being a parent and I have no one to ask about it. I grew up in foster homes my whole life. I love my little girl to death but I just don't know what to do anymore. She doesn't stop crying. I've tried feeding her, changing her, rocking her, everything that I can think and she keeps crying. I brought her to the doctor and he said that there is nothing physically wrong wtih her. I don't know what to do. If anyone has idea of what could be causing this please let me know. I would also appreciate it if any one knows anything about taking care of a 3 week old baby. Please help me.
Jack (link)
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awww..you're so sweet. i'm sorry your girlfriend or wife or whatever she was to you left you alone with your doughter...i know its hard being a singel parent and expeically when you're a guy. hmm well since you already went to the doctor and he said there's nothing wrong with her...then i dont know...babys usually cry alot when they're lil they need as much attention as they could get. you need to feed her each and every 4 hrs play wit her...hold her...i dont know get a babysitter if you can or something...atleast till she gets a year old then everything will b better :) xoxo effy
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Ok,i have this friend,we'll call her ...Jenna. Well Jenna and i are "friends" but the problem is when ever i become friends with another person,she jumps all over them and they like her better. She dosent let me have one friend to myself and i get sort of mad by that. What should i do? (link)
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hi, i'm sorry, it's all in the personality...she's propably more friendly and more open. lot of people like easy going people...may be you're not so friendly and open as jenna...dont be mad at her for stupid thing like this...just try to be more open and understandable and more outgoing and more hmmm friendly...things will change :) dont be mad at ur friend though its not her foult! xoxo effy
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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
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well what you need to do is stick by her side...and help her in anything she needs and in anything you can...god knows the fear she's feeling right now...and she's propably paranoid...going crazy trying to think or visualize whats going to happen next. she's prolly mad, sad, depressed and prolly crys a lot...i dont belive in aborshion i kno she's 13 but she should've thought of that before she did what she did...killing a innocent creature its not the right thing to do. (i hope she's not pragnant though) you need to put her hopes up by telling her that everything is going to be ok and no matter what you'll help her in anything she needs! try to keep her from doing anything stupid or inmature...because when you're depressed anything goes on ur mind...so try to keep her as close as possible and make her feel as calm and safe as possible! dont tell her you know how it feels when you dont know how...but tell her that you'll try to help her with everything you can...i hope i helped...very tough situation...i wish you good luck and ur friend 2. xoxo effy
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alright me and this boy lets call him "a" have been going out for a year and 7 months.he lives in georgia and i live in conneticut. we lived in the same state then moved. well i started getting worried because he is now in a band and is always being wanted by chicks. well i called him one morning and he thought i was checking up on him so he wanted a break. we had a break and he did alot to uncalled stuff with like 2 chicks. he didnt have sex tho. he says hes waiting for me. anyway we talked it all out and he bought me a ticket to go see him so we can be together because after all this thats just what we needed. the thing is while on the break i did stuff with a guy here that really likes me. he asked me out and i had to say no because i still love "a" so now everything is good with me and "a" but people here are saying i should just break up with him because hes not here and the stuff he did while on a break. (what he did was worse then what i did) i have no idea what to do. i like this other guy but i am in love with "a" and i dont want to just end a almost 2 year relationship on something that might not even last a week. what should i do? (link)
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ok well honeslty, you cant call a freaking long distance relationship a relationship...you can but you cant...in your case you cant because you both did stuff with other people and if you 2 really had strong feeligns for eachother...he would keep his "D" in his pants and you would hold your horses...kapish? my point is...he's far...god knows what he does...dont belive guys...they say bunch a shit just to make you feel special and just have you there whenever they need you...i mean i dont doubt he prolly feels something for you...but its not whatever he says...i think you should give the chance to the guy you like that its up close to you...to a guy that you could actually see, touch or feel or whatever...instead of keeping a imaginary b/f that might do stuff behind your back...you know what i mean? i'm not trying to b mean i'm not trying to make your day be shitty..i'm just trying to bring out the facts...now its you're life...its your decision..make the right one so you wouldnt get hurt in the end...and like i said dont trust guys to much they full of shit trust me!
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K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f (link)
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well from the way he's acting he prolly likes you...you never know with lil kids though...they might do that just for the hell of it...may b cuz he knows u like him who knows...the thing is...if you like him go for it...i mean if he does all this then he prolly likes u...but then again...b careful...dont give in 2 quick b smart bout it :) xoxo effy
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I want to lost weigh by June for FL but I need some motivation. Everyday I wake up saying today im going on a diet but then it always turns out the next day and then again the next day. I need some motivation, does anyone know any good ideas to keep me motivated to me goal? please help (link)
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just think of a type of body you want to have when you come down here...just get a models body that u prefear the most hang it on somewhere in ur room and look at it and when you go on diet...dont eat salt or sugar it will help a lot!! also to lose it quick work out a bit ;) xoxo effy
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I used to live with my brother but now i have to live with my other brother and he's constantly drinking and hitting me i don't know what to do if i go to the police then i'll end up in a home again and i don't want to go back to one of those places and if i run away then i'll end up on the street again and that's no good either, but i can't stay here it's getting harder and harder to deal with him and he keeps trying to rape me. I have no other family my dads in jail for beating my mom to death and all of my other family members are even worse than my brother one of my uncles actually did rape me. I really don't know what to do. What can I do?
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wow, i'm sorry...you have to contact a police officer and they'll take care of you...expecially if you're under 18...cuz if ur 18 u should go to the police anyways and move out as soon as possible!!! good luck xoxo effy
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Hi, I am asking you 1-Because your a girl (no offense if that sounds mean at all) 2-Because your only a few years older than me so I think you might be able to relate and 3-Because I've seen some of your advice and it's awsome.
Okay here's the deal:
I am a 14/m.I have liked a girl...her name is Jackie...for a very very long time. The problem is the one time I actually came out and said I liked her, things got extremely akward between us. I finally had to resort to lying(Yea, it was that bad) I told her that I was over her and that things were cool between us. However, I still REALLY like her. She is like my dream girl: GOREGOUS, funny, smart, awsome personality, everything a guy could ask for.
I get out of school on the 18th of May. Should I risk telling her before then or hang-on a while so when I do tell her things arent akward? I am in a tight spot here. I really hope you can help, but if you can't just say so please.
Thanks a ton,
Jeff (link)
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hi, hmm sorry for taking a while to answer this question..i've been bussy lately...but anyways...i read your problem and i know what you're going through and i also understand that is not easy...i'm wondering though if you hang out with her out of schooL? or whatever...but if you dont hang out wit her..i say that you should tell her before you get out of school..tell her how you really feel but find the right time at the right place because if you want to explain to her and to let her know how you really feel you cant be interupted or whatever...so you will need a lot of time to express your self in frotn of her...basically tell her whatever you told me..and ask her for one chance so you could show her what you're capable to do for her and everything..ask her for a chance so she could get to know you better in another point of view and evrything...and then when say all this ask her what she thinks and if she feels anything more then just a friend towards you....then see what happens...if by any chance she doesnt agree or she doesnt feel the same way or whatever...then dont sweat it...just say that you understand and dont worry bout it too much trust me there will be a lot of girls that will walk in to you're life...she's just a lil taste of whats out there...so if u loose the chance wit her...dont worry better things will come your way trust me!!!...if you want to talk more about this or whatever...talk to me in aim xxhotsexycutiexx...i'll b more then glad to help u!! good luck...xoxo effy
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it sems like every guy that i like on the internet and they like me i eather go off on them for some rason or the stop talk ing to me what is wrong with me (link)
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forget interent guyz...there's nothing wrong wit you they're just assholes...the thing is...there are some nice ones...that will actually tell you the truth...most of the bullshit so forget them and get someone whos close to you :) xoxo effy
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My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
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i think long eyelashes are nicee...you should wear clear mascara or something...or go to a make up place...and ask them what you should put on :) they might have something for u:) xoxo effy
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we are very much in love. We do not attend the same highschool so not seeing him everyday does make it hard, but other than that, we have a very good relationship. He has a myspace and there is this girl that comments all the time saying how he's "An awesome kid" and she wishes they could hang out more. I checked out her myspace and in a few of her pictures, HIS pictures are in there with her. Not just him by himself, but him with her and another one of their friends. He's been spending wayy too much time with her and I don't know what to think. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I had and I thought this one would be different. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out? (link)
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wow...hmmm well if i was in your position i would worry about it too. but also you should trust him...or talk to him about it...what i would do is talk to him and i would tell him what i feel and how things go in my head...see his reaction or what he says or whatever...if you want to talk more bout this...im me xxhotsexycutiexx!...
but also it might just be a girl that he just got to know and recently he's been haning out wit her...the pictures dont mean anything...takin a picture with someone dont mean shit so i say dont worry bout that. hmmm just talk to him...and see his reaction...u can tell me about it in aim and i can help you! xoxo effy
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad (link)
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hi, well i think you should move fast...because once i use to like this guy and he use to like me and because we both were sooooo freakin shy we never got to talk to eachother except look at eachother or cought eachother lookin and smile and thats it..one day when i was like IGHT THATS IT I"MMA TALK TO HIM...he wasnt there and i find out that he went back to his country!!!! i got freakin FUSTRADED..(or w/e you spell that) i got pissed...so my advice to you is if you like him go for it...just get the guts all together and do your thing..just be like hey wussup or something, obviously he's going to say something so w/e he says just go with the flow...you dont have to talk a lot the first time...but just so it will be easier for both of you to talk to eachother next time you see eachother...KAPISHI? lol :) well hope i helped xoxo effy
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i straighten my hair EVERYDAY untill its straight enough..but the girls at my school have the hair thats perfectly flat..and straight ends..like pointy straight and it looks really cute..all their frizzys are hairsprayed down or something, did they fri their hair..or how do i get my hair like that? (link)
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hi, what you should do...or what i do is iron them...with a real iron...dont worry nothing will happen to them...tell your mom or someone to do it for you so you wont get burned...or you could try to do it your self...its mad easy...get a part of your hair and go over it with iron...2-4 times...and it will be flat and just like that girls hair...and keep going till you do all of them like it!!!! xoxo effy
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OK i was at school to day and i saw 1 of my friends hitting this other 6th grader with his jacket. When i told him to stop he turned around and hit me as hard as he could with the jacket.... encluding the zippers and strings. He hit me so hard he left a huge bruse and its been red for a while. My question is this..... is that concidered harassment? the problem is i dont wanna tell because he is a friend of mine. thanx!!!!!
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you can get him in trouble big time! no one is suppose to do that to you...unless is freakin self defense...which he had nothing to defend from because all you said was "stop"...so yah, you can get him in trouble and i think its abusment or w/e..but since he's your friend i understand...but you should've hit him back or something...shiuuuu xoxo effy
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