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Is he?
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we are very much in love. We do not attend the same highschool so not seeing him everyday does make it hard, but other than that, we have a very good relationship. He has a myspace and there is this girl that comments all the time saying how he's "An awesome kid" and she wishes they could hang out more. I checked out her myspace and in a few of her pictures, HIS pictures are in there with her. Not just him by himself, but him with her and another one of their friends. He's been spending wayy too much time with her and I don't know what to think. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I had and I thought this one would be different. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out?
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i think they are just friends, and his m8 was being just tactless, like all boys - how old r u? i mean if ur onli like 14 or something i think its a bit OTT saying u r in 'love' plus maybe you're being a bit paranoid. i htink you need to loosen up at little, you know what im saying?
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Sorry gurl, but this one might be a playa. Chances are if he doesn't go to your school, he can have other relationships...
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you have got to talk to him! i have a friend hoo has a boyfriend and about everyone in school knows he is cheating on her but her! i have told her to talk to him but she says she trusts him and she doesnt want to get hurt! it will hurt you more if you wait and find out later.
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I think you should ask him a few more questions about this myspace friend of his. Ask him about the pictures for starters. Then if you're satisfied he's telling you the truth...you'll have to trust him.
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wow...hmmm well if i was in your position i would worry about it too. but also you should trust him...or talk to him about it...what i would do is talk to him and i would tell him what i feel and how things go in my head...see his reaction or what he says or whatever...if you want to talk more bout this...im me xxhotsexycutiexx!...
but also it might just be a girl that he just got to know and recently he's been haning out wit her...the pictures dont mean anything...takin a picture with someone dont mean shit so i say dont worry bout that. hmmm just talk to him...and see his reaction...u can tell me about it in aim and i can help you! xoxo effy
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No. We dont know him. So how can we help, we have no idea.
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Ask him how he feels about the girl, and if he says theyre just friends, then just leave it alone but tell him how you feel about them and that they are spending too much time togetehr or tell him that the way you see them is too much for you to handle and that maybe they could chill out just a little, and also tell him that if you arent enough for him to hang out with that maybe you could hang out with him and her too.
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Well I douldn't jump to any conclusions that he is cheating on you. Since you don't go to the same HS and can't see each other every day maybe he has someone else he has been hanging out with. I would confront him about it, maybe even ask her?? Maybe she doesn't know he has a girlfriend? Im not to sure going about it like that is the best way but its an option. Talk to him about it, a year is a long time and to have gotten that far im sure you guys have great communication.
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