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shyness
ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it.
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*depressed and sad
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if you have a really good friend that knows about this, then you should ask your friend if she will tell him to talk to you. this usually works. if you don't really have anyone that knows about it, then i think you should just kind of gradually get to know him and just say hi to him the next time you see him. just start saying hi to him in the hallways, and soon you will be talking to him. i know it can be hard if you're shy, but you just need to face your fears.
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Dear Depressed and sad:
Honey! just talk to him. i was in the same situation as you not even a month ago. personally, im a scaredy cat. so i wrote him a note and gave it to him. thats the classy way to do it. if he writes you back, congrats! if not, hes not worth it.
Good luck Hun!
Jenn
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Hmm. I can relate to this. I think you should write him a note. That way you'll have plenty of time to think about what you are going to say. Just don't write too much. A relationship based only on what you say in writing is not going to work. You have to realize that you're going to have to talk to him sometime.
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ok you just need to go for it! you can always start out slow. first you can write notes back and forth, then you can find out his screename if he has one.then you can gradually start talking at school! easy as that! it always helps to no if he likes you too before you go and tell him if you like him.
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hi, well i think you should move fast...because once i use to like this guy and he use to like me and because we both were sooooo freakin shy we never got to talk to eachother except look at eachother or cought eachother lookin and smile and thats it..one day when i was like IGHT THATS IT I"MMA TALK TO HIM...he wasnt there and i find out that he went back to his country!!!! i got freakin FUSTRADED..(or w/e you spell that) i got pissed...so my advice to you is if you like him go for it...just get the guts all together and do your thing..just be like hey wussup or something, obviously he's going to say something so w/e he says just go with the flow...you dont have to talk a lot the first time...but just so it will be easier for both of you to talk to eachother next time you see eachother...KAPISHI? lol :) well hope i helped xoxo effy
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