Q: okay..this is going to be long, but i really need help. Ok, my (old) best friend is bipolar. She is really a hard-to-handle person. I dont know what to do cuz lately weve been getting into fights because im so sick of her bitchy-ness. I have no clue on what to do with her, shes like, starting stuff with her one other friend (cuz thats all she has) with me, so now were fighting too. This girl also walks around and shes all quiet and she thinks shes ugly and EVERYONE is out to get her-when really nobody knows her. If she were louder and had more friends-i think shed be happier. What should i do? PLEASE HELPP!!

Q: Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?

Q: I was scalded by my chicken pot pie.
What is the best way to heal a burnt toung?

Q: hey every1. right now my life is so totally like the movie The Notebook, if you've seen it. K so there is this guy who goes to my school and a lot of people don't really like him at all because he is sort of full of himself and annoying. but for some reason at the beginning of this year i really really liked him. i only told a few of my friends though, because it was really embarrassing. then i found out that half way through the year he had to move to Hong Kong. i was really sad and his last day at school , my friend told him that i like him. he said that he liked me too.anyway overtime i kind of got over him and started to like this guy named Ben. Ben has been like my best guy friend for a really long time. anyway he asked me out and i said yes. i was so happy, until Jamie (the guy who moved to Hong Kong) CAME BACK!!! anyway now he is being really sweet, and trying to get me to like him again. the thing is, Ben sometimes ditches me for computer games and stuff, but Jamie never does, hes really sweet now. i don't know what to do at all though because Jamie is moving back to HK for good over the summer, so i probably wont see him again. so i could either break up with ben and spend the remainder of my time going out w/ jamie, or i could stay with ben since i will never see jamie again. no clue what to do! help!

Q: I'm going to camp in the summer for the first time in my life. (I'm 14) I've known my friends for 3 years and they've never known me without makeout. I don't use alot but a little bit of eyeliner makes a hugeee difference! Anyways, I don't know what I should do because I don't want my friends to see me makeup-less...I mean, with makeup, I look "decent" but without, you won't even recognize me on the street. I look horrible! Please don't say..your friends should love you for you..I'm very self concious about myself and I really want to know what to do. Thanks in advance-I rate!

Q: I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

Q: I just got my report card this past friday. It said that my grade point average is 3.95 which is really good. but when i started look at what i got (A A-) it said I had straight A's, A-'s A+'s and I was confused. I get to see my grade a week before they come out, and my science teacher said i was getting a B- then, on the report card it said A+...i don't understand that..can someone explain?
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Q: I have a cousin who puts my probles on here for the world to know! It's really annoying me..what should I do..I don't want to seem mean though..

Q: I just got braces a week ago and after I came home, I noticed these tiny tiny black spots on my teeth...I tried brushing it off, but they won't come off...Now it's a week later and they're still here..It's not really noticeable unless you look closely but I notice them. Can anyone help? I rate. Thanks

Q: everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height?

Q: I had scoliosis surgery recently....this past january if anybody had it how long does it take to be 100% again...?


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Q: Well ... dont know exactly what this would be... but I get really run down sometimes. Just between school, friends, and all sorts of varied stress. It's like it's too much. I think it's mainly while everyone has there little love lifes, I like someone who lives like 1000 miles away. Wouldnt work, and cant work. We don't talk because we just got out of touch. I did try calling him .. but he was very suprised by my call. I dont know if hes shy or what but he didnt call back. Yeah it may sound like he doesnt care about me... but the times when I visited where he lived, he was really friendly. Like if he hated me, he wouldnt have acted the awsome way he did. Im not saying he LOVES me I just know he considered me AT least a friend. And... lately everything I do isn't working. Idk ... my friends are very fair weather. A lot of change is going on. What do I do? [ ps, tried journals...poetry... they help some but they aren't a cure ]

Q: If it matters, I'm seventeen, and a girl.
Okay, so I've been really close with this friend of mine for about two years. Then all of a sudden, she decided she was too good for me. She dwells in every issue she has until she makes herself depressed. She's getting all "emo", for another thing, and pushing EVERYONE away, except our mutual friend, who happens to be a guy.
Now, she even admitted to him that she had a crush on him for awhile, but she "got over it". Somehow, I don't think she did. We're in a choral group and she always manages to position herself next to him, which bothers me - not because I like him - because I'm used to hearing his part in my ear. I'm used to listening to him. We always used to practice together for concerts, we sit next to each other in choir because we blend, and all that.
Anyway, so the main issue I have is, what do I say to her, if anything? She suddenly decided she was too good for everyone except one guy - oh, and her "college friends" which are her only "real" friends. Most of my friends are in college, and I still don't act like that.
I almost want to confront her about her pompous attitude, and about her supposed crush on our friend, but it would make everything awkward, I know.
What would you all do in this situation? I'm just curious.
I rate ones for stupidity and fours for bad grammar and spelling. =)
Thank ya for your opinions.

Q: there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?!

Q: okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do?

Q: ok my best friend lets call her taylor, went out with this guy lets call him ty three times since the begining of this year and she broke up with him all 3 times and when she broke up with him thats all she talked about ty this and ty that then my friend lets call him ricky, ricky asked her out on last thursday and she kept asking people what she sould say to him and it was making me mad because its he decision not everyone elses! and she asked like 15 people! and then he was sitting with us at lunch and she wrote him a note saying that she didnt know if she still had feelings for ty or not (ricky and ty are best friends) and in the note she said that she would go out with ricky but didnt know how she was going to tell ty and she still hasnt told him! and she said that the only reason that she said yes to ricky was because she didnt wanna hurt his feelings but i know that in the end she is going to break up with him by wednesday and ricky really likes her so i guess my question is why is she doing this?

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Q: okay. well i have been best friends with the same three people for 4 years now and we do everything together and i love them to death but now they have new friends and they will talk about plans right in my face and not invite me and so i do other things with my other friends but i cant help but get jelous. its like sometimes i dont want them to be happy unless there with me. I hate feeling this way. I hate being jelous, but i cant help it. Things have changed and i cant take it. I try to take my mind off it and do other things but none of my other friends are as close as they are. i cant just give up on out friendship. How do i stop the jelousy? and Should i tell them how i feel? cause they would probbaly laugh and get mad at me...

sincerely,
Sojelous

Q: I guess this would go under this catergory but anyway....

I always buy make-up well not always but its always the wrong kind, some look to dark or to light so which do i buy..

I have
-brown hair
-freckles (but i like them cuz i do)
-blue eyes but then sometimes grayish
-i have glasses but im gettin contacts this month not that it matters anyway
-im white

do you know any products i could use also...like be specific

Q: i downloaded animation shop 3 and it works really well. anyway i`ll spend a long time on an icon and when i go to download it, some of the letters are erased or things are unproportional. how do i get this to stop?

Q: ok if a guys likes you and you like him ALOT.. but he hasnt asked you out yet.. how can you get him to stay liking you until he asks you out..cuz what if hes not poitive he likes you.. so how would you get him to kno for sure and get him really into you??


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