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my best friend


Question Posted Sunday April 17 2005, 7:21 pm

ok my best friend lets call her taylor, went out with this guy lets call him ty three times since the begining of this year and she broke up with him all 3 times and when she broke up with him thats all she talked about ty this and ty that then my friend lets call him ricky, ricky asked her out on last thursday and she kept asking people what she sould say to him and it was making me mad because its he decision not everyone elses! and she asked like 15 people! and then he was sitting with us at lunch and she wrote him a note saying that she didnt know if she still had feelings for ty or not (ricky and ty are best friends) and in the note she said that she would go out with ricky but didnt know how she was going to tell ty and she still hasnt told him! and she said that the only reason that she said yes to ricky was because she didnt wanna hurt his feelings but i know that in the end she is going to break up with him by wednesday and ricky really likes her so i guess my question is why is she doing this?

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AdvicenateKate answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 8:31 pm:
She sounds like she one that will date anyone and everyone-literally. Some ppl are just like that, it's not their fault. Tell her that she should stop taking advantage of those boys and be considerate about their feeling. Hope I helped!
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yankeesrock226 answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 5:16 pm:
you should tell her to or when he finds out he will be really mad and heart broken that she didn't tell him her self.



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karenR answered Sunday April 17 2005, 11:20 pm:
Is she still dating Ty or are they broke up? If they are broke up she doesn't owe Ty an explanation for anything, she's free to see who she want's. If Ricky is Tys best friend then he probably knows anyway. Guy's do talk to each other ya know. So could be Ty doesn't want anything more to do with her. Anyway, who knows why some people are the way they are. Your best bet would be to stay out of the whole thing so that nobody can blame you for anything. Sounds like a regular soap opera! :)

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Lilbballbabe02 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 9:13 pm:
Your friend is probably going through a lot rite now. Really she may have only sed yes 2 "ricky" for that reason. Although u think she is lyin and it does sound braggy lyk that she's bain nice but sum tymes peolple doon't kno that they r acting lyk that. It'll work out I wouldn't worry. I hope I helped

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isurfinpink answered Sunday April 17 2005, 9:08 pm:
I think your friend is doing this because she likes how it feels to be going out with someone. She likes feeling important and everything. But then when she gets to know the person more, she decides to break up with them. If this is making you mad, i think you should tell her how you feel about it. I also think you should tell her that she is just hurting (ricky's) feelings if she breaks up with him and she was worried about hurting his feelings. This is really weird, and there is more to the story i'll bet. The best thing to do would be to ask her about it and ask her why she is doing this to the people she goes out with. Please send me something in my inbox telling me what happened or you can ask me something else about it. Hope i helped...
-isurfinpink-

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