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ok my best friend lets call her taylor, went out with this guy lets call him ty three times since the begining of this year and she broke up with him all 3 times and when she broke up with him thats all she talked about ty this and ty that then my friend lets call him ricky, ricky asked her out on last thursday and she kept asking people what she sould say to him and it was making me mad because its he decision not everyone elses! and she asked like 15 people! and then he was sitting with us at lunch and she wrote him a note saying that she didnt know if she still had feelings for ty or not (ricky and ty are best friends) and in the note she said that she would go out with ricky but didnt know how she was going to tell ty and she still hasnt told him! and she said that the only reason that she said yes to ricky was because she didnt wanna hurt his feelings but i know that in the end she is going to break up with him by wednesday and ricky really likes her so i guess my question is why is she doing this?
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Your friend is probably going through a lot rite now. Really she may have only sed yes 2 "ricky" for that reason. Although u think she is lyin and it does sound braggy lyk that she's bain nice but sum tymes peolple doon't kno that they r acting lyk that. It'll work out I wouldn't worry. I hope I helped
~*Tori*~
my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help
Try talking to another adult about it like your aunt or grandma. See if they can say something. It always helps 2 have sumone 2 help tho. Maybe you should juss try n Ignore her or b lyk well mom ur wrong bout that. Hope that I helped!!!
~*Tori*~
My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?
I understand I had the same problem. What happened with me is that he told her that I was no harm to their relationship and then she broke up with him because she sed that we were to "Close" Being friends is lyk the total oppisite. Do u lyk that girl? If not I wouldn't worry if he says you guys can't hang out then you guys aren't TRUE friends!!! I wouldn't worry... I hope things turn out for the best
~*Tori*~
I'm 14f and in eighth grade, and my i know this girl who is bagging. ((for all of yall who dont know bagging is a type of inhalance)) FWI she is NOT my friend. I've heard her saying things and mumbling to herself about things like "I'd burn this place up if they'd let me." and "Car Pe Duim." Now I know that's latin for seize the day and I'm really not sure that I want to to be the one to seize it. I htink it might be the fumes from the spray paint she's been huffing that are making her think this way. I'm worried about her and her parents, because there was this fourteen year old kid at my school who was bagging and he got himself killed. I'm not saying I like the girl or anything, but I don't think our little town or anybody else can handle another bagger death. We have had people come to school and talk to us about sex and drugs and this girl does it all. I need to talk to her or her parents somehow, but I'm afraid to go near her. If I don't do something she get her, and the entire town killed with her. HELP!! ((sorry if this was so long))
I understand that you aren't really her friend. Does she have any friends if so try getting them to talk to her about it. Or maybe try being her friend. Sometimes the reason people do things like this is bcuz they have a problem at scvhool r at home. Maybe talk to a couple of people in your home town or ask tyour parents to talk to hers!! Write me back PLEASE!! Hope I helped....
~*Tori*~
i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?!
Really try to investigate a little more!! It may help if oyu try to be there for her. Maybe even mention her being so skinny to your mom!!! But sometimes theses things happen when there is a problem!! Try figuring out from her friends if something has happened!! If they don't know or u do Try asking how she feels about it and stuff. Write me back on how things go...Hope I helped
~*Tori*~
my best friend, ricky, is generally a really good guy...hes a good christian and doesnt smoke, or cheat, or drink, or do anything like that...hes really happy and has always been there for me through anything...but hes been hanging out with bad people lately, and i told him i didnt want him to change because of them...he promissed me he wouldnt, and i believed him. he told me he would never lie to me.
but last night, we were talking, and he told me he needed to tell me something, but he couldnt. i was really worried, and i got it out of him. he started by telling me he was sorry he lied to me...so i got scared...he told me he smoked week with some of his friends...i got angry, but he doesnt know that. i didnt want him to feel like i think i can as him anything..but when he needs help, i block him out. but i dont know how to help him..what should i do?
sorry this is really long...
14/f
See sometimes it isn't easy to be on the advice end of things!! I understand how hard it is to help out someone who always helps you out. Maybe you should get your crew to hang out with him some or get some kind of good influence going. If you come to where he is so bad that he becomes an addict maybe you should suggest Rehab or lyk talk to his parents. i understand how hard it is but I think you can help him out bcuz you obviously care about him!! How I helped Mybe you can write me back on how things go...
~*Tori*~
okay, my first love, diego, and i were in love for about a year and a half. we always were together, but we never went farther than kissing.
we have both moved on now, and we havent really thought of eachother as more than best friends for about 6 months..
im now with a new guy named sam. sam and i are really close, but everytime i tell him i love him, diegos face comes to my mind, but i dont know why. diego and i were talking last night, and we were flirting a lot.
now, looking back, i feel REALLY bad, and i dont know if i should tell sam or not. i know its not like i went off and did stuff with diego, but im still not sure if its concidered cheating or not...is it?!
what do you think i should do!?
14/f
No I don't think so. But if you love Diego maybe you should try it again. Unless there was a big reason why you broke up. Then just tell Sam so that you can reassure him and yourself! Well I hope I helped!! Write me back on how it goes!!!
~*TORI*~
i want to act as a career but everyone doupts me my confidence is low what should i do
SHOW THEM THAT U HAV CONFIDENCE. Surely if you want to have that as a career you can learn to build it up. Try practicing at maybe a school club or find a place where you can act a lot!
Hope I helped!!
~*Tori*~
When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate
Some times if you have a bad Shampoo it doesn't work rite so look for Shampoo that is for Oily Hair. Or try washing once then making sure u get out all the Shampoo and wash it one more time. Or Maybe you should try not using conditioner. Hope I can Help Write me back on whether it worked!!
~*Tori*~
Also u can try this tuff called Aussie 3 minute miracle Original It works really good!!!
13/f
There is this guy and he supposedly likes me!!! and I like him a whole lot! My friends have asked him if he lieks me nad they said that he said he does.. and then some ahve asked him if he is gonn ask me out.. but he said that like Wednesday.. and he still hasn't... I am still wondering if he is going to.. and should I tell him I like him myself? and What should I do about if he likes me??
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We flirt a bunch and stuff and he is in some of my classes... and he alwasy stares at me in them .. but he hasn't asked me out yet.. am I over reacting? PLEASE give me some pointers on how to Help him like me
Maybe you should ask him out... Even tho the boy is sposed 2 do it he culd just be shy... you never know... I know one boy lyk that but My friends talked him into it!!! It helps if your friends know him... Maybe have your friends convince him!!! I really do hope I helped bcuz I know how you feel....
~*Tori*~
Ok..i went out with this guy the other night..i think it was last friday. It was our first time meeting eachother because before that we had talked on the internet and really hit it off. Well when i met him i got very shy and didnt talk much. Soo a few days went by and he didnt really talk to me after that date. So then i told him oneday..that the other night i wasnt myself.and maybe we can hang out again..like another chance. He said ok thas cool..but just as friends. Did i get rejected or what?
Hmm... I hope this helps... Ok well kinda but kinda not... I've had a friend with the same problem... It must be a boy thing tho bcuz he says he would rather be her friend yet he flirts lyk crazy... Maybe you guys should hang out as friends then soon he will lyk you more!! It helps.. plus maybe you will get to know him better and decide whether or not you really do lyk him more than as a friend! Hope I helped!!
~*Tori*~
In the Casper cha cha Slide, it says to do the charlie Brown. What is that? thankx
Ok this is hard to explain but try this..... Put your feet in a wide stance one bahind the other ok now put all your weight on one-footthen jump back to the otherthen speed it up then u got it!!!
I hope u understood that lol!!
~*Tori*~
I need help in my neighborhood there is a lot of families with little kids and I herd they need babysitters but they don't know that I babysit so how do I let them know
Well Flyers are good. But if you don't have your own computer maybe you could hand make them. Just give them out around the neighborhood. Mybe try putting your rates on there and maybe even that you are experienced
I hope I helped
~*Tori*~
I was having a semi-asthma attack on the phone with my boyfriend, and if you've ever had an asthma attack you aren't able to talk without hurting yourself. My boyfriend was asking over and over if I could breathe, well obviously not? I wouldn't answer because it hurt for me to talk and I finally answered with "No!" Then he takes it all defensivly and was like "Sorry! I was just trying to help, but you keep shutting me out." I wasn't shutting him out was I? I was just trying to be able to breathe... Any Advice?
Just explain to him what was happening.... Surely he will understand..... Also, you may want to tell him that the next time you are having one you may just hang up.... or maybe you cvould like press 3 buttons or something to let him know that that is what has happened.
I really hope I helped
~*Tori*~