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am i cheating?
okay, my first love, diego, and i were in love for about a year and a half. we always were together, but we never went farther than kissing.
we have both moved on now, and we havent really thought of eachother as more than best friends for about 6 months..
im now with a new guy named sam. sam and i are really close, but everytime i tell him i love him, diegos face comes to my mind, but i dont know why. diego and i were talking last night, and we were flirting a lot.
now, looking back, i feel REALLY bad, and i dont know if i should tell sam or not. i know its not like i went off and did stuff with diego, but im still not sure if its concidered cheating or not...is it?!
what do you think i should do!?
14/f
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It isn't cheating. Don't tell Sam it would just cause unnecessary problems.
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It isn't cheating if you didn't do anything with him, but you still need to tell your boyfriend what's going on. It shouldn't be a big deal, but you need to be honest with him. And maybe you should rethink this relationship, since you think of Diego everytime you say you love him.
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its not cheating .. but you need to think how do you like more and are comfortable with more
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No I don't think so. But if you love Diego maybe you should try it again. Unless there was a big reason why you broke up. Then just tell Sam so that you can reassure him and yourself! Well I hope I helped!! Write me back on how it goes!!!
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I think you should let this pass as one of those weird moments. If you love Diego and Sam then you just need to figure out which one you wanna be with. If you and Diego aren't together it's probably best that you stay apart, but sometimes getting back together works. You're 14 you shouldn't be worried about loving 2 guys and give it time. Good Luck!
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what you are doing isnt necessarily considered cheating but it was still pretty messed up if your with sam you shouldnt want to flirt with anyone other than sam. as for the whole telling sam you love him and diego pops up in your mind it could be that a small part of you still likes him. becuz if you really truly loved sumone and you break up you may have moved on but a small part of you will still always love them. after all like you said he was your first love. but dont worry too much your not really cheating but it's still bad to flirt with another guy if you have a boyfriend especially flirting with an ex!
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i wouldn't consider it cheating. i think that deep down you still like diego. and its very possible oyu like sam and diego. but you cant have both of them. so you need to decide on whose better for you, and chose the better guy for ya. i hope i helped.
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You still like diego, and you dont want to hurt sams feelings. Ask diego what he feels for you if he likes you more than friends if he does and he is willing to try again. Then you will have to tell sam, just be honest saying that hes a great guy and all but you still love your ex and he loves you. No your not cheating if your not doing anything e.g kissing or holding hands.
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It sounds like to me that your still in l,ove with deigo and your afrid of loseing him. If you were flirting with him and he was flirting with you, maybe your guys should get bac together! CUz it seems that you 2 are sitll in love, and since your only 14, i think you should stick with "just kissing" and doin't go any father!
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