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Website: ~*Breanna*~ E-mail: dancinchic309@aol.com Gender: Female Member Since: April 9, 2005 Answers: 16 Last Update: April 24, 2005 Visitors: 2717
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I'm a fourteen-year old female I have a girlfriend that I really love but never see. When she talks about sex, she reminds me of my rapist so we haven't had sex yet and I don't think I want to. Every time we talk about getting together she talks about sex, but she writes me poetry and she's really loving. She's suicidal and I feel like protecting her. She hasn't come out to her parents yet and I think she feels safe with me. What should I do? She sort of creeps me out, mostly because she cares about sex so much. I'm a virgin save for my molestation when I was 7 through 8. I don't think she gets that I'm touchy about it, no pun intended (dark humor, sorry). I used to cut myself but I stopped, and she still wants me to. I told her I stopped and she asked me why not. She still does. Her mom's always on heroin and she does pot. I want and don't want to dump her at the same time. Should I break up with her? (link)
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hey... i don't think homosexuality is right but if this girl is suicidal and cutting herself, u need to get her help right away. there are always help lines for everything out there, drugs, drinking, cutting, suicide! this girl has issues and so does her mom. maybe you should tell your mom or definatly call a help line! this girl doesn't seem like the type of person anyone would wanna have sex with or be in a relationship with! and ne ways, your ONLY 14 YEARS OLD! thats way too young to even be concidering sex! SO PLEASE GET HELP!
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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
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You should act around him like friends. and i think that time-out means time away from being bf and gf, but don't take that as thats what it means cuz im not exactly sure thats just what is souds like. i also think you should TALK TO HIM about this situation. after all, HE WOULD KNOW!
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I'm 14f and in eighth grade, and my i know this girl who is bagging. ((for all of yall who dont know bagging is a type of inhalance)) FWI she is NOT my friend. I've heard her saying things and mumbling to herself about things like "I'd burn this place up if they'd let me." and "Car Pe Duim." Now I know that's latin for seize the day and I'm really not sure that I want to to be the one to seize it. I htink it might be the fumes from the spray paint she's been huffing that are making her think this way. I'm worried about her and her parents, because there was this fourteen year old kid at my school who was bagging and he got himself killed. I'm not saying I like the girl or anything, but I don't think our little town or anybody else can handle another bagger death. We have had people come to school and talk to us about sex and drugs and this girl does it all. I need to talk to her or her parents somehow, but I'm afraid to go near her. If I don't do something she get her, and the entire town killed with her. HELP!! ((sorry if this was so long)) (link)
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THIS GIRL HAS BEEN HIFFING?!!!??????!!!! omg! you have to do somthing like tell somone. Have you ever read the book, "She Said Yes" ? i advise you to read it. the guy that kiled the girl stated making stat-ments like, " I'll kill you all if i had the chance" or "i hate my life and i hate all of you people!" and that guy, brought a gun to school and killed a lot of people! You need to get this girl help even if she isn't your friend. You should become her friend and get her help!
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i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?! (link)
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First of all, can you tell that her wheight is going down? before you assume that she is anerexic, you should probably reaserch it online and see what are the kinds effects can happen to people when they do become like that. Also maybe you should tell your parents about it. tell them that you have been noticing some changes! and at dinner time, watch her eat, does she pick at it?, take a little bite and make up excuses like "i had a big lunch" or somthing like that!
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Tryouts for cheerleading at on April 29th and i need help!!!
What are some good stunts? I can do the following..
Cartweel
roundoff
Front walkover
Jumps
Split
Heel Streach..
Is it better if i did a front walk over than if i did a cartweal roundoff jump?
I was thinking...
Roundoff Frontwalkover Split????
Thanks again,
I rate high for anything!!! (link)
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wow! i tried out for cheerleading at my high schoola and i made it! im sure what i did will help you too! I did a front walk-over,cartwheel, roundoff, toetoach split. if you can't do a toetoach, just land with the spilt!
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okay, my first love, diego, and i were in love for about a year and a half. we always were together, but we never went farther than kissing.
we have both moved on now, and we havent really thought of eachother as more than best friends for about 6 months..
im now with a new guy named sam. sam and i are really close, but everytime i tell him i love him, diegos face comes to my mind, but i dont know why. diego and i were talking last night, and we were flirting a lot.
now, looking back, i feel REALLY bad, and i dont know if i should tell sam or not. i know its not like i went off and did stuff with diego, but im still not sure if its concidered cheating or not...is it?!
what do you think i should do!?
14/f (link)
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It sounds like to me that your still in l,ove with deigo and your afrid of loseing him. If you were flirting with him and he was flirting with you, maybe your guys should get bac together! CUz it seems that you 2 are sitll in love, and since your only 14, i think you should stick with "just kissing" and doin't go any father!
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Does suicide send you to hell? someone told me it did but i'm not sure. (link)
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Yes definatly! suicde will send you to hell! plz don't! you have a long life ahead of you! work your problems out! please! God put us on this Earth for a reason and a purpose! and He does NOT want you to end your life so soon! if u need help, talk to someone and you can talk to me email me at or im me at dancinchic309!
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..i know this doesnt really fall under health but..i have curly hair..does anyone know any ways to get my curly hair into lighter waves like Jessica Simpson..any suggestions are welcome..and i rate 5's thanks so much! (link)
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hey omg! i have wavy hair but i strighten it every morning! it gets to be a pian somtimes but its wroth it! frist you have to get a really nice profesional straighter! (i have one and it only cost me $48.00! and trust me, that a cheap one) but it really works! if u have really thick hair, like me, you have to go to a hair dresser and ask to get your hair laired and thined! trust me, when you say that, they will know what your talking about! and jessica simpson has really thin hair so thats the only way to get it thin is to have a hair dresser do it. i go 2 times a month! and then once that is done, get a really nice curing iron and lightly curl it! and if u have any trouble email or im me and dancinchic309!
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im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me? (link)
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Its definatly not your weight. If somone doesn't like you cuz ur weight then they have a problem! You just hav't found somone for YOU yet and who likes YOU for YOU. Somone somday will come along. don't rush it! your 14, you got a while to go!
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This guy I know has told me he liked me a few weeks ago. I STARTED to like him BEFORE he told me. When he told me and continued to confess his love for me, he just got less and less attractive. He got clingy, and obsessive. He calls me 3 or 4 times a day and can't go a day without tlaking to me on the phone, as if we are in a relationship! I suggested we hang out during spring break so I can get to know him, but then I got too busy. Then he made me promise I'd go out with him during the summer when I'm not too busy! OMG! I have tried not talking to him on the phone and avoiding his calls, but nothings working. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I DID tell him I wasn't into a boyfriend right now. Any advice? (link)
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Well, you CAN'T be afraid to "break-a-heart" ! he will have to get over it. its not your fault that you don't like him as much as he obviuosly like s you.
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To tell the honest truth, I dont have a lot of friends & most of them when i call them (like tonight) make up an excuse not to go out with me. *yeah, i know, mean but please dont pity me* So, anyways i have nothing to do! Im not going to just sit around - but im not going out alone! wtf can/should i do? =/ Signed, Oh so lonely (link)
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Hi! Please don't pity yourself! Tell your friends you don't like them ignoring you! Be honest with them! Read a book, chat online, listen to music, play a game, (i know whatching tv can get boring) but you can whatch tv too! you caould also online make up your own website on www.xanga.com. i have one and it kept me busy for a while and its fun making one! you can check mine out at www.xanga.com/bre1 an if you need any help, im me or email at dancinchic309!
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ok well i have this boyfriend i love him him soo much and he loves me too and he wants a kid reallie badd and i do too and we kinda said we want one but im afraid of my parents reaction if i did end up getting pregnant. and i mean im scared becuz my da tends to have a very bad temper problem like one time i juss wanted to go to my room and so he grabbed the bak of my head and literally threw me into my room and made my head hit the wall and i cut it open on a tack thing and so i tried to walk past him to get a wet rag and he wouldnt let me! and so im not afraid of my moms reaction becuz all she would do is give me andvice and help me raise it and tell me i was stupid and kik me out of the house cuz they said if i mess up reallie badly one more time im out of the house its my dads reaction im afraid of becuz when he gets madd he juss like blacks out and doesnt kno wat hes doing until its done and my boyfriend says that if my dad tried to hurt me that he would defend me and hit my dad and all but i dont want anyone to get hurt you know? but you have no idea how badd i want a baby!!!! and if i did get pregnant i'd want it to be my boyfriends baby. im juss afraid of my dad he scares me more than anyone i have ever known in my life
answer as fast as you can plz!! (link)
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OK, well, you didn't say how old you are and that makes it a little dificult to give you any advice on this subject but I am guessing your young maybe 14-16? I am guessing this because your thinking about all the worst possible things that could happen if you do get pregnant. If you are afraid about what your dad or your mom might do to you then DON'T DO IT! wait until you get married!and i know that seems like a long way away, but you gotta do what you gotta do! If you really wanna have sex then please use protection!some is better then none! if you wanna have sex and also want a child then why don't you sit down with your mom alone and ask her what she would do if you ever did get pregnant. But if you and your bf wanna do this then please think about it. A baby is a lot of respnsiblity! and when i re-read what your dad did to you, maybe its notsuch a good idea to have a baby at your age. I hope i could help and if you need ne more advice come to my site ~*Breanna Marie*~
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OK. I need to know how i can win Best Dressed this year at my school! I have no idea about what to wear everyday that week! Like, on Monday should i wear a skirt and a tank top? Plz help! (link)
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to win, i think you will need to wear what you like. ANd on Monday, don't go "all out" like don't get really really dressed up. and as the week progreses, add a little more flavor to your wardrobe!
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I've been looking into several ways to remove hair from my legs and underarms. One of my friends suggested using Depillatory Cream. (Such as Nair, Veet, etc) My question is, does this really work? And is it safe for underarms? What brand or product do you suggest? And how long does the hair stay off? (link)
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I have a question for you, Why don't you just use a razor? But ok, it is ok for underarms and it works! i use Veet under my arms all the time and i never had any problems!
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so i have this boyfriend. almost 3 months. but we have only held hands and hugged. he is going sooo slow. every one is like .. make the first move. but im really shy. like.. really shy. but just around the boy im going out with. are there anyway i can sortof give him hints.. but not make the firt move? 13/f (link)
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I am really really shy too around my bf somtimes but if u wanna give him "hints" and not tell him then when u hold hands snuggle up to him more and even though you don't wanna mae the first move, when your coming out of a hug with him, kiss him lightly on the cheek and im sure that should break the ice and give him a clue that its ok to kiss you or whatever.
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OKay my i need 2 get my g/f a pair of pants for her birthday. So I need to know how girl sizes go. Like 12,14,16_,_,_,_,_ ect. Thanks a bunch. P.S i rate high (link)
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One thing, you really should NOT get your gf a pair of PANTS for her birthday. You should get her jewlary like a neacklave or a pretty braclet!
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