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Baggers


Question Posted Sunday April 10 2005, 12:09 am

I'm 14f and in eighth grade, and my i know this girl who is bagging. ((for all of yall who dont know bagging is a type of inhalance)) FWI she is NOT my friend. I've heard her saying things and mumbling to herself about things like "I'd burn this place up if they'd let me." and "Car Pe Duim." Now I know that's latin for seize the day and I'm really not sure that I want to to be the one to seize it. I htink it might be the fumes from the spray paint she's been huffing that are making her think this way. I'm worried about her and her parents, because there was this fourteen year old kid at my school who was bagging and he got himself killed. I'm not saying I like the girl or anything, but I don't think our little town or anybody else can handle another bagger death. We have had people come to school and talk to us about sex and drugs and this girl does it all. I need to talk to her or her parents somehow, but I'm afraid to go near her. If I don't do something she get her, and the entire town killed with her. HELP!! ((sorry if this was so long))

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xobreakingdawn answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 6:04 pm:
Most people on drugs usually don't like to be ratted out, but you NEED to tell someone about her, whether it's you're parents or guidence counsler. This person probably doesn't know how dangerous inhalents or any kind of drugs can be. If she doesn't stop eventually she will die. One person can make a diffrence, it can even be you! But you have to tell someone, or she'll never get help. good luck!!! xoxo

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xobreakingdawn answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 6:04 pm:
Most people on drugs usually don't like to be ratted out, but you NEED to tell someone about her, whether it's you're parents or guidence counsler. This person probably doesn't know how dangerous inhalents or any kind of drugs can be. If she doesn't stop eventually she will die. One person can make a diffrence, it can even be you! But you have to tell someone, or she'll never get help. good luck!!! xoxo

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karenR answered Monday April 11 2005, 1:47 am:
Tell a teacher or counsler at school. They will know how to handle it for you.

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PsycoSkitz21 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 2:03 pm:
I notice everyone apologizes on long questions!!! but here's my advice:

When the girl is out of her house, (if she does drugs, she'll rarely be IN her house) call her parents, or tell your mom (or dad), and mom's (or dad's) know how to conversate with other adults. And that way, the parents are informed :)

If you're too shy to ask your parents. Then you must venture off...alone. But for the sake of your town!!! Go to her door, yes, find out where she lives, and talk WITH her parents, informing adults with this info, is much better in person. Think about what you're going to say before you get there, and be ready for any type of comment!!!

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Lilbballbabe02 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 11:22 am:
I understand that you aren't really her friend. Does she have any friends if so try getting them to talk to her about it. Or maybe try being her friend. Sometimes the reason people do things like this is bcuz they have a problem at scvhool r at home. Maybe talk to a couple of people in your home town or ask tyour parents to talk to hers!! Write me back PLEASE!! Hope I helped....

~*Tori*~

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stalkingroxy911 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:49 am:
hugs not drugs

edit>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
im not the fagot because im not the one with the drug addiction now am i?

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tweetysweetyangelLeLe answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:34 am:
I think you need to talk to her parents or someone in the school (guidance counselor) because you're right she could get killed. It may be better to talk to the counselor if you don't wanna go near her. adn don't worry about getting her in trouble, it's better then letting her slowly kill herself. I think even if you don't like this girl it shows your human and care about people enough to get them help, Hopefully this girl realizes one day that you may save her life. Good Luck!

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Breanna_Marie answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:16 am:
THIS GIRL HAS BEEN HIFFING?!!!??????!!!! omg! you have to do somthing like tell somone. Have you ever read the book, "She Said Yes" ? i advise you to read it. the guy that kiled the girl stated making stat-ments like, " I'll kill you all if i had the chance" or "i hate my life and i hate all of you people!" and that guy, brought a gun to school and killed a lot of people! You need to get this girl help even if she isn't your friend. You should become her friend and get her help!

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CaitlinCrane answered Sunday April 10 2005, 2:11 am:
if i were you, i would prolly go to talk to your school counslor if you have one, dont say this girls name because that could get her in trouble with the cops or soemthing...but you should ask the counslor what u should do to stop it...i would prolly talk to her parents one day (when she isnt home) and tell them the things you hear and the things u see her do and stuff....ask them not to mention your name to her when/if they talk to her...so that she wont be able to do anything to you...tell them that it was hard for you to tell them, but you felt it was something that they deserved to know!

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shake answered Sunday April 10 2005, 1:58 am:
Yeah, she will die. Does she have friends? If not she wont be missed.

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