Heyy!!! Dr. Rachel in the house ;) well i'm notta Dr. yet!! I'm good helping with life issues. When I'm older I'm going to become a psycologist, and might as well get started. I love helping people out, and I know it's easier to tell someone something, than to actually do it themselves. So I try to say what I would do in a situation. Sometimes there are problems that no one knows how to solve, hopefully, I'll be able to help you!
Wondering about my username? PSYCOlogy, get it? and SKITZ stands to SKITtles, I just added a Z, they call me skittles, cuz i'm irresistibly sweet!!! :)
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Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You were bitten by the boredom bug!!!! that sounds really stupid and corny, but you are the victim!!! lol...Draw, call a friend to do something, chances are, if it's a weekday, your friend will not be able to hang out, so i'm figuring your a teenager...so call your friend to do something that weekend so you save yourself in the future, and as for the moment, get out and do something!!! Ask a parent to take you for ice cream, or to go rent a movie :) or even *gasp* study with a friend for a test ;) some good internet sites, no matter how stupid they seem, you get sucked in!!!
www.neopets.com
if you happen to join neopets, send me an email, i'll give you my username so I can add you as a friend ;)
www.google.com type in bubble trouble, i think it's the first or second link :) hope that helps hun! good luck :)
SkitZ
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well...i just saw the movie 'something like love' and it got me thinking. does love like that actually exist? i'm sure not many people have seen it yet as it is a new movie...but they just seemed so, i don't know, made for each other. it was surreal. i know in real life guys might not stand outside and sing to you with a guitar to win your heart...but the way they felt for each other...does that really happen? thanks! (link)
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Haha, i just got back from that movie...ashton kutcher is awesome!!! haha...anyways, my wise advice ;) ::::::
Love...is different for different people. To some people, it's a commitment...to others, it's a "temporary" thing, and I use the quotes because while we're young, there's not many permanent relationships anymore. It's like our brains are set to the "Who's cuter?" rather than the "Who respects me most?" We need to listen to both sides. In actuallity, true love exists...but only in some cases. It's sad, because we have a want, and the want is to be loved by somebody else. A somebody that isn't related to you!!! And then we get desperate. So we go with the guy that says, "let's go out" so I guess it exists, but sometimes, it doesn't, and we still believe it's there, because we WANT it to be there. :) bye hun...hope that answers your question!!!
*Skittles*
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What is this friction between us?
What does that mean and what does friction mean? (link)
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Friction means, it's not working out between the two of you. Metaphors are often used in relationships.
*Skittles*
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Ok so I have a good amount of friends and everything... but I am a bit shy. I just know I'd have WAY more friends if I was more outgoing. It's just really hard for me. Can I have advice on how to become more outgoing... and what I should do? Thanks.
-Hopeful (link)
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To become more outgoing, means being more comfortable with yourself.
don't force yourself to do something you don't feel is right. Are you sure you can handle the responsibilites that come with outgoingness? Sometimes, having lots of friends who expect you to be outgoing can be a hassle, it can mean laughing at your self and doing the randomest things.
If you EVER feel way over your head, don't continue. You want to be comfortable. If you're looking for better and more friends. GET ONE person to laugh, and then sit with that one person at lunch. Normally if you pick a person that has a "group" already, you'll meet all of them, and become a minion ;) good luck hun =D we're all rooting for ya!
*Skittles*
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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do? (link)
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Its hard to let your friend know to stop doing something, becaues you don't want to seem jealous. Ask your friend if she has feelings for him, if she says no just to be modest, say how much it hurts you, say you DO like him, and it bothers you to see her flirt with him. OR During art, she may get to flirt with him. But if you see him around school, is all the better ;). during the day, casually talk to him, so by art, you may have something to say to him about somethign you guys were talking about earlier, and add a side of flirt :D good luck hun, and if it doesn't work, there are lots of guys out there. Let your friend know how you feel =D
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I have a ferret. He is so cute and I love him to bits. He's about 10 months old now, but all he likes to eat is his ferret food! He won't eat chicken or anything else! Should he be eating a more varied diet, other than his ferret food? If so, how do I get him to accept new foods? (link)
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put chicken in his ferret food. I used to have a white ferret named marshmallow, and she didn't like much other than her ferret food either. We hid it in her food, and at first, she just didn't eat, so we switched back to her regular ferret food. It might be different for yours. If he doesn't accept the food you hid, don't feed it to him. You do want him to eat!!! If you're worried about nutritions he needs. Then visit your local pet store, and find out what you can do!
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ok im 13 female and i started cutting because family and friend problems and i stopped 4 like 2 weeks and then i got so mad and deprest i cut again and now i want to really bad but i promised myself i wouldnt do it again because im scared someones going to find out about it and send me to a mental home or something beause of it and i have thought about killing myself one or twice but i havent gone threw with it yet but i trie to hide it from my mom and my teachers so i dont wear shorts or anything and i wear a jacket most the time so that no one see the scares but i really need help and i was going to tell someone about it but im to scared so can anyone give me advise because i could really use some right now??? please help (link)
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Don't tell anybody at school about this. Rumors spread REALLY fast. I understand you probably won't and can't tell your parents. JUST STOP DOING IT. Put tape on your arms that says "NO!" like not SILVER tape, not DUCT tape, however you spell that but something thick, so that you can write. Since you wear jackets anyway, it'll cover the tape! and for your legs you CAN do the same, however, that's a lotta tape ;) . When you're VERY angry, and want to cut, just punch your mattress and/or pillow and yes, CRY. That will get the anger outta ya!!! Put a picture of your TRUE friends, and the family you adore. So you can think of a reason to not die :) please don't kill yourself hun!!!
*Skittles*
If you need side assistance, go to my advice column, I have aim and yahoo. :)
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I'm 14f and in eighth grade, and my i know this girl who is bagging. ((for all of yall who dont know bagging is a type of inhalance)) FWI she is NOT my friend. I've heard her saying things and mumbling to herself about things like "I'd burn this place up if they'd let me." and "Car Pe Duim." Now I know that's latin for seize the day and I'm really not sure that I want to to be the one to seize it. I htink it might be the fumes from the spray paint she's been huffing that are making her think this way. I'm worried about her and her parents, because there was this fourteen year old kid at my school who was bagging and he got himself killed. I'm not saying I like the girl or anything, but I don't think our little town or anybody else can handle another bagger death. We have had people come to school and talk to us about sex and drugs and this girl does it all. I need to talk to her or her parents somehow, but I'm afraid to go near her. If I don't do something she get her, and the entire town killed with her. HELP!! ((sorry if this was so long)) (link)
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I notice everyone apologizes on long questions!!! but here's my advice:
When the girl is out of her house, (if she does drugs, she'll rarely be IN her house) call her parents, or tell your mom (or dad), and mom's (or dad's) know how to conversate with other adults. And that way, the parents are informed :)
If you're too shy to ask your parents. Then you must venture off...alone. But for the sake of your town!!! Go to her door, yes, find out where she lives, and talk WITH her parents, informing adults with this info, is much better in person. Think about what you're going to say before you get there, and be ready for any type of comment!!!
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Anyone know any music videos to download which have hip-hop dancing in?
Or anysite that teach hip-hop online or anyone will teach me bassic stuff online like tips n step by step stuff?
lush me x (link)
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Ciara's song, One Two Step, is A LOT of hip hop, good luck...it looked pretty hard on the music video.
Teaching hip hop, I'm not sure, go to a local dance class and ask one of the instructors.
*Skittles*
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i'm writing a script for a skit to do for my school talent show. does anyone have a storyline for the skit? i was thinking it could take place during the 1950's. i'm in middle school and it needs 2 be appropriate for all ages. there are only 8-10 girls doing the skit! please help!
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you should make it at a sockhop, like a "Grease" theme!!! You may have to tweak the date a bit, like 1960's or 1970's, i was born 1991, so i'm not sure WHEN they did sockhops, but you can ask your grandparents or parents :) You girls can wear poodle skirts, and maybe get a couple'a guys in jeans and a white t-shirt :)
have fun at your talent show!
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my best friend, ricky, is generally a really good guy...hes a good christian and doesnt smoke, or cheat, or drink, or do anything like that...hes really happy and has always been there for me through anything...but hes been hanging out with bad people lately, and i told him i didnt want him to change because of them...he promissed me he wouldnt, and i believed him. he told me he would never lie to me.
but last night, we were talking, and he told me he needed to tell me something, but he couldnt. i was really worried, and i got it out of him. he started by telling me he was sorry he lied to me...so i got scared...he told me he smoked week with some of his friends...i got angry, but he doesnt know that. i didnt want him to feel like i think i can as him anything..but when he needs help, i block him out. but i dont know how to help him..what should i do?
sorry this is really long...
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Don't worry, long questions, mean better answers :). Sounds like peer pressure. Have you ever had DARE? in 5th grade I had it. What's happening is, your friend feels he must fit in with these people, let him know you're there. Picture him in a pool drowning with these other kids...wouldn't you grab something to save him? Same case here, save him...he's drowning...he needs you now.
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This is the second time i have posted this.. maybe someone will remember me from the first time. I am not 16 years old and i would say that i have felt insecure for as long as i can remember but it has worsened over the past year. I dont feel im a "normal" teenager, my mother has even said so a couple times. I dont like to go out, i actually dont like to do anything. I hate the way i look and im very insecure about my body. (actually im insecure about everything about myself) I no that its "normal" for a girl to be insecure about her looks but theres more. I have so much doubt and regret that im drowning in it. For the past couple of months ive been thinking that its possible im depressed, like clinically. Im not suicidal but i feel so sad all the time and spend alot of the time crying and begging God to take away all this pain. So far my prayers have not been answered. I havent told my parents for a number of reasons. I know that i can tell them anything but im scared. Im afraid they wont take me seriously and im embarrased. I also dont want them to feel like its their fault or anything because i do have a pretty good life, which actually causes me to feel really guilty. Im just really scared and its been sooo long that i have felt this way and havent told them i dont want them to be mad and i just dont know what it will be like afterwards. Im also scared to see a doctor but i also really want to stop feeling like this way. Tonight, after having a good cry i thought about telling them again but i dont think i can get through it without crying like a baby. So i decided to write a letter and give it to them but im afraid im not brave enough. I did start the letter though. Please someone tell me what i should do. I mean.. what if im just being dramtic and looking for attention and i tell them and they take me to a doctor and its nothing, i will feel so embarrassed. I dont want people to feel bad for meand if i tell my parents i wont be able to take it back. But i just dont no and im sick of wishing i could run away and start over with a new life. I sick of wanting more. Everyday is just like the one before it and i cant handle it. I feel like im going to fall apart. Ok i think this is long enough.. what im asking of you is that u tell me if u think this is depression or am i just being overly dramatic and also do i tell my parents and if so how.. was the letter a good idea?? PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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It might be depression. I think a lot is going on right now, and you might be stressed. Maybe you're worried about college and moving out. And sometimes, you might feel saddened by leaving. And that you're going to be split up from friends and family and that you'll be moving on. Don't worry, if it's not suicidal, it might be normal. Sounding from you don't like going anywhere, you're like me, I'm shy about myself and what i do...dont' worry, you're normal. and you'll be just fine! try to get more active, and make some friends and hang out with them at the movies etc. Join a sport or club. When I was 10, i just joined soccer, and since then, it has made me more outgoing. I was so shy when I was 10, i'd be just sitting there, by myself at home, because my family would be out eating. I wasn't ready for the world to see me yet. Maybe the world can see you now. It's okay to feel self concious, everybody does! good luck, and don't forget, relax, it might just be stress :)
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I babysit for an hour and a half everyday.
Lucky me, I get the hours when the youngest baby wants to go to sleep more.
The parents keep asking me to try and keep her awake till they come home cause if not she won't sleep at night.
I always fail and she always ends up falling asleep then the parents have trouble getting her back to sleep in the middle of the night.
So I need tips on keeping her awake. She's 8 months old. Don't just say ''Play with her'' because I keep trying but she just crys then I pick her up and she falls asleep.
Oh and I also babysit her sister who is 3 years old so anything that they could both do would be good, I don't want to leave any of them out.
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play "tea party" or "dolls" with the three year old and get the baby involved. And get them both to giggle and read lots of books. That worked on a 9 month old baby. I hope one month isn't much'a difference! hope my advice works :) good luck
*Skittles*
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Okay well sometimes I have a problem with talking about people behind their backs. I never really realized it until I started getting in trouble for it. Now I don't even like the girls I hang out with, I try to stop my VERY bad habit but its hard, and without thinking I do it again! It makes me feel so bad and I can't really say that I've tried my hardest...but I need some new ways and tips of how I can keep the thought of "this is bad, stop!" in my head. Also how can I say sorry to my friends? I've said it a million times but then they do it to me! I don't want to be their friend anymore, and I want a new group of friends..how can I do this? Also, with all the drama in my life right now my grades have been slipping, its terrible and it needs to stop! I need to get my priorities straight, but right now I'm not really sure what they are. Any ideas of what I could do? Please help me! (link)
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College and Highschool is your motivation. When you gossip and you KNOW it's wrong, but you do it anyway, subconciously, I think you seek attention. Make new friends who have grade oriented goals, so they'll bring you up with them. Even if they're not popular, because after College, you won't see most of those people, you really need to focus on your ambitions, because you need good SAT scores to get into a good 4 year college, so you may lead a wonderful (and educated) life :)
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soccer is coming up soon.... i need to get in shape... really bad. whenever i run now i feel i get out of breath a lot easier. and i think my leg muscles decreased, i lost a lot of weight. what can i do do get in shape, and increase my muscles (mainly leg muscles.. although arm muscles would help for my throw-ins)?
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stretch, and do lots of situps!!! situps stregnthen your stomache muscles, and strong stomache, helps you run faster!
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I need a dress for my 8th grade graduation, but I have NO idea where to look. Its supposed to look nice, but not too dressy. I'm really really picky though. Any ideas where I can get a pretty cheap dress for it? Thanks! (link)
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You can get a cute skirt and top at Hollister. Dresses can be dowdy. Go to your mall, to the Juniors Section at like a Nordstrom's, and they usually have some pretty cute dresses :)
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Hey i have 9 tortoises there all herman i want to know if anyone knows if you can mix them together becuase they all came from different places and they say if you have 2 different species you cant mix them together becuase the different disseases they carry i rate 3's if you help
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I wouldn't risk it...if you really want to know, take your tortoises to your vet and make sure. Becaues you wouldn't want anything to happen to them.
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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla
Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx (link)
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It won't come to an end, but a start. We might have america's FIRST black pope :) i'm sure people will grow into it.
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ok, i know this is kind of a dumb thing to want advice for, but hhave you ever gotten so mad at someone either because of embarrassment getting you in trouble or just because they suck? well, i have...and i want revenge. (no, not like killing them or stalking or whatever, just fun and clean but absolutely effective revenge!) what are some good sites to go on just to plan or get necessary help for getting revenge on someone? i'll even rate you a 5 if you come up with a good prank or something too (but it'll be hard because i won't tell you what they did to me to get me so mad, but still.) oh and please don't say google because i already checked. i'll rate 4 or 5 to ANYONE who helps!!! an remember, it's just supposed to be fun.... but oh so satisfying!!! thankz in advance!! (link)
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Somethign funny that I did, and it was harmless, was when they got up out of their seat, i put water in their chair, so when they sat back down it look like they "went" in their pants, and it's harmless because water will dry up and won't stain. :)
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if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite? (link)
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Yea, I play soccer, it does slow it down a bit.
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