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what do you think...
i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do?
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Tell your friend that you seriously do like him. If she can't handle it. I suggest new friends.Tell me how it works!
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Well, if she doesn't know that you like him, tell her so that she knows that you do. If she doesn't like him and she's a good friend, she'll stop flirting with him. If she does like him, then you'll both have to sit down and talk about what you should do. Don't let it turn into a battle of who's going to get him first. That's the worse thing that you could do. Just sit down and talk about it!
Hope everything works!
-Trin
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You could ask her staight up if he she likes him and then if she says why, you could tell her the truth (that you like him) or you could just say you were wondering. But she can't know you like him unless you let her know or drop hints, otherwise she isn't doing anything wrong.
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You should tell her you like him and you'd like it if she didn't flirt with him around you.
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you said no body knows right ?well, does your friend know ? if i were you trust me i would so talk to her , trust me i have been in that situation with one of my friends!! were i liked the guy and she flirted with him , now i go out with the guy we have been gooing out for 6 months and , i also still have my friend!
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Its hard to let your friend know to stop doing something, becaues you don't want to seem jealous. Ask your friend if she has feelings for him, if she says no just to be modest, say how much it hurts you, say you DO like him, and it bothers you to see her flirt with him. OR During art, she may get to flirt with him. But if you see him around school, is all the better ;). during the day, casually talk to him, so by art, you may have something to say to him about somethign you guys were talking about earlier, and add a side of flirt :D good luck hun, and if it doesn't work, there are lots of guys out there. Let your friend know how you feel =D
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tell your friend you like him. then she might not flirt with him. she probably didnt mean to not talk to u at all... she was just talkin to him and forgot to come say hi. it'll all work out.
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Do you think your friend is jealous because you have something that she doesnt have, is your friend the kind of person who is like that. If your friend has never did that before just confront her and ask her is she jealous . if you think your friend will get mad if you ask her that . try to approach her in a different way.
- write me back after you did, tell me what happned. BYE-BYE!
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I think you need to ask your mate if she likes him, If she does tell her you like him to. Which can sometimes be a big problem because friends sometimes fight over guys, If you really like him get him! take control and ask him out on a date if hes flirting with you then go right ahead But if your going to ask him out to say anything to your friend about if she likes him or not so that way if she goes in a mood just say i didnt no you liked him and that you should have told me.
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Talk to your friend in private so she knows that it bothers you when she flirts with him. If this guy flirts with you and her, you might want to reconsider because a guy should never come between a friendship.
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