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Age: 13
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I am really worried about my fiance. He spends his money and doesn't worry about the consiquences that come along with it. This morning he found that he only had $8 in his account after he had just put in a check over $200. He depends on other people, such as his family to help him when he needs cash. I am not working right now because of school, but I plan to get a job as soon as possible. My fiance has bills to pay and I am worried that his money problems will hurt our future. I cannot imagine a life without him and I am not going to let money get in the way of our relationship; but I would like to see him be more responsible with how he spends. Even after people tell him including me he doesn't listen. Does anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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Alright first off spending money is an adiiction like any other drug, have u ever considered counseling. Some people are not into counseling and stuff but if he continues to spend, spend, spend, and it is your last resort, maybe you should try counseling.
Write back if it doesnt work out
Sincerely, kiyya
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at my school theres some people that think im hot but they are more like the losers and the popular people ignore me and tell me im ugly.. why is this? but people outside my school think im pretty good looking ..why do people do this (link)
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i am sorry i did not answer that my friend wrote that he was trying to be smart
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Kiyya it's this boy i like but i don't know what to do please help me
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well if you want to go out with this boy you should just approach him and be like do you like me and if he say yes then that is good but if he say no just move on cause there are plenty of fish in the sea
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i like this boy just a liitle bit maybe 80% of 100%. I think he likes me too. but he goes out with my friend.do u think i should go with him, if they break up because he asked me out before but i didn't answer him. my friends tried to get us hooked up but it didn't work.can u please help me.
sincerely,
alexandra (link)
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why would you go out with a boy who you friend just went out with. you say that you like him 80% out of 100% if you like a boy you should like him 100%
WB
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i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!! (link)
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I think that you should not go out with any of them because you would be going in between friends and they might not talk to each other no more and it will be all your fault.
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My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
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i know some mascaras you can use but they aint sold in know england , lash ininity is wit it is called . and if that don't work you can put on fake eyelashes, you can get the fake eyelashes from MAC.
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at what age do you think is the perfect age to have sex (link)
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the perfect age to ahve sex is 21.
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okay..i sweat alot in my armpits! i use secret platinum gel and it hasnt been working. i dont smell (atleast i dont think) but i get really really soaked in my pits rite when i get to school! its awful! please help! what is the strongest womens deodarant/antipersperant you know of? help me out please! (link)
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ooh you should use old spice, it's an anti-perspirant. but what you do is take a washcloth to school and a small bar of soap. wash under your armpits. and then put on the old spice. this should help.
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Let me start out by saying that my sister is a nightmare. A big fat nightmare who makes your life turn into serious Hell. She is a thirteen year old snob who gets in everyones business, demands things from my parents who take it even though they don't like it. She has been damaging my life the most by trying to beat the crap out of me in front of her friends when I was severly sick, she didn't beat me up, but she kept trying to, and it made me upset, and I cried because it my body was aching. She has tried to smart mouth me in front of her friends, when my mom tells her not to do something, when shes not around, she will do it anyways, and when I try to stop her, she get up in my face, and says, "What are you gonna do about it?" Now, when things like this happens, I call my mom, and she'll just say, "stop it" even though thats probably about the hundreth time shes done it. She also lies, very bad. My parents know, but not as much, she tries spying on my phone conversations with my boyfriend, she is also known to read my other sisters diary to her friends on the phone, and laugh about it with them. She also told all of her friends something SO personal, I am not going to say, but it was so personal about my older sister. My parents do nothing about this. No matter how many times I try to ask them nicely, or I just slam it in their faces, they go talk to her, and she plays the innocent one. I told my mom tonight that she has made my life a living Hell, and all she said was, "well, she said the same thing about you" That made me so angry, because she looked at me like she believed her over me or she didn't know who to believe, HELLO! I am the innocent one here, everyone always says mean things about her, so they know shes the one whose rude! She is also known to hurt me in front of people, she'll grab underwear with blood in it, and will announce to everyone that its mine! When its really hers! I have dealt with this for a long time, and today, I just couldn't take it, I screamed in my room so loud, and tore all of the posters off of my wall, and scratched my face. I have gone crazy! When I heard somebody pick up the phone while me and my boyfriend were talking, I ran to my mom and yelled, "GET HER OFF THE PHONE NOW I HATE HER SO MUCH SOMEBODY JUST KILL HER!" And then, I went rambling on to my boyfriend how much I just want to kill her, and now I keep day dreaming about ways that I can kill her. I also kept saying, "shes a slut, a whore, a b*tch, a little sh*t, and an a*shole." I know shes a slut, but I will not get into detail about that. But I am asking somebody to please not tell me I need anger management, I know that this behavior is not abnormal, what person would not go crazy after dealing with a lying sister and parents who won't do anything about it? My behavior is scaring me, I've never hated somebody this much, I usually just like everybody, but everytime I think about wanting to kill her and it makes me feel good I get scared! I can't really talk to my parents, I've screamed it in their ears, and I've told them nicely, they don't listen to me.
Also, do not even think about having me talk to my sister, she is greedy, and selfish, all she cares about is herself, seriously, if its not her way, theres no way, shes a spoiled brat. So I guess what I'm asking is does anybody think I might be taking this too far? I know that I'm not, but does anyone think different? I know that this shouldn't get to me, but I have to live with her! I need ways to take my anger and sadness out, because all of my posters are ripped off of my wall. Also, my dad is getting me a therapist, so I can at least have somebody to talk to, but the whole time I'm probably going to ramble on about how much I hate her and wish she was dead, I have truly never felt this deeply of hate. My silly boyfriend wants me to fight her, but I'm not going to. But I hate her enough to. So, could anyone say something about this, like advice because I am in a huge puddle of misery. I just wish somebody would just think, "Maybe Sarah [me] has feelings too" when she makes fun of me, I wish she'd think, "Maybe since Sarah has depression, I shouldn't call her names because she feel pain too" And it makes me cry at night wondering how I'll ever get out of this Hell hole, somebody please give me comfort or anything that could help me. I've told my parents about my misery, so don't think that I havn't told anyone about this. I will rate. (link)
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i know how you feel but i never felt that much anger and hate towards my brother, it must be horrible for you to live with someone who you hate so much. the best thing to do is just let your anger out as much as you can, not by killing her though. you could buy a cell so she won't be listening to you on the phone but about the other stuff she does all i can tell you is to fight her, if she is as bad as you say she is. and you say that she has tried to hurt you while you where sick. Just catch her while her back is turned and grab her from behind, don't hurt her but convince her you will do something bad to her if she continues to act that way , do something so scaring to your sister that she will regret ever messing with you.
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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way? (link)
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number one is you actually are judging her because you sad you don't like her and in my book i call it judging. so you don't get all nasty with me because you are the one who has the problem. and if my advice didn't work you don't have to get all nasty about it!!!!!!!!!! . and actually you do have the right to express your opinion but you are expressing it in the wrong way. you make it seem like you hate her . and i did not say that you made it seem like you hated her , but since you wanna make it seem like i did say that, fine you said it then
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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do? (link)
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Do you think your friend is jealous because you have something that she doesnt have, is your friend the kind of person who is like that. If your friend has never did that before just confront her and ask her is she jealous . if you think your friend will get mad if you ask her that . try to approach her in a different way.
- write me back after you did, tell me what happned. BYE-BYE!
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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but it seems like he never notices me! we talk in my math class sometimes but never outside of class! how do i get him 2 notice him cause i always dress nice and stuff but i dont know what else to do!! pleaz help! (link)
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tell him how u feel and hope for the best.GOOD LUCK ANYWAY!rite back soon.bye
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Okay so ive got this problem. theres this guyi think i like now. hes a freshman and im a sophmore. i met him like a month ago but we never really talked til just recently. but its not like talking on the phone or anything, its thruogh text messages. he came and sat with me at lunch otday but didnt really say anthing bc hes really shy. he supposidly drinks a lot and has done a lot with girls, except i find it kinda hard to belive, bc hes so shy! i think im really stratin to like him, but idk if its the person through the texts i like, or him, i mena theyre the same person, but he just acts different. well i think im really startng to fall for him. like i like him a lot, do you think i shuld tell him i like him and hope for the best or should i sit it out until he strats talking to me in person? thanks... i rate! (link)
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tell himur feelings and hope for the best.hey, u may never know might what happens.good luck!thanks and bye.rite back to see what happens.
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my girlfriends bday is coming up and im clueless on what to get her i already got her a bracelet a necklace and i dont know what to get now we have been going out 1 year and 2 months (link)
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get her a ring to match the necklace and bracelet, if u don't want to give her that give her a teddy bear with a rose and take her out.rite back to see what happens.
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I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
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I know that it is hard for you, and I know that you have tried to talk to them, but try to get through to your friends , let them know it is a serious matter, if they continue not to listen write me back.
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I want to get a mystic tan from one of those spray things before I go to Florida (in 3 days) My mom says I could but I was wondering - when I go out in the REAL sun ..will anything happen (like color of my skin wise or health) if I already have the mystic tan on? Im only going for 5 days - Do you think I should even bother w/ the mystic tan ..ah what do i do?! (link)
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this can be very harmful to your skin if you get a tan with something artificial, if you are going yo florida and you are using a mistic tanning machine, you will comeback looking very dark.
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well i found out a boy likes me and we were talking on aim and he kept saying that im pretty and stuff. . . i am shy and i know how to respond to that but its only nice to say somthign aboutt him back but what should i say, i feel funny :/ (link)
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say u cute and i like u too.talk a little bit get to no each other.then you'll no if he's the one or no.bye
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Every gel I use for my hair, makes my hair greyish and flakey. I have used numerous types and its always the same.
Is it my hair?
If not, what gel would *you* reccomend?
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that happens to me too its not your hair its the gel. the gel dries in your hair and it makes white flakes and stuff i hate that.i think all gel do that when it drys in hair. try washing your hair, blow dry it and put gel at the same time, while blow drying it, you won't see any flakes.if you don't want the flakes after you put the gel and it dries sprinkle water in your hair then comb or brush it down you won't see any white flakes. if any more questions feel free to ask. thanks and bye.
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Okay, well.. so last summer I met a guy. Well, I actually met him last spring. We live so many miles away from eachother... and it's hard to bare. I met him through a family friend, and well before I even started talking to him I knew I liked him. It was amazing. When I saw him in summer we clicked. Well, atleast I thought we did. I made a new sn, but before that he had never IMed me on mine. Recently, I called him. And it was wierd. He didn't recognize me at first. Do you think it was because he didn't expect it? Because we were close it was wierd that he acted that way. And another thing is... I don't know the next time I'll see him. I mean Im sure I will one day, just no telling when. And I know it wont necesarily work blah blah blah... but I'm not really looking for that sort of advice. What is this disgusting feeling in me whenever I try liking someone else. I feel like he's the only one. And I guess it's because we share the same morals... I like the way his voice sounds (wierd), and he's plain sweet. Maybe quirky, different... but he's cute. And I personally like him. What is this feeling I have for him? And what should I do (in general not even involving him directly)? (link)
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I know what u mean I had a crush on a boy but my friend took him i was mad at her. well you still have a feeling for him because maybe he was the first guy you liked and it probably still in your mind and its staying there. if you see him again tell him how you feel get to no each other. when ya get to no each other you probably won't have that feeling in you, you would just move on with your life believe me it happened to me and now i like this boy name alex he bagin.
if you have any more advise feel free to type me back. thanks for writing to me. bye!
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ok, so i am going shopping and i like sean john but i'm an oero (black on the outside white on the inside) and i was wondering if sean john is a black or white person brand?? (link)
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well sean john is P. diddy, he is black, but you can still wear it , there is alot of white people who wear it and even if they didn't there is nothing wrong with being different
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