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Question Posted Monday April 11 2005, 8:45 pm

Okay, well.. so last summer I met a guy. Well, I actually met him last spring. We live so many miles away from eachother... and it's hard to bare. I met him through a family friend, and well before I even started talking to him I knew I liked him. It was amazing. When I saw him in summer we clicked. Well, atleast I thought we did. I made a new sn, but before that he had never IMed me on mine. Recently, I called him. And it was wierd. He didn't recognize me at first. Do you think it was because he didn't expect it? Because we were close it was wierd that he acted that way. And another thing is... I don't know the next time I'll see him. I mean Im sure I will one day, just no telling when. And I know it wont necesarily work blah blah blah... but I'm not really looking for that sort of advice. What is this disgusting feeling in me whenever I try liking someone else. I feel like he's the only one. And I guess it's because we share the same morals... I like the way his voice sounds (wierd), and he's plain sweet. Maybe quirky, different... but he's cute. And I personally like him. What is this feeling I have for him? And what should I do (in general not even involving him directly)?

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Aunty_Zozie answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 11:47 am:
Sounds like you've just got a crush! When you connect with someone that much, of course they leave a mark! Maybe if you want to keep in touch, you should ring him again (not that soon, cos you only rang recently) and ask him if he has an email address. but just cos someone doesn't live near you doesn' mean the two of you can't keep in touch. And he probably didn't recognise you because he hasn't heard from you in a long time, and he was caught off guard. I wouldn't take it personally at all. For the meantime, however, if you don't want to contact him straight away, just go out with your mates often, have a good time, possibily meet other guys and take your mind off him by living life to the full!

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hitler_the_goat answered Monday April 11 2005, 10:35 pm:
find a boy thats closer to home
-hitler

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kiyya answered Monday April 11 2005, 10:35 pm:
I know what u mean I had a crush on a boy but my friend took him i was mad at her. well you still have a feeling for him because maybe he was the first guy you liked and it probably still in your mind and its staying there. if you see him again tell him how you feel get to no each other. when ya get to no each other you probably won't have that feeling in you, you would just move on with your life believe me it happened to me and now i like this boy name alex he bagin.
if you have any more advise feel free to type me back. thanks for writing to me. bye!

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xpianogirl89x answered Monday April 11 2005, 9:52 pm:
I'm guessing he just didn't expect to hear from you... If you want you could call him again and give him your new sn (if you haven't already done that..) and then just IM him next time he's on or what-not. Maybe keep talking to him on the phone. You definitely like him a lot.. it may just be a crush, but it could be more. You don't have to tell him right away, wait and get to know him more.. You and him could both find you're perfect for each other.. It does kinda suck he lives so far away, but maybe you can arrange to meet him again soon. That might spark something too! Good luck though!

Hope I helped!
~Lana

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coolguy answered Monday April 11 2005, 8:59 pm:
yes he didnt expect it

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