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i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!!
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It definitely sounds like austin likes you. You should probably let him know that you still like him and see what happens (it doesn't sound like this girlfriend of his will be an issue). If you like B.J then tell him, it sounds like he's upset. Ignore that bit if you end up getting back with austin, otherwise you could get into a bit of an akward situation.
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It sounds like Austin doesnt care for you as much as he used to. It seems like he still has feeling's, but because of everything else that has happend he gave up hope. I think you should tell him you still like him and you miss him. From what he says you will be able to tell if he is meant for you. Remember that even if he doesnt take you back, that everything happens for a reason, and you WILL be able to move on, its just that he isnt right for you. About BJ, i think if things dont work out for you and austin, you should give your time rest. take time off from boys and really deside if you will be happy with Bj. I hope everything goes ok, Good Luck
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It would be really nice if your dad told him it was ok for him to talk to you wouldn't it?
Sounds like you need to talk to both of them. BJ is currently available so thats a plus for him. You do need to let Austin know that he can talk to you again. He probably don't want to get into trouble with your dad so, I doubt he will approach you.
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I think that you should not go out with any of them because you would be going in between friends and they might not talk to each other no more and it will be all your fault.
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i think that first off you should talk to austin and tell him that you like him and try and really talk to him and explain your whole dad issue and when you feel like its a good time you can ask him if he likes you
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yup. he wants you still. bj is jealous because of austin. I would say go for austin and if that doesnt work, then go for bj.
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i know who this is ... and i want to help you! Austin doesnt know what he wants with girls right now. He was in a real relationship with you, then when yall broke up, he started going out with cheyenne. Him and cheyenne dont have a real relationship though, he is mostly with her for affection. Their relationship is all about kissing and making out. They dont have the relationship yall used to have. Yall used to talk on the phone for hours about anyhting, but him and cheyenne dont talk on the phone hardly at all. So that is a good sign, he doesnt have the same relationship with his new gf as he did with you. Your dad is letting you tlak to him now?? thats awesome. You need to talk to him and become friends again and then start talking more and more. I am not sure if he likes you or not because i dont even talk to him that much .. but my best guess would be for you to ask him how he feels. hope this helped! love ya chick. im me if you need anyhting else!! ohh adn bj ... he was mad about the whole murphy thing. I have no idea why he was being a butt to you wed. night tho. He does like you! i know that tho!! he told me he thought u was hott and he liked you. haha. thats soo cute!!
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I think austin moved on :-( i mean you broke up and he has a gf. now about B.J try to talk to him and let him kno how u feel. good luck sweetie xoxoxoxolexixoxoxoxo
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heyy!
the best advice i can give you is to follow your heart, and if you really and truly love him, tell him. Just be careful because if you pour your heart out, and it doesnt make a difference, it can hurt---trust me on that one!
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i think he still likes you but doesnt talk to you because of what your dad said. Now that your dad is letting you talk to him, just go up and start a conversation with him. i know it sounds hard, but you can do it! If he avoids you after yall start talkin, then i would try to get over him. But im sure he wont because of yalls past realtions. About the bj thing, if you and ausitn doesnt work out, then give bj a try, but if you and austin start getting close again, tell bj you just want to be good friends. I know all this seems hard to do because your shy adn all, but just put the shyness behind you and do it!! i mean .. if you really want things to happen with you and austin again, then you would talk to him!! hope this helped. Let me know how thigns go!!
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well first i would really stop and think for a moment it all depends on who you like more and if you go up to austin and he still avoids you than just let him be because than its clear that he dosent want to talk to you and about b.j maybe you should try to make amends and give him a try good luck rate me please
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Hey...
i think that austin still likes u but he must be afriad to say anything because he might think that your dad will go after him or something but with that kid B.J. just talk to him and tell him how u feel
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Well you were the idiot who broke up with him find someone else
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i think he still likes you, he is just too shy to say it. You should def. talk to him. ANd about B.j, just talk to him alone one day and tell him you just want to be friends and your sorry if he is mad and that you do like him alot, but only as a friend. Hope this helped! lemme know how it goes.
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