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im a dancer and i'm doing a lyrical solo for like the 4th time and i'm running out of songs. i need some songs that are really sad and tell a story. thanks.

Hey Im a dancer too, so I actually know a lot of good songs to use here are some sad ones.

"Hurt" by Johnny Cash, this is an actually amazing and sad song,and it has the perfect tempo for lyrical.

If your looking for an ausual song that not many people have heard "pennyless" by Plumb is really good. It tells a story about a homeless girl.

Another good one from Pklumb is "damaged" many people havent heard it, so it will be very original.

This are the best sad songs I have that tells stories. Ive used this songs before, they are very good for dancing.

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how do you get over a guy when you liked him for say like 2 years?! uhh..

Ok, I dont think you should start to look for guys, in the end it just going to cause more pain right now isnt? I think you should just enjoy being single, and have fun with your friends, who says you have to get another guy so soon? I know it hurts, but pain is a part of love. Just give it time, time will mend everything. The best medicine for a broken heart, are firends and laughter.

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Hi- Ever since I got my first period almost three years ago I've had a strange depository in my underwear. Im 15 and a female and I don't think that it's a yeast infection because the depository is not "clumps" or "chunks" nor is my vagina itchy, the depository is a white gooey liquid that I always see. I eat healthy and I'm still a virgin. I expected it to go away but Im starting to realise that it may actually be a problem.


help?????

Ah I get what you mean, Ive had the same thing for like four years. It's pretty normal, and as long as it stays that clear-ish color you have nothing to worry about. Eventually it will start to get less noticable. Most women DO get this when they are about to get there period, but some women get it almost everyday. If you still are concerned about it, you could always ask your docter.

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I really im in love with this boy, but he has 3 g/f`s. yea, he's a big player. i have tried and tried to get over him, but i just can't. I dont think he would really like me, because he likes darker girls like mexican girls. What should I do. (he has no clue i like him, and I wouldn't want to tell him, because I'm embarassed he'll reject me. :\)

Thanks! i RATE 5'SSS!

Look, I know you probally dont want to hear this, but if you did ask him out and said yes, he would probally just cheat on you. And then you would be even more hurt and crushed. I know its going to be hard to get over him but it will be easier to do it now, becuase it will be harder after you date him. Just be paitent there is someone out there for you. and this guy isnt the one for you.

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hi. im 13 years old and ive had a bf for 4 months. he dumped me the other day because his friends dont like me. i really like him and he likes me too. 2 minutes (literally) after he dumped me he had another gf. is he worth going back for?

P.S. ive never met his parents and hes never met mine. thanks for your help.

hey you have to look at this from his point of view, he dumped you because his friends don't like you. Well maybe he felt to much pressure from his friends and thats why he dumped you. After all you guys are just 13, and sometimes people at your age don't know how to deal with the pressures of being in a relationship. However if he does have another girlfriend so soon, I think you should forget about him. There are plenty of other mature guys out there. and your only 13, you have plenty of time to date, whats the rush? if this guy is so cruel to dump and go out with someone else, i say forget about that loser.

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One of my guy friends, Blake, is interested in one of my girl friends, Allie. Allie is like super mean to him and she tells everyone she doesn't like him. and Blake keeps asking me what he should do about it. I can't just say forget about her because he likes her a lot. What should I say to him?

Tell him, that you don't think she really wanst a relationship or anything right now. Tell him "hey look, I dont think Allie is really right for you right now. I know you like her, but there are plenty of other girls who like you."just break it to him, but just in a nicer and more gentle way then just "forget about her"

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i'm starting highschool this year, and our highschool is so old and sucky that it doesnt have AC anywhere in the building so its SUPER hott inside, anyways.. i was wondering if anyone knew of a really really good deoderant that would stop the sweat. i know i should use one with antiperspirant. right now i am using ADIDAS ACTIVE ANTI-PERSPIRANT for women, in the gel form. i used to use DOVE INVISIBLE SOLID, but that didnt work too well. not only do i want a deoderant for school, but that will work when i play sports too. (i play soccer & run varsity track) 14/f thanks, i rate 5's

Use Certain Dri, Is it amazing. It plugs your pores so you wont sweat at all. I found mine at Ulta. Just put on at night and the next day you wont sweat a drop, you can even leave it there for up to three days.

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Well Lately people have been spreading rumours about me that I am easy and a slut and stuff. And then one of my really good friends called me easy and a slut and it really hurt meh! And I really hate rumours like this! it hurts meh really badly. And also lately my parents have been yelling at me about stupid phone bills! And my dad pushed my sister about it and it really scared meh! I used to be abused when I was little but my family got help and its ok now but when he pushed her it just brought back all the bad memorys! Also for about two yeaars up until around march I was suicidal but then I got the cops called on meh and they came to my house and it was really scary so I stopped cause I didnt want that to happen again! Also I was anerexic and balimic on and off for about 2 years also. Lately alot of things have been happening that have made me want to result back to cutting but I don`t want to and I find myself going into the bathroom alot staring at blades just thinking about it and wanting to but then I come in my room and stay here. Also Sense the rumours I have been feeling useless and like I`ll never find a guy that will treat meh good and Ive just felt like I wont ever be special to anyone and its been getting me really depressed. Wanting to work out heavely to make myself look prettyer. I dont know what to do! I Want to know ways to look prettyer and maybe get guys to like meh and I need advice on my cutting and all the other stuff I wrote about! please help
14/f
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love maddie

I know you dont want to hear this, but you dont need any guy write now. It just causes more drama in life. Look your beautiful the way you are, and you dont need to change for anybody. Look i know a lot of bad things are going on rite now, but you need to be strong and focous on the good things in life. And about your parents, I kow being abused must have been terrifying for you, but things are better now. And even though the abuse wasn't your fault, try to stay on your father's safe side. for example dont run up the phone bills. about cutting yourself, maybe you should get professional help with that, becuase hurting yourself should never be the solution. I hope I helped and I hope everything gets better in your life.

~Everything happend for a reason~

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i'm 14 years old, and i was raped about a month ago. my friend got helped me get a couple of pregnancy tests, and they all turned up positive. i'm really scared to tell my parents, because i was at a party that i wasn't supposed to be at when it happened. i'm a volleyball player for my school, and last year we almost won the championships. i don't want to throw my entire life away, but i know that i would never be able to put my baby up for adoption. i'd wonder every day if she/he was safe, or if they hated me for abandoning them. i'm strongly against abortion...but i'm starting to wonder if maybe that's the right choice in this situation. i haven't told either of my parents yet...should i keep the baby or is abortion ok sometimes?

Look, I know it's going to be scary telling your parents, but they love you. They'll forgive you for being at the party. But you do have to tell your parents as soon as you can. Of course its going to be your decision to have an abortion or not, and everone has different sides on this issue, but if you DO have an abortionit will haunt you forever. My cousin had an abortion, and it haunts her everyday. You said everyday you would wonder if your child would be safe, we'll isnt that better than wondering what your child could be like? think about it, do you want to take away your child's chance to live? My best advice would to give it up for adoption. If you kept the baby, it would'nt be really fare to him/her. A child should be able to live in a home, where he/she is safe and their parents can be there for them 24/7. There are millions of parents who would love to have a baby, because they cant have one of their own. Talk to your parents, and good luck with your decision.

~God is watching over you~

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

Tell her, because if she finds out you didn't tell her, she'll feel like you dont trust her. She should understand, but if she doesn't and she judges you then she's not right for you. I know you dont want her to break up with you, but you've only been going out for two months, and you young. There are plenty more girls out there who wont care what your religion is.

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Ok well I just moved to a new town and well that means i'm gonna be a new girl. I mean i'm not ugly.I'm 5'2", have blonde kinda short hair, gray eyes, i'm pretty skinny but i've got a butt and a pretty big bust and I'm gonna be a freshman. But my question is would u still ask me on a date even thou i'm a new girl and a fish?(if you were a single guy at my new highschool)

hope you can help me.
I'll rate 5's to any one who answers!!!!!!!

As sure as your nice, outgoing and friendly, someone will probaly ask you out. But there are no guarentees. Besides you want someone to ask you out becuase of your personality, not just becuase of your looks right? Just becuase your new, doesnt mean no one will like you. You just have to be careful about the choices you make.

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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx

Yes it is normal,girls come in all different sizes. guys do tend to like bigger breasts, but if a guy really cares about you he wont care about your breast size.

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13/f

okay heres the thing. i kind of like my guy best friend. but the problem is, i cant like him. My other best friend is practically dating him. But i cant help but like him anyways. I dont really know what to do about these feelings. I know I cant actually do anything. And im sure he doesnt like me. But i just wish he did. I can move on, and i do. I like other guys, but i still like him. Nobody knows how i feel & i wouldnt know how to tell them. And i dont think i should. I mean I just.. dont know what i can do.. and im not sure how anyone can help me here.. but i just keep holding this inside of me, and its really starting to hurt.. what can i do?

help please!!

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I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. If she's truely your friend she'll talk back and try to understand. I dont think you should try anything to him, because even if he does like you, it will hurt your friend, and at your age friends are more important than guys. I know your feelings are frusterating, and annoying, but thats a part of liking someone. Pain is a big part of love. Just dont rush into anything and think about your friend's feelings.

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ok I like this boy who is a year older than me...where neighboors and i really like him!! sometimes when my bff comes over we play soccer with him and his friend..how can I tell if he likes me? And should I ask him out? plaese help

He would probally flirt with you a lot, and will want to spend as much time with you ask he could if he likes you. my advice would be dont ask him out yet,wait a while but dont wait to long for someone else to ask him out. just wait enough to see if you really like him, and if he thinks he likes you.

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Ok i've bin out with this boy 12 times I really love him and he told me that he wanted kids with me and that he loves me but recently his ex got jealous i bbroke up with him because me and his ex had an argument this caursed all my other mates to fall out with me now he's going back out with his other ex and has recently started being nasty to me I still really love him and can't stop thinking about him also i'm going out with someone else and he's threatened to beat them up if they don't dump me he thinks he can have as many people as he likes but just won't get off my case when I try so the question I want to ask is if you were me what would you do about this boy??? thankyou if you help i'll rate you high if not I won't rate you at all

I think you should move on, it'll be hard but it doesnt sound like you guys were meant to be. I know its hard getting over a guy, but you'll find out that there are other people out there. just try dating other guys and enjoy life. good luck, and remember "no guy is worth crying over, and if he is he wouldnt make you cry"

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my best friend who i love like a sister ran away today to MY house! i told her to go back. but she wouldnt. finally i got her to call her dad and then a police officer came to pick her up and bring her home. now her mom and dad hate me because they think i told her to come to my house. i wasnt expecting her at all!! one minute i was talking to her on AIM then her away message said out. wont be back any time soon. then i heard a knock. but how can i get *especially her mom* to like me again? HELP! any useless answers will recieve a 1. any good answers will recieve a 5.

Tell her parents the truth, that she ran to you, and you tried to tell her to go back. be nice and polite and tell them that you really care about your friend and that you wouldnt tell her to do something like run away. I hope I helped, good luck.

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I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him?

dont risk it, you dont want a bad reputaion for a guy you only kind of like. also you dont want to ruin things with your friends. i think you should just let it go and try to find someone else. anyway if you really like him and want to take this risk then just take baby steps like flirting.but never just start making out with a guy, if you have to do that to get a guy, then that guy isnt right for you.

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so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f

takeing a break is usally when people dont want to lose the person the have, but they want to date other people too. the problem with takeing a break is that, you guys wont be the same. who knows what could happen in the break in between, you guys could fine someone else you like. my best advice would be to break up, i know you love him and its hard, but life will move on and he's just not right for you. good luck, and i hope everything works out ok.

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Me and one of my best friends, Morgan, are in a fight. I'm not even sure what it is about anymore. I have said that I am sorry but she wont forgive me. What else can I do to get our friendship back on track?

Tell her that you are truely sorry, and you miss having her as a friend. tell her that its no use fighting anymore, and that you wish she will forgive you. tell her how much she means to you and how much she has help you in her life. just tell her how you really feel. good luck.

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Ok i'm 13 and i still kinda have baby cheeks...(not very extreme baby cheeks but they're still anoying) lol Is there any way you can reduce the size of them? I know your supposed to grow into them or something like that, but is there any way to get rid of them?
Thnx~

Sorry but there is not much you can do at your age. Your young just give it time before you lose them. Your beautiful the way you are, everyone tries looking the same nowadays. I think you should just not worry about your cheeks and show up your uniqueness.

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