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GUY BEST FRIEND
13/f
okay heres the thing. i kind of like my guy best friend. but the problem is, i cant like him. My other best friend is practically dating him. But i cant help but like him anyways. I dont really know what to do about these feelings. I know I cant actually do anything. And im sure he doesnt like me. But i just wish he did. I can move on, and i do. I like other guys, but i still like him. Nobody knows how i feel & i wouldnt know how to tell them. And i dont think i should. I mean I just.. dont know what i can do.. and im not sure how anyone can help me here.. but i just keep holding this inside of me, and its really starting to hurt.. what can i do?
help please!!
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I know EXACTLY how you feel.
First you need to consider your relationship with your friend, and respect how she feels. You need to find out if she would or wouldn't accept the fact that you like him. If she wouldn't, it's not worth it. No boy in the world is worth losing your best friend over. However, if she would accept it, the best thing you can do is tell him how you feel, and find out how he feels about you. When I told my boy how I felt, he told me he felt the same. The problem was, since my best friend was in love with him, we couldn't be together. We both had no choice but to move on. Him and I are still very close, but we've chosen to ignore our 'extra feelings'. And though it hurts, I don't regret not having a relationship with him. Boys come and boys go, but you'll have friends for the rest of your life.
Good luck dear. <3
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I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. If she's truely your friend she'll talk back and try to understand. I dont think you should try anything to him, because even if he does like you, it will hurt your friend, and at your age friends are more important than guys. I know your feelings are frusterating, and annoying, but thats a part of liking someone. Pain is a big part of love. Just dont rush into anything and think about your friend's feelings.
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I know exactly how you feel. My friend and I both like this one boy yet, I don't think he wants a girlfriend right now. There will be new boys....so just try to move on. But you don't have to stop thinking about him completely.....You can still dream.....thats what I do...
Good Luck!
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you should probably tell him. and have a talk with your friend. express your feelings. who knows, maybe itll work for you?
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you need to tell both your friend and him how you feel you need to make your feelings clear because if you bottle them up it will eat away at you express how you really feel tell you mate that I no your closer to him than me but maybe for my sake can we both stick with him or can she back down abit and say if your really my true friend then you'd understand but if she doesn't then ditch her with him you need to talk to him alone and tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same way then move on I know it's hard but trust me it works just talk to someone and have a good cry get a movie and some chocolates and then it will be alot easier hope I helped sophie
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heyy hun. well since you are so young..my advice would be that you have plenty of time for plenty of guys! if you really like him though, talk to your best friend! tell her you like, and find out if she would mind if you dated him. if she does, don't go out with him. you don't want to ruin your relationship with your girl best friend over a guy do you? but if she doesn't want you to go out with him..if you tell her you like him, you can tell her that it would bother you if she went out with him too! just don't let it bother you that much because believe me, you will have a lot of boyfriends in your life. some of them just won't work out in your favor, such as this one!! Good Luck! if you need anymore help you can IM me on AIM (UrSoGorgeOusx)
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