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im asking this question personally because i really like your advice. =) also because i need this kind of fast because its about tonight. i have 2 good friends, but i this summer i have done A LOT more stuff with one friend than the other, idk why. i guess its because more of the plans work out. well, that made the friend that im not doing as much stuff with sad and jealous i guess. i told her we might be able to do something tomorrow, but i remembered that me and the friend that i do stuff with alot already had plans. =/ i dont want to be mean and tell her she cant come over because i have plans with the other girl. i really want to do what me and my friend have plans for. i dont want to bail out on her. idk what to do cause somehow the sad friend will find out that i'm doing something and be even more sad, or maybe even mad at me. =(
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oh im sorry i didnt get o your question in time :( well i hope everything well !
Sorry again.. i had no internet use since sunday :(
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Well I definitely see the dilemma here. Is it COMPLETELY out of the question for the girl that you don't spend too much time with to join you and your other friend on tomorrow's escapades? I'm shore she'd be more than thrilled to do so. Perhaps she'd be a bit disappointed, seeing as how I'm shore she would rather it be ONLY you and her, but I suppose it would be better than nothing, right??? I say, if possible, invite her to join you two tomorrow, and then set aside a day or even two the following weekend to spend with her, and HER ONLY. But even if it's not a good idea for her to join you tomorrow.. you ALREADY HAVE PLANS... end of story. You don't bail on one to bum around with another; that's just rude.. Just tell her you have prior engagements, and canceling them would simply be unfair to the other party. She'll probably be disappointed yes... but a deal is a deal, and you were already booked up. I'm shore she'll understand. Perhaps next time you could be a bit more careful when setting up weekend plans, as not to hurt anybody.
Hopefully everything works out! :D
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Aww, thanks! Don't exclude the other girl. Ask her if she would like to join you and your other friend, or just tell the friend that you've been hanging out with the most that you want to hang out with the other girl because you've been neglecting her a little too much. She'll probably understand. :)
♥ Brooke
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