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Lovestruck in Maryland
Hello. Im in love. Soooo....Ive told two of my close guy friends that I like him (they are pretty good friends with "him" too) and I've been hanging out A LOT with "him" this summer. Both of my guy friends say I should tell him I like him and one of them says that we "radiate" and guessed we liked eachother before I got the chance to tell him that the me-liking-him part was true. I get strong feelings that he likes me back a lot but at the same time i get insecure that he doesnt with some of his actions.
So....Summary:
I dont know if I should tell this guy or not that I like him. Dont guys make the first move? I really want something to happen but Ive had my heart broken before and I dont really want that to happen again. If he liked me wouldnt he be doing something?
Ive been hanging out with him for about 3 months but the whole crush thing started about a month ago.
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!!!
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Just spend time with him and when the time is right, maybe ask him. Usually guys make the first move but it's ok for girls too. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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okay the term 'guys making the first move' is like kissing and stuff. YOU have to tell him you like him FIRST. guys are way to shy, well most of them. so just casually bring it up because obviously he likes you back and if not, then there are plenty of other guys out there. good luck!
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Okay.. Well i understand the whole issue on you not wanting to get your heartbroken again. Not all guys are the same but MOST are. Just be sure not to rush into the relationship. You should tell him how you feel and then take it from there. Hope I helped =]
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There's nothing wrong with the woman making the first move. Many time guys are interested but are afraid that you're not. Maybe he's shy. Since your guy friends your guy friends say he is interested and they would be in a position to know, I don't think you have to worry about getting turned down.
I know it's hard to trust a guy after being hurt before, but just take your time getting to know this guy before letting yourself get emotionally involved and I think you'll be fine.
Good luck with your crush. I wish you the best.
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just a sudgestion, but have u ever considered hes just not that into you.
well, i cant say that for sure, he might like you he might not.
get to know one of his guy friends and ask him who "he" likes.
in the mean time, flirt w/ him like crazy.
hope i could help and good luck!!!
if a guy likes you he will make the first move, trust me (unless he is uber shy) guys go after wat they want.
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You can't always wait for the guy to make the first move. In this day and age, girls make the first move too. Alternatively, you could hold your tongue and he coud get someone else and you've missed your chance. He could just be shy or afraid of rejection. I think you should totally make the first move or else you'll never for sure how he feels. Start slowly if you like.. ask him to see a movie and see how it progresses from there. You don't have to tell him right away that you like him. Start flirting with him too and see how he responds to that.
Good luck.
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